called him on my firends cell and he hung up when he heard my voice. no calls on xmas bdays ect
2007-03-08 03:15:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
(((((((stitch))))))))
this has to be difficult for you and i'm sure you feel abandoned.
your father is a jackass, sorry to say. he brought you into this world. it's NEVER your fault that he is mean. you're an innocent victim of his ignorance.
can you talk to your mom or another relative? have you thought of talking to a therapist just so you can learn ways to DEAL WITH and COPE ?
my son was in therapy when he was young (because of my divorce) and it really helped him. he had someone to talk with who wouldn't tell anyone else, and he trusted her completely. she helped him to see his father's problems weren't his "fault".
i hope you can find help and ways to deal with this. i'm sorry for your pain. hugz to you.
2007-03-08 03:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you know all the facts? does he? did he really hang up because it was you?
I am sorry to say that there are many uncaring PARENTS (this is not gender specific so dont get lost on the dad word people) in the world. so it may be that he doesn't give a damn. Do you? do you make a real effort to stay in touch or just when you want something. You should try and build bridges and if he doesn't help then you know the answer. It does sound like he is uncaring and not interested though, and i am honestly sorry to say that. I do hope that the problem is sorted but if you know you have really tried then maybe you will need to back away. What has your mum said? I hope you do rectify this and have someone to talk to. xxx
2007-03-08 03:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by shortarsetitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your parents divorced?
Write a letter?
Maybe you could talk to family members on his side of the family, grandparents, aunts and uncles?
I quit with my dad when I was 17. I have never talked with him since. I am OK with this. I have never played the victim!
You deserve so much better for yourself.
2007-03-08 03:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something has happened to strain your relationship. If you know what it is talk with him about it and make amends. If you do not know what it is that is straining the relationship ask your did in a tone of reconciliation.
2007-03-08 03:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he hates you and should find a way to ask him what is going on,you should not just conclude that he hates you,maybe there is something wrong with him.
2007-03-08 04:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by peedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to take the first thing and call him on X-mas so that he feels obligated to call you next time!!!
2007-03-08 03:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by ferret_boy1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, there is much, much more to this saga than you are telling....Apologize for whatever you did that you are not telling here on YA......For all I know, you are to blame. Respect & honor your father and mother.....Good luck!
2007-03-08 03:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry hes snubbing you, sometimes when adults have problems with each other, the children suffer, its not fair, but it is a fact, have you tried asking your mum if she can help?
2007-03-08 05:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry!
i doubt he hates you though. you just need to speak to him. But he is still at fault not You.
2007-03-08 03:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Abdul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very strange..
Sorry to hear of it...
2007-03-08 03:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋