i have been with my girlfriend 3 1/2 years and we live together. i work on the road and she is back home. she always hangs out with her friends that are married, but there are always other guys around but they are only around when I am not there. she goes on these trips and they all spend the night together but she says she shares a bed with her female friend that is married. I am not saying she is cheating but i think she might be lying and letting the married couple sleep together but not telling me just so I wont get mad. I always ask so many questions but i feel I am asking too many questions and she is starting to get upset because I think she might not be telling the truth even though she has never cheated on me (that I know of).
2007-06-03 10:38:45 · 13 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should meet those guys and get to know them. There's no reason they should only come around when you're not there.
2007-06-03 10:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married. I would sleep with my husband, not my friend. She is either teetering on the edge of cheating or already IS cheating. What else does she have going for her? She sounds boring and unmotivated. Besides........she is NOT in a committed relationship with you. It doesn't sound like she is in a monogamous relationship with you either. She is just there to help with the rent. My advice? Don't have children with her. Use a rubber.
2007-06-03 17:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds really suspicious. Why was she even spending the night over there in the first place? Isnt she a little too old for sleepovers?...You need to have a serious talk with her. Sounds pretty fishy to me.
2007-06-03 17:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, have some faith in her...or if you think she is lying, talk to her about it - maybe ask to go on one of the trips when you are back in town and/or talk to the married friends? if you feel like you can't trust her though, that's a problem in and of itself... it's hard being apart, hope things work out for ya.
2007-06-03 17:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by sepiarose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don`t trust her you just may have the problem. if the two of you have been together for three and a half years and you don`t trust her yet you may never totally trust her so maby you should think about moving on and find someone you can trust not to cheat while your away.
2007-06-03 17:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by john w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think if she has been with you over 1 year she is kinda serious about you so if i were u ....i woulndt doubt her love just let her have fun with the girls and if she decides to cheat then its her lost dont get your panties all in a bunch thinking she unfaithful oh and some additional advice when you do come home from the road make sure you show her she is appreciated with flowers ....candlelights and things like that.goodluck
2007-06-03 17:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Futurebride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trust her! your away a lot and im sure it gets lonley when your away from her maybe you should think about getting another job so she wont have to spend nights alone.
2007-06-03 17:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by xkissxkasx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u have a right to know why are these guys never around when u are? that reason it self should let give u an idea of what's going on.
2007-06-03 17:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by JZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be dating if you can't trust her. If she liked them more than you, than what the heck would she be doing dating and living with you? Think. Chill out.
2007-06-03 17:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well asking alot of questions is not a bad thing, it means you have a heart, if you did that, your question to her would be "would you be threaten" if she said no, then maybe she is cheating. i would think most people who are human would like this.
2007-06-03 17:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by scandleight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋