Who would want a 36 yr. old woman with 4 kids?????? and if they are out there WHERE ARE THEY??? I dont want to play games but it seems thats what most men want to do. and the good ones are married, I am NOT into the stealing a man crap. Could someone please give me some pointers.... keep in mind my childrens ages are from 14 months to 14 yrs.
2007-03-08 01:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by hottttmomma4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so you all know I havent actually been LOOKING like I said NO time for me these days.but I am enjoying the advice.... so you know I am 36 but often get carded for even cigs. I am told I look in my 20's and when people meet my 14 yr old i explain that I was 21 when I had him. people dont think its possible... so I have kept myself looking as well as I have to time to.... thank you again
2007-03-08 02:29:31 · update #1
Stop searching! He's right before your eyes! Relax, and allow him to "make his move"! You can't see the forest for the trees. You KNOW who I'm talking about. Yes, HIM! Now, relax and enjoy "the ride". Have fun!!
2007-03-08 01:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't go out there looking for it, the right one will come along. Go to church, you can find alot of great people there and single too. If you decide to post an add on match.com or any of those sites, just be careful of who you meet. It doesn't matter how many kids you have or how old you are, a good man will come along and love you all. Just have patience and the man upstairs will send someone to you when the time is right. Good Luck
2007-03-08 09:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a widow with 3 children ages 5,7,9 and after dating and hating all the games that were played I just forgot about it and concentrated on the kids and lo and behold the perfect man came into our lives. We will be married 20 yrs in May, so please don't give up there are good men out there. Go out with you girlfriends and get good babysitters so you don't have to feel guilty. Just remember you too have a life so trust in God and enjoy it.
2007-03-08 09:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by MaryAnn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
I just want to say "wow!" A single mom with four kids! How do you do it? I have three and want to have your number, if I can somehow manage! And I am not single. Anyway, I believe that there are men out there who would want to be married to you. You want to find a man who loves kids. Now, my father is a very very conservative individual and would never let me chat online or anything as a teen, (blocked it) but, ironically enough, he met and found my stepmom online! And they are perfect for eachother! They were in their fifties and she has five children. Granted, they were all grown and independent, but at the same time, there is men out there that love and thrive with young children. I bet there is a man out there who is looking for someone just like you! Don't lose faith. Keep your eyes and your heart open!
-malibu
2007-03-08 10:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by carrie222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not so old, because age is only a number. if you keep yourself looking nice, which i know is very hard to do with children and no free time for yourself.it isnt that easy for you., but you are right many guys just wanna play games.all i can say is keep looking good and sweet, you will maybe have to settle for an older more mature man now. good luck hon.
2007-03-08 09:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
my mom is 39 with 3 kids & shes been single for 4 years.
although shes really pretty & smart shes just waiting for the guy God sends her instead of just hooking up with some random guy just because she wants to.
so i think you should be patient & wait for God to send you that special someone
2007-03-08 09:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
List your profile at YoBling.
http://www.yobling.com
2007-03-08 09:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋