I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and a few weeks ago I found out that he kissed a girl from work at his Christmas party in December. I found out because he sent her a message but sent it to me by mistake. He tried to cover it up saying the message was a joke, but I'm not stupid. Anyway, I got the truth out of him and he said the kiss was a mistake even though he's still sending messages about it 2 months later! I broke up with him then took him back soon after. Since then things haven't been the same, I've started to develop feelings for someone else, someone who I never looked at in that way before. I feel so bad, have I fallen out of love with him? What should I do?
2007-03-18 07:45:45 · 8 answers · asked by Den 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear, love is a wonderful thing but sometimes when somebody breaks your heart like he did you start losing that love and trust. Without trust its hard to love somebody, I suggest if you really care about the other person talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you thought it was going to work out again but you were wrong and that you want to move on. Just remember he broke your heart and its ok to move on dont feel forced to stay in a relationship you dont want to be in.
2007-03-18 08:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by tripp j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not have broken with him only because of that act of your boy friend. Now as you have broken and taken him back , it seems that still you love him. Think over that issue again. However as you have also developed feelings for some one else there is nothing wrong in that. It is natural. Try to judge the new fellow more cautiously. I am sure you are still in love with your boy friend and the present feeling is something which can be called as physical attraction not the love.
2007-03-18 14:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Pramod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss is not the same as sleeping around...how you judge so shall you be judged
Looks to me you broke up with him over petty issues and now secretly wish it was still that way. Broken Up!
Break up again.... no sense living a lie
2007-03-18 14:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in and out of love, maybe move on? At least give yourself some time to be away from him. If you don't you will always wonder if you should have. You don't have to date anyone during this time and yet if you want to you can. I think that if he is kissing other girls it will not be long till he is doing other things with them. Maybe that is okay with you? I don't know?
2007-03-18 14:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems as if your b/f got the kiss of death and you have been smitten by Simone else. Yeah. You were in love, but not now. The best advice is to follow your heart.
2007-03-18 14:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS go with your existence never second guess yourself if you believe his cheating boot him out and try your heart on the other hope it works out
2007-03-18 14:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are moving on, but don't keep both.
2007-03-18 14:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgetaboutit
2007-03-18 14:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by Don L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋