Other - Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

I found out a few days ago that the guy I'm seeing asked another girl out on a date. We've only been seeing each other for a few weeks, but he told me he wasn't interested in dating anyone else, even when I made it clear that it would be ok as long as he is up front with me about where things are at (and of course that would mean that I take things lighter with him as well). Well he said absolutely not.

Here's the catch - I'm not supposed to know, so I can't confront him on this. The person who told me asked me not to say anything because he is afraid it will cause conflict between them (he is a family member). He showed me proof - the actual date hasn't happened, but he still asked.

Friends say we've only been seeing each other for a few weeks & that I shouldn't take this seriously anyway. Others say go out with other guys, even though I also said I didn't want to date anyone else either. A couple of them say I should just dump him and move on.

What do you say?

2007-03-08 01:12:31 · 3 answers · asked by jocelynthecat 1

Who would want a 36 yr. old woman with 4 kids?????? and if they are out there WHERE ARE THEY??? I dont want to play games but it seems thats what most men want to do. and the good ones are married, I am NOT into the stealing a man crap. Could someone please give me some pointers.... keep in mind my childrens ages are from 14 months to 14 yrs.

2007-03-08 01:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by hottttmomma4 2

Why can't Women except Men as Men, instead of trying to change a Man into what the Woman wants the Man to be.

Why can't Women be more like Men want them to be..........

remember, it's the Man's World, so Women should know how to take care of us Men, right guys! (guys are Men, gals are Women)

2007-03-08 01:05:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can infatuation turn into nothing? I was completely head over heels for my boyfriend for the first 3 months. He could do nothing wrong and everything he did was perfect.

We have now been dating for about 6 months and I feel as though something is wrong and is missing. I have constant anxiety about "what if i am falling out of love with him." I dont trust myself. I dont know if its because I have been in dramatic/abusive relationships up until now but there is no reason why I could see I would be feeling this way.

All of my friends and family say that I seem most myself when I am around him. They think that this relationship is different from any past ones I may have had…..So I don’t know what that says….

I still enjoy spending time with him and being intimate with him but for the 1st 3 months I KNEW he was the guy I was going to marry and have kids with and now I cant say that anymore....

Am I commitment phobic, is this just my anxiety, or am I really falling out of love with him?

My ex who was a dramatic abusive partner may possibly still have a tiny piece of my heart but its been 2 years so I dont know why it hasnt gone away.

I want to feel the love I felt for him when we were 1st together. Can infatuation just end like that? There is nothing that I can think of that could have possibly changed my feelings?!?!? This is the first guy I actually trust but I feel like i trust him cause maybe I just dont care...I dont know how to tell and I dont want to break up with him......

Thanks!

2007-03-08 00:56:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

entertained all the time lol they are always bored

2007-03-08 00:56:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i seriously dont know what i should do. i want to keep it, but he isnt so sure. i love him and dont wanna lose him. what do i do. i know i should make this decision on my own, but cant someone just give me a lil boost of encouragement

2007-03-08 00:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by shorty 1

has any one tryed putting bunkbeds together. there are so many pices. so how long did it take you.

2007-03-08 00:49:49 · 4 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6

Everyone else is fine because they were not the ones screwed over. This is family and I want to be over it too. Besides the sh** starting "confrontation" factor, what can I do to not let it boil up inside of me?

2007-03-08 00:38:38 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2

How many relationships/dates did you go through before you found 'The One'?

2007-03-08 00:38:37 · 5 answers · asked by lyla384 5

I am bugged up with the no of strings attached to this thin and busy life. Especially when one's spouse is too busy , amibitious, shrewd, hyper-active. I have never had a break for the last 8-9 years of marriage, except when I she rids herself off for her projects. We never sit together and contemplate or talk anout life, romance or anything that is spiritual or more filling. We lalways talk of properties, achievements, other people, bills, money, and stressful family ties. Her argument is - I am not wasting time and I am achieving.

2007-03-08 00:38:15 · 8 answers · asked by Bloody Life 1

okay...i just got out of a relationship wit a boy...and my ex wants to go back out wit me,what do i do? i mean i have hard feelings for both of them do you think we should just be friends or should we try it again?

2007-03-08 00:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am actually his evil twin and I have locked him in the cellar..

2007-03-08 00:32:47 · 32 answers · asked by londonletch 2

is this safe??



My son is 20 years old..

2007-03-08 00:25:10 · 34 answers · asked by londonletch 2

I personally love to be spanked on my bare bottom.
Seriously!

2007-03-08 00:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by Lily P 3

So which one do you prefer?

2007-03-08 00:06:37 · 18 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2

I mean I find myself having these fantasies regularly and most I would be embarrassed to tell people out. Most are forbidden type of fantasies that society would look down upon. I think I am somewhat of a normal guy, but these fantasies and desires are still there. Just wanted to know if anyone else had these. Just interested I guess. You don’t have to admit to what yours are if you don’t want, but if you had the courage to go for it. I just wanted to see how many people would be willing to admit to this besides me.

2007-03-08 00:05:25 · 3 answers · asked by cheeks230 3