I am 27, very pritty girl and my second husband is 46, not bad looking also. We just got married 1 year ago. It is for both of us is second marriage. He was alone before me during 7 years and when he met me, he was so happy that finally he can make family again. I never had problem to find men, but I had bad expirience about cheating. Well,I decided to marry him, becourse I saw that he really love me, and I never thought that he will ever looks at other girls at his age. But after half year slowly I discover many new things about my new husband: writing to other young girls ("friends") on Internet, constant looking photos of nude gils, cheking 18 y.o girls on the street. At the begining I ask him don't do it, after I started to fight. But the result - he just start hide it. I worry about all this, becourse I lost trust to him. I know, that he will never find girl like me, if I will leave him. how he can be so stupid and risk.
2007-03-18 09:33:25 · 7 answers · asked by Charlebois S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess you'll need to ask yourself the question:
If he doesn't stop this behaviour - will I stay with him or leave him?
You're also going to have to talk with him about it (perhaps many times). I'm sure that habits of many years are going to be hard for him to break. You'll need to make yourself clear that you aren't going to stand for it - if that is indeed the circumstances. You obviously find it hurtful and demeaning.
Be aware, however, that it is a common male practice to check out pretty girls. And not a few of them will be younger than 27.
2007-03-20 10:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old men's penises are like Xmas trees...Dead from the root up and the balls are just there for decoration!!! This guy needs to prove to himself that he still has it. But remember this...it's an annoying truth that men will always look at other women, no matter what you look like. They just like harems. They want to feel like the entire female race wants them. They are stupid.
I have to ask, and you must ask yourself...why did his last marriage fail? Was it for the same reason?
The fact that you confronted him was good, but now he is just hiding this. Even more disturbing. People hide things when they are doing something wrong or bad. If you are not comfortable with this behavior, leave him!!!
2007-03-18 16:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I can't stand it either. You have brought it to his attention maybe you need to do it again. Let him know how it makes you feel. If he realy loves you and respects you he wouldn't be doing these things. I mean not constantly all the time---men always look when a pretty thing passes by.
2007-03-18 16:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're saying that he will not find another girl like you ,its because you love him and don't want tobraek out with him.at this age man are usually like this ,fighting won't give you much change be positive.change you style like buy yourself a new garderobe,some sexy nite dress,change the colour of your hair(if you want too). make romantic diner for you both.use your patience to take him off internet checking for other all sort kind girls....
2007-03-18 16:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERY guy looks at naked women online and checks out girls in public, not sure about the writing to 'friends' online, but everything else sounds normal to me!
2007-03-18 16:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Curious K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will be Men. My husband looks all the time. Never does he write to anyone. Let it be. He really is not doing anything to hurt you.
2007-03-18 16:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by hascht2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop, telll him to go be with one of the girls he likes to check out. U dont deserve a man who doesnt appreciate u
2007-03-18 16:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋