Other - Family & Relationships - 17 April 2007

2007-04-17 23:19:20 · 17 answers · asked by choocolate123 1

I have two guys that like me right now and theyre both nice guys but...one is into stuff that im not into and never will be,and the other is kinda boring and comes from practicaly a different world then me...i dont have too much ntrest in either...but i'm kinda lonely lol...should i settle for now?

2007-04-17 23:03:18 · 16 answers · asked by Cherry 1

Met a guy around 10 months ago, we were like best friends as well as lovers, got on so well fun wise & intellectually. He 28, me 23. He isn't too sure about having a relationship at this stage in his life. he is very immature & kind of messed me about in the process with broken promises due to his inability to be with me. I gave him 1 last chance to decide what he wanted & he decided that it would be best to be friends 4 now as he wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship with any1 right now & that I deserve the best. He said that if he were to be with any1 it would be me but he is not looking for any commitments right now. So I have tried moving on & he still keeps calling me like 2 or 3 times a week to see how I am. So I decided to tell him that it would be best if we went our separate ways as he doesnt want anything right now, so therefore I need to move on! and he doesnt see why we cant stay friends! I have now started giving things a go with someone else

2007-04-17 22:01:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 21:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by olin1963 6

about women/wives liking a spanking, and the negetive responses I recieved essentially attacking "me" rather than addressing the question, do you think it's a case of "me thinks she doeth protest too much?"..... or is it a case of prudes who believe that you'll go to hell if you do it doggie style? Of the eight responses I've gotten at this time, one was positive towards spanking, and seven were not. On that ratio, is it safe to conclude that one out of every eight women on Y! Answers enjoy either a spanking, riding crop, paddles, etc?

Please ladies, try to look at my question objectively rather than vent your feminist prose. All it does is reflect a lack or self control and insecurity in your submissive natures. In order for your answer to be heartfelt, you must understand that G.I. Jane was just a friggin movie. No offense intended.

2007-04-17 20:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend wants to get a bike but i know what he is like he l end up hurting himself or worse, i already told him that if he gets one we are gonna fall out big time, and i dont even know how he will even afford it.what can i say to him to stop him getting one?i really love him and care about him thats why i dont want him getting hurt

2007-04-17 20:36:17 · 19 answers · asked by Mal S 1

Simply to keep the peace.

2007-04-17 20:28:35 · 16 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

I don't know why there is any debate on this. the sibling hit and emotionally abused another sibling never owned up to or apologized or made it right and this sibling is still traumatized to be around them, if it was the same situation and the person wasn't a blood relation, family wouldn't expect that sibling to sit with them at dinner and pretend all was ok...

2007-04-17 19:03:32 · 8 answers · asked by kewtber 3

Well heres the thing my husband of 4 years has a 7 year old daughter that we havent seen in 2 years in may and he pays 152.00 dollars a week for chil support and we have two daughters together but we cant seem to make ends meet on our end do you know what i can do to get his support lowered i dont think i would mind it so much if we were able to see the child..her mother just doesnt like me i even told mu husband i would divorce him just so he could see her but we have been through the whole court thing we have custody arangments but she just dont follow them we have even called the police but they couldnt do anything because they dont deal with that kind of stuff so please if anyone can help me i would appreciate it...

2007-04-17 17:08:58 · 2 answers · asked by PROUD PARENT 2

does this sound too depressing




You’ll remember when I’m dead
By: Shelby Hutto


Here I go
It’s a black abyss
There isn’t a thing that I will miss
This is my place
My time for this


It is my own
My sweet escape
The grief will be over you
Like a dark, dark drape


I’m ready now that I’ve written this note
I think that it’s my time to go
I hold the gun
And from behind the door
I hear you scream “no!”


But you’re too late
You’ve missed your cue
But at the end of the tunnel
I’ll wait for you
Oh wait I forgot
Your “soul mate” will be there too
Anxiously, anxiously waiting for you


Uh huh, yeah she’s gone too
Was it because of me?
Or because of you?

2007-04-17 17:05:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that when black women are stereotyped there are tons of black men who can't wait to chime in? Don't they realize they make themselves (& us as a whole) look like fools to everyones else, & give the racists even more ammunition. I'm not saying we shouldn't discuss our faults, but there is nothing constructive about opinionate one sided , slandering posts.

2007-04-17 16:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by NativeAtlantean 5

I like to be naked when I am in my room. I will be playing video games in the nude when my mom comes in to ask if I have any dirty laundry. I give her the laundry and she acts like nothing happened. Sometimes when I am hard, my mom looks down at my privates. I often walk to the laundry room that is in the basement of my house from my upstairs right past my mom. She usually just says hi as I pass. One time, I asked if I could watch a movie in the nude one night because I didn't want to put on new clothes that I would just take off right after the movie. She agreed and even came down to watch part of the movie with me.

NOTHING SEXUAL.

I am 15 years old and live with my single mom.

2007-04-17 16:30:55 · 26 answers · asked by bobby 1

My wife left me 2 years ago because she cheated on me and became pregnant. This has left me very jealous. I am in love with a beautiful, gorgeous woman but my past seems to be effecting our relationship. I know she would never cheat on me, but I still think about the worse possible outcome- er leaving me. I am getting married to her in Feb of 08 and I want this jealousy of mine to end before we get married

2007-04-17 16:29:09 · 11 answers · asked by William H 1

2007-04-17 16:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by Callie B 1

Everyone has their own past.And everyone has secrets and in relationships- it is up to an individual to share it with significant other.
I am just curious because I am very closed about mine and I think that certain things should not be shared as they can be view by another person totally different!

2007-04-17 16:20:35 · 3 answers · asked by Bonanza 2

2007-04-17 16:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by smittenkitten1021 2

I am a victim of ongoing non-self-defense violence at the hands of a woman, and am having trouble finding resources for men who are victims of abuse.

Any suggestions for where I can find help?

2007-04-17 16:07:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

"I don't give a damm about your feelings" how would you handle that especially if it came from the guy you've loved for the past 10yrs!

2007-04-17 16:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex was an abusive alcoholic and I grew to hate the smell of alcohol. now we have been apart for two years and I am drinking a pint or more of whiskey at least three times a week or more. I am starting to have problems with it. The day after, I have been fainting, which comes off as convulsions or seizures to the ppl around me. I cant stop because I don't want to. I will not go to AA. Been there done that when I was a teen. Why do you think I am doing this to myself? I'm in a wonderful relationship now, but am making him miserable with my drinking, but I don't want to stop. Just want him to get over it.

2007-04-17 16:00:09 · 3 answers · asked by chaninjo 1

Heres the deal...

I am dating the guy of my dreams. We have been dating for 4 years! His mom and my aunt work together and she talks a lot of crap about everyone... and yet.. people find her as a "saint" ... like she's perfect and only a few have saw her TRUE colors. Anyway.. One day, I told my aunt exactly what she had said about her and her friends.. Well, she told her friends (which deserved to know in my eyes) And of of them confronted the "monster in law" and she lied right to their faces!!! Making me out to be the liar. Well this woman is really getting on my nerves!!! What can I do about it?? My fiance' and I have been engaged for almost a year now, and I love him very much therefore i'm trying to keep all of her drama down... but i've ran out of ideas.. can anyone help me deal with monster in law's DRAMA?

2007-04-17 15:58:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been living with him for 8 months now and he's been unemployed for 4 months now. he goes to school full time and says he has no time to find a job. i pay all the bills and rent and im frustrated. i want to start school soon but can because he cant help me out financially.

we've talked about it before but nothing has changed. what do i do?

2007-04-17 15:52:14 · 9 answers · asked by turandotgreenfire 1

Come on - dream big. Where would you live, be doing, who with, in what...........et cetera.

2007-04-17 15:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am at uni but i dont think i want a career any more. I think i would rather marry a rich guy and be spoilt for the rest of my life.

2007-04-17 15:00:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-17 14:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by tushpush1966 3

I'm fourteen & a good daughter. I get straight A's & I always try to help her when I can. She bought me Proactiv last month & I was really grateful & I used it every day. I used the cleanser in the shower because I thought that was okay. When I casually told her that, she suddenly yelled at me saying I had to use it at the sink, not the shower. & she kept yelling & screaming saying that's stupid & I'm an idiot who doesn't have any sense & I started bawling tears. Then she just went on calling me an idiot & saying I don't appreciate anything & she was dumb for trusting me & I'm bad. I just don't know what to do, I just can't stop crying, what did I do wrong?

2007-04-17 14:17:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. My bf and i brokeup, but were working things out.. Im diganosed with Lukemia (bone cancer)just recently, now i have his ex threating to seriously hurt me, because she thought i said something about her and she wants my ex back, I dont know what to do, i have other things i need to be more worried about. I never get into this drama BS stuff. Please help me.

2007-04-17 14:15:53 · 14 answers · asked by Jenni J 1

2007-04-17 12:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by x_chynadoll814_x 4

2007-04-17 12:50:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

He already told me he has a crush on me.
He sent me a note, and ever since there he is... staring right at me!
oh and 2 other guys sent me notes! (i only like 1 of them though! but didn't tell him that)

2007-04-17 12:49:36 · 18 answers · asked by becca 3

well.. we've tried it multiple times over the past year or more.. shes almost 18 im 16.. and well.. it just doesnt fit?

anyone know why this might be happening.. i do everything to try and warm things up for awhile before and get everything going. just wont work?

2007-04-17 12:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous