Other - Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

I am 27, very pritty girl and my second husband is 46, not bad looking also. We just got married 1 year ago. It is for both of us is second marriage. He was alone before me during 7 years and when he met me, he was so happy that finally he can make family again. I never had problem to find men, but I had bad expirience about cheating. Well,I decided to marry him, becourse I saw that he really love me, and I never thought that he will ever looks at other girls at his age. But after half year slowly I discover many new things about my new husband: writing to other young girls ("friends") on Internet, constant looking photos of nude gils, cheking 18 y.o girls on the street. At the begining I ask him don't do it, after I started to fight. But the result - he just start hide it. I worry about all this, becourse I lost trust to him. I know, that he will never find girl like me, if I will leave him. how he can be so stupid and risk.

2007-03-18 09:33:25 · 7 answers · asked by Charlebois S 1

My biggest regret is hurting those i love! just wish i had thaught before i did the things i have done!

2007-03-18 09:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by meow 2

I devoted everything to this girl, and i tried to make her happy in anyway i could. it lasted over two years, but now she has decided that she wants to move on. it wasnt a story book relationship ( are there really any?) but i imagined the rest of my life with her. she says that she doesnt want to make it work anymore. i know it could work if she put effort into it, but she doesnt want to and i cant make her. i hear everybody's suggestion and understand them, but its so hard to move on. it really hurts. how is it that we could love someone so much and try to do nothing but the best for them and not get the same in return?

2007-03-18 09:23:05 · 2 answers · asked by Jim+ 1

2007-03-18 09:22:22 · 2 answers · asked by Optimistic 6

I want to go visit my ex-boyfriend at college because we're still good friends. I told my parents that I would be spending the night so we could actually go out at night, but they said absolutely not. How can I convince them to let me go? I need to grow up sometime and they can't always be hanging on to me like this.

2007-03-18 09:10:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

are they really the ones you can never forget?

and if you find love again, and really truly believe you are inlove, is there still a part of them that stays with you, like a fond memory or just the fact they were the first person to ever claim your heart!!

2007-03-18 09:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by meow 2

I have been so scared for the past 3 months and have been having the worst anxiety about the thought of me falling out of love or not being with my boyfriend forever.

We have been together for 6 months. He is the 1st "nice guy" I have ever dated. I have always been in emotinally draining and abusive relationships and finally decided to get out of it.....

I still enjoy spending time with him, going away on wknd just the 2 of us, we still have a great intimacy life, he makes me laugh and he is so genuine, caring, hot, sincere, trustworthy etc....

It probably sounds like I am going crazy right now but I just for some reason do not feel like this is all happening or it is not real or something?!??!

Why is this happening? Since I have always been with abusive losers i have never got past that infatuation stage but now that I have gotten past it I dont know if it is normal or how to even know what normal is?!??!

Thank You!!!

2007-03-18 09:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

In my case, I'm dating a man who's 10 yrs older than myself, i'm 19 he's 29... Some people tell me that the age difference plays an important part, some say he's too old, others say i'm too young and so on.. They keep telling me that we're both at two very different points in our lives and that at one point or the other it'll result in a problem..

Thing is, I've always enjoyed the company of older men rather than that of guys my age [[most of them act a bit too immature for my taste.. although i'm not saying they all do]]

So now I wanna know what the rest of you with experience in this matter [[or no experience at all]] have to say about it.. I appreciate your opinions :O) Thanks.

xoxo

2007-03-18 09:00:53 · 20 answers · asked by ☆Karma☆ 6

Is it out of boredom, out of curiosity, in search of a thrill or whatever else? Have you ever cheated? If so, has your relationship lived to regret it? If not, have you ever been tempted?

2007-03-18 08:58:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy in my grade. and he likes me. but he wont ask me out. why???? what goes through a guys head when he likes a girl?? is he embarrassed?? i am not that apalling! i am 5 foot 2. i have brown hair and blue eyes. i get good grades. i was elected most outgoing in my grade. i have too many friends. i ama athlete. this all sounds fine to me. but maybe not to him. why wont he ask me out!!!???!?!!???!!???!!!

2007-03-18 08:57:21 · 11 answers · asked by jo_bro_hoe_9890 2

i wanna hear some funny ones!! i have the wfunniest though. email me at love2swim9892@yahoo.com if you wanna hear it. it is sooooooooo embarrassing. but now i wanna hear yours. do NOT leave any dtails out!!

2007-03-18 08:44:11 · 5 answers · asked by jo_bro_hoe_9890 2

South africa is filled with crime and all u ever hear about is people dying, young women and babies getting raped, innocent people getting shot and mugged. Will this ever stop or do we have to wait for the world to an end..but then it will be too late. I mean we cant ven walk on the beach at night coz we will never know what may happen to us....and its scary. iWish i was born in another country where i could be in peace. Everyday i feel like crying and tourists dont like to visit this country coz of the crime here and its ambarrasing. Our government is doing nothing to save this country, all they do is talk...i am fed uo and everyday i have to live my life in fear not knowing what's going to happen.

2007-03-18 08:43:55 · 4 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2

okay. i have this best friend and we started to tlk in oct. and i thought we were going to go out but we didnt know eachother that great well then a another girl comes around and they go out but now are broken up and i still and always have liked him. when they broke up i talked to him for hours on the phone computer and we hung out all the time and we still do becasue were wicked close friends, but hes involved with this other girl but when i ask him if there going out he says no, and i ask why he says because he doesnt want to go out right now and hes not planning on going out with her, should i have one of my friends ask him if he likes me or has any feelings like this or should i ask myself or should i just let it be because it cold ruin are wickd close friendships. oh btw me and him hang out all the time we talk during school and we text eachother to and when were not on the phone together were talking on the computer and if not were hanging out. pleease help!

2007-03-18 08:43:13 · 2 answers · asked by help needed! 1

If u had just a few last hours left on earth ..what would u do and who would u spend it with?

2007-03-18 08:32:04 · 19 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2

He makes my life a living HELL, and i don't even talk to him anymore. Everything i see remindsme of him. I told him i wasn't ready to tlak to him, yet today he did anyways. Claiming "We can be friends can't we? I mean we were really close." and i told him that i still wasn't over it. I TOLD him. I told him way before any of this happened. And yet he still tlaked to me. I mean jesus, He can go through life without me. I know i'll live without him. So why can't he just get out of my life. Sometimes i wish i had never met him. Noone has ever upset me more than he has. I don't think they ever could. he knew how to make me feel lower than dirt and he did it every chance he got. He loved to makeme feel guilty and like a total screw up. I know he is doing perfectly fine without me. I mean he has another girlfriend. Why can't he just leave me alone?

2007-03-18 08:28:47 · 4 answers · asked by Jade B 1

I see my brother only a few times a year.. but he makes fun of me and has since high school. I can't even go get my mail without feeling someone is laughing at me and cristizing how I do it. Is this a normal reaction when a sibling has been belittling you continuously for over 10 years? Or is something wrong with me that when I leave him, I can't leave his cristism behind? I ask him to stop, but he says I am too senstive and can't take a joke?

2007-03-18 08:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 08:16:27 · 10 answers · asked by family_man_1983 1

2007-03-18 08:14:00 · 8 answers · asked by leena_b1 1

I am a young wife that has had to take over the full time care of my mother in law. She is bedridden, with so many health problems I can't name them all now. I was an EMT, and I have had to learn or wing it through everything else, including bathing, giving shots, and pretty much all aspects of her care. I was thinking of writing a book for people who find themselves in my situation, a book that I would have found helpful. Do you think anyone would be interested? And am I qualified to do so? Thanks.

2007-03-18 08:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend went to a strip club the other night with a female friend. He first told me he was going to her house then a couple of days later he told me where they really went. Is this normal? He has always said he would never go to a strip club with me, as I have asked in the past. I got angry with him and told him if it was the other way round would go mad, and he agreed. Am I an idiot for letting it go or did I over-react?

2007-03-18 08:09:42 · 32 answers · asked by Den 2

I would just like to know why she is doing this

2007-03-18 08:09:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I will be married soon, but he wants me to give him oral sex after we're married. But the thing is, I don't want to.
How do I tell him NO i don't want to, without hurting his feelings? Please help.

2007-03-18 08:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by World peAce 1

and want it all the time. think its an addiction .is it normal and what can i do about it. NOOKIE

2007-03-18 08:05:23 · 15 answers · asked by julie z 2

Have you seen it? Who had it last?

2007-03-18 08:05:18 · 25 answers · asked by CROSS-EYED PENGUIN 4

Is it possible for one person from the household to set up a
Forwarding Service with post office, without other members knowing?
I mean, if a husband want his wife not to receive some important papers, can he go to the post office and redirect all the mail to some other address, and she won't even know?

2007-03-18 07:58:14 · 3 answers · asked by lostmail 2

Its no secret that most marriages these days end in divorce. Its also no secret that more and more women are becoming bi-sexuel and Lesbian these days. On the flip side more and more men are coming out as gay and many others are still in the closet afraid of revealing their true feelings. So don't you think relationships between men and women just may not be meant for each other?

Lets be honest men and women don't understand each other and don't know what the other really wants. A person of the same sex would probably know better what you want and need.

So don't you think we would be better off just dating the same sex?

2007-03-18 07:54:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Des helped me - a college student visiting from the states - when I was lost in the city. His simple act of kindness changed my life...long story. I would love to find him and thank him! I'm guessing he was in his 30's in 1993, slim build, brown hair. He was wearing a postal uniform. I wish I could tell you more...

2007-03-18 07:54:15 · 12 answers · asked by ANN C 1

well my daughter just got a great offer as a backup dancer for a group called red jumpsuit apparatus and i said no.. she is only 16 years old. plus a backup dancer? well i have a secret...(and i wouldnt put this on here if this wasnt a real problem, nobody but my mom and stepdad knows this about me) but i was a backup dancer for michael jackson on his thriller tour...am i a hypocrit, i also let her do 2 music videos. should i tell her about my 15 months on the thriller tour....?

2007-03-18 07:51:44 · 19 answers · asked by rawr 3

It was just looking at me everytime I opened the fridge! Just in case you were wondering it was a Flake egg.....yum.

2007-03-18 07:49:35 · 1 answers · asked by missBambi 3

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and a few weeks ago I found out that he kissed a girl from work at his Christmas party in December. I found out because he sent her a message but sent it to me by mistake. He tried to cover it up saying the message was a joke, but I'm not stupid. Anyway, I got the truth out of him and he said the kiss was a mistake even though he's still sending messages about it 2 months later! I broke up with him then took him back soon after. Since then things haven't been the same, I've started to develop feelings for someone else, someone who I never looked at in that way before. I feel so bad, have I fallen out of love with him? What should I do?

2007-03-18 07:45:45 · 8 answers · asked by Den 2