Other - Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

It has been over 8 months since we broke up, and I have not talked to her in several months. I am not sure when I am in the mood to well........ let's just leave it at that, I sometimes think of the sexual things we have done together. She was my real serious girlfriend and it was my first time having a sexual encounter (we didn't have intercourse but very close). Is this normal?? I feel like a idiot when I think of her that way, and no I don't have hardly any feelings for her anymore either.

2007-03-08 03:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by T boy 2

My husband doesn't get inspired to do anything. When he was single he loved surfing. I even bought him a surfboard and he has never used it. He is working an average job. When he really does have talent to do great things. I just don't understand why our family isn't enough for him to want the very best. Even when he buys gift for people including me he gives what is practical not what they ask for. Financial we are fine. I just don't understand why he settles and doesn't strive for more. Nothing dramatic has happened to where he is depressed. He simply is only living for basic and that just doesn't work for me. Right now I feel like if there is anything I really want I have to get it myself and expect to never get anything from him. I don't mean it materialistic wise but even important things like taking care of the car or getting our son braces. I think I'm starting to understand why people say is love enough to stay together. I would appreciate if some men could clue me in.

2007-03-08 03:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by fabulosity 2

i wana leave my boyfriend, because I know that i dont love him anymore. And i realized that he does not deserve me. We been together for more than 2 years and I want to leave him since 1 year already.

2007-03-08 03:28:48 · 10 answers · asked by stefy_smiles 1

When she walks past-she lowers her head as she passes me(She's the only girl who does this in the office-no one else does),other times she smiles and we make eye contact. GOOD SIGN???

If I don't look back at her (when she's looking at me) she won't look at me the nxt time she passes!!!WHY???

She's not walked past my desk for TWO days now and not seen her at lunch either!She usually walks past my desk and I see her at lunch.Is this because I didn't look back at her???(her mates are giving me more looks also)Coincidence??

When her friends walk past-they sometimes look at me continuously(as there walking past)+smile+stop talking.Then they suddenly start talking again as soon as they pass me!!!The same happens during lunch occasionly.They only do this to me!!!GOOD SIGN???

Not spoken to her yet-work in different departments, I don't deal with her at all.Does she fancy/like me???

2007-03-08 03:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left an abusive relationship in July of 06. I worked very hard at getting through it, but along the way I made some bad choices. I slept with 4 or 5 people in about 4 months. In October I started talking to this guy online, from a dating site, we ended up taking on msn, and making plans to meet one weekend. I really liked him alot and I told him about my past relationship. We made plans to meet one saturday. So, friday i took my kids out of town to my mom and dads so i would have the whole weekend free. I got back into town on saturday and went shopping. I was so excited. I bough tnew clothes, makeup, and was just happy and excited. I went home and was going to start getting ready, when I started wondering if he was going to show up. So, i went to the store and bought someo minutes for my cell phone (he lived out of town and i couldnt cal long distance on my house phone) so i phoned him and the second he answered i could tell he was drunk. i asked if he was coming to town

2007-03-08 03:21:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

called him on my firends cell and he hung up when he heard my voice. no calls on xmas bdays ect

2007-03-08 03:15:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel so isolated and i feel like people treat me different. I am in a happy long term relationship and have a loving family but everywhere i go and everyone i meet they dont seem to like me or talk to me as much as they do to other poeple they have just met. I find it hard to socialise coz i am self conscience.

i wouldnt say i was a nasty person. I feel overlooked and left out most of the time? its really upsetting

2007-03-08 03:09:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK i went out with this girl for a month 3 months ago and when we split we stayed close friends. But then my other best m8 who at the time had a girlfriend began to get closer to her and she started to havce feelings for him. So he split with his GF a week ago and has just asked her out and she said yes!!! ANd i have never been so angry in my life! i have to see them every day at school and it really really pains me to se my 2 best mates betray me like this....my parents say i should drop this...but how can i? I still have feelings for her, and i feel like my best mates have stabbed me in the back!! I keep having arguements with her about this, saying that its not fair to me and stuff..and for some reason i just CANT let her go, i think about her all the time, wever been over for 4 months...i just dont no what more i can do!!

2007-03-08 03:08:06 · 12 answers · asked by shishuzy 1

She's absolutly nuts...

2007-03-08 03:00:03 · 6 answers · asked by dww32720 3

He has 2 kids 1, sweet the other well, MEAN
she willl blame stuff on ME so IM ALLWAYS getting YELLED AT!!!! SHE SLAPS, BITES, KICKS, ECT I CANT STAND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-08 02:58:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I find myself having these fantasies regularly and most I would be embarrassed to tell people out. Most are forbidden type of fantasies that society would look down upon. I think I am somewhat of a normal guy, but these fantasies and desires are still there. Just wanted to know if anyone else had these. Just interested I guess. You don’t have to admit to what yours are if you don’t want, but if you had the courage to go for it. I just wanted to see how many people would be willing to admit to this besides me.

2007-03-08 02:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by cheeks230 3

2007-03-08 02:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by American citizen and taxpayer 7

I was just in an abusive relationship and was raped constintly and i jsut got a divorce and now i was just raped a total stranger. I have 2 beutiful daughters and would just hate too see this happen to them. Im catholic and im trying to leave it up to God but this hasen't been working. Im now on the pill but i have to go off because of my religion. I love mmy kids to death but i just can't keep up like this. I have just moved away and im trying too keep my kids away from their father. HELP !!!!

2007-03-08 02:51:24 · 14 answers · asked by lemon12435 2

I have already read some of the responses to my first question. Okay here's a little more info. I have been dealing with this for a long time. I have been trying my *** off. I have told him to go to a doctor. We have talked about this problem. Four years ago he found out a horrible family secret. His step father sexual abused his sister. I have been there through it all plus raising the children pretty much a lone. He is a teacher and football coach. It is either playstation or work. He will play these stupid games for five hours straight, while I cry feeling alone and not loved. But then I kiss another guy and he says I do not understand how much he loves me. I really do not understand, and I am pretty smart. The irony is I am a Psy. student at a major university and already have one degree. Please help I do not truly understand.

2007-03-08 02:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are a parent, do your kids run you are do you run them. I'm not talking about babies. I'm talking 3 and up. Kids that can tell you yes and no. Do they stop you from doing grown up things?

2007-03-08 02:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Tea 1

I became a grandmother for the 1st time last week. I am having a problem w/my daughter-in-law allowing me to hold & visit my new grandson. Is there a place where GP's can go & chat w/others about simular problems? I only live 5 mi. from them, and her mother is the one who is doing all for her (I understand Mom & Daughter) but this is her 3rd grandchild. This is my D-I-L's second child & her 1st isn't even living w/her, he is being raised by her parents. I have tried not to burden my son with this issue( he is aware of it ) because my D-I-L can be very unreasonable & difficult to live with if she doen't have her way. So I need to find a chat room for grandparents to vent their concerns--I know there are alot of chats for Moms but what about Grandparents??? I NEED HELP!

2007-03-08 02:42:25 · 4 answers · asked by Aussie 1

My girlfriend broke up with at the end of January. I cannot get her out of my head. She is all that i think about. I try to occupy myself by doing activities that i enjoy. I even joined a gym and have been working out. No matter what i do i cannot stop thinking about her. When i wake up she is the first thing that comes into my mind. When i go to sleep she is the last thing that is on my mind. Her and I agreed to be friends, but i have recently decided to give her space. I have decided that if she wants to hang out with me, she can contact me. At first i was doing all of the contacting, but that was a bad mistake. We hung out twice last week and we both had a good time. Now I feel like this just makes it worse. I cant get her off my mind! What can i do? I am extremly depressed and need some good advice. thanks

2007-03-08 02:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 02:24:35 · 18 answers · asked by bugs280 5

Im planning on moving to VA beach to go to college which has been my dream for years but my boyfriend of 1 year says that if he finds a good paying job up here in WV that he's not going to leave with me. I have one more year of high school left but he is just now getting out and is going to be looking for a job soon. What do you think I should do: live my dream and leave my boyfriend, or stay here and settle for WV so he can keep his job and we can continue to be together? Advice anyone?

2007-03-08 02:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are currently in an apartment and we are moving into a spacious mobile home...The problem is this: #1... I am a pack-rat and I do not like to part with anything...But I am willing to now...#2., our Family consists of myself and my husband along with an 11 year old, 4 year old, and 20 month old....WHERE DO I START????

2007-03-08 02:17:05 · 11 answers · asked by ♥shannon c♥ 3

2007-03-08 02:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your sex is getting boring. How do you get your partner to get interested in bring something new to the table. It they are not open minded?

2007-03-08 02:12:37 · 2 answers · asked by Tea 1

please just answer my question. i don't need lessons in ethics. will he know that i am not a virgin or he wouldn't notice because i haven't done it for more than 4 years and it's tight in there? i was 15.

2007-03-08 02:09:19 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a booty call is what it is. Why do people tend to catch feelings when they knew from the start it was just and only about sex?

2007-03-08 02:05:16 · 18 answers · asked by Tea 1

i am going on a date with another woman for the first time. should i behave the same as if it were a guy?

2007-03-08 02:03:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do the men find them intimidating?

2007-03-08 02:03:06 · 23 answers · asked by CROSS-EYED PENGUIN 4

We have been together for almost six years. We have been married for three and a half years. We use to have great sex, but for the last to years something has totally change. He is having ED problems, and can not have sex longer than three minutes before he goes. I beg for sex and 97% of the time he turns me down. I will tell you this I am 28 years old 5'6'' 120lbs and very pretty. I have always kept my body looking good, even after two children. I have been so emotionaly and sexually deprived. I met a guy at my friends house and we talked for 4 hour and then kissed for a long time. I really wanted to have sex with this man, but I did not. I felt bad, so I told him what happened. He was upset and said he saw this coming. He was okay by the next day, and told me that we will not get divorced over a kiss. I connected with this other guy. My husband gives me nothing emotionally, and sexually rejects me. I really want to have one long night of passion with this other man

2007-03-08 02:00:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is at work and i have inspectors coming to my house today for a couple hours you dont think they will do anything bad to me do you?!!?! im so freaked out!!!!! please help?

2007-03-08 01:40:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering

2007-03-08 01:31:42 · 16 answers · asked by igrogan.1234 1

2007-03-08 01:18:46 · 1 answers · asked by latayna33@sbcglobal.net 1