Hi. My bf and i brokeup, but were working things out.. Im diganosed with Lukemia (bone cancer)just recently, now i have his ex threating to seriously hurt me, because she thought i said something about her and she wants my ex back, I dont know what to do, i have other things i need to be more worried about. I never get into this drama BS stuff. Please help me.
2007-04-17 14:15:53 · 14 answers · asked by Jenni J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-04-17 14:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Orange? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your b/f needs to set things straight with her! She should be his problem not yours. If she is still insistent, then have a restraining order against her. If nothing else, when you hear these threats, call the police. Maybe that will put enough scare in her to get her to back off. You should be focusing on you right now and NOT this immature girl! I am sorry about the Leukemia. I would love to be there for you if you need someone to talk to! my email is tcconssw@yahoo.com Good Luck, Shantell
2007-04-17 14:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by tcconssw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on why you and you BF broke up in the beginning. And for the threatening person, well all i ahve to say is to make a report to the police. They will settle things for you. So if you truly love you BF or soon to become BF then get back with him.. (refer to the first question) I mean yeah i am srry if this wasnt helpful.
2007-04-17 14:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Q-tip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are the girl is bluffing. I know it's hard but try not to focus on that, the stress won't help your health. focus on getting better and don't worry about your ex's threats. be the adult in this situation and just walk away. find things you like to do to keep your sprirts up.
good luck with your health.
"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with G-d and with eternity."
2007-04-17 14:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by tovah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably contact your local police station and have an AVO placed against this pathetic individual....
If you are just not wanting to receive the phone calls, you can have the number blocked by your service provider. There are provisions under the Telecommunications act that you can have them charged with intimidation as it is illegal to use a personal device to intimidate or threaten.... Good luck, If it was in Sydney, I would intimidate them.,......
2007-04-17 14:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by natoli_john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't get into it...if he can't tell his ex to back off,then you need to drop him like a hot potato.You do have better things to worry about than this,I agree,so tell him how you feel and about what his ex said to you......if he doesn't fix the problem,then move on even if it is hard to do so.
2007-04-17 14:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by veronica l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf and you are trying to work things out, you should talk to him about this and have her stop. With this other crap going on in your life you certainly don't need to be living your own soap opera. If he cares about you, he will help you with the situation. And if all else fails, call and report this to the police.
2007-04-17 14:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by benji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearest Jenni, is normal you are scare. You are so right, you have more important things to worry about. Live life the best you can...for sure you will find out more people who worth to be with...
Best regards
Sincerely
from Mexico
Juan
2007-04-17 17:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document everything! Call the police! And tell you ex to get his girl under control!!!
Maybe if he explains things to her she will get a grip.....most people are not that crazy........hopefully
God Bless You! I wish the best for you.
2007-04-17 14:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell himto make a choice! stand up 4 ya slef
2007-04-17 14:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You now have more important stuff to worry about. just deal with your bone cancer now, if he is still there after-wards ,OK if not OK...
2007-04-17 14:32:06 · answer #11 · answered by doris W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋