Other - Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

2007-03-08 17:47:51 · 3 answers · asked by tiptop 1

my girlfriend and i have (or were rather)... were together for 3 years. fabulous time. if ever i reach the ripe old age of 80, i'll look back into this time of my life and it will only have one resounding memory. her.

6 months ago, she started having this inkling need to (gasp!) get married, and i'm definitely not ready yet! i mean, she's 4 years older and probably feels that i am the one for her. but as for me, even though i completely and thorougly love her, i just can't say yes yet because i don't have enough life experience to say yes to marriage.

so we broke up - and that was 6 months ago. and i still can't get over her.

did i do the right thing, or would it have been better had i just said that "yes, right now, i think you're the one for me and i want to stay with you and see where this takes us"? - knowing full well that it might not give her the fairy tale ending that she wants...

HELP!!! i need to get myself grounded again!

2007-03-08 17:42:11 · 10 answers · asked by KapitanKommando 1

Asides from sex ...

2007-03-08 17:34:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just talked with her and it ws just a friendl chat but since then she does nto leave me alone, She even talked about if she gets married adn find some one with my help, tha tperson should become definitely muslim! I just talked to her but for the last few years it seems that I can not get ride of her at all! Please help me out here! What is wronge with women in Turkey, they do not leave you alone once you talk to them. Are all middleestern women are like that?? thanks again

2007-03-08 17:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by D. M. 1

At 4 months pregnant, I started dating this wonderful guy. Throughout the relationship my hormones and my temper made me such a horrible person. One week ago he broke up with me. I took a trip 12 hours by car away to get away from my problems, but came home and they were still there. I'm still in love with him and hurting everyday. I'm not sure what to do, I just know I want him back in my life. He's not a bad person: never rose his voice to me, never hit me, and made me feel safe. We've had our disagreements, but now I want him back. We had so many talks about how we were going to raise 'our' (and he said it first) daughter together... now he doesn't even want to see me. He says he's hurting right now, and I am too. Why won't he come back? He knows things will change and he knew getting into this that things would be difficult... I feel like he's given up. (And no, there is no other woman.) He says he's not sure if he's still in love with me, but that he still loves me.... help?

2007-03-08 17:01:47 · 6 answers · asked by Dísir 2

and do you think it makes a difference in the closeness of a relationship? also do you think having a television in the bedroom affects the bond in a relationship?

2007-03-08 17:00:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

heart touching, sad love songs.

2007-03-08 16:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by nickname 1

2007-03-08 16:50:41 · 14 answers · asked by rubydoobydoo 3

I can be a lil shy; so when a guy approaches me with that...confidence, it's an instant attraction, but it usually ends up bad. They are not the most faithful, they are also crazy selfish as well.

How can get out of this cycle of getting with (and falling in love) with these types of personalities :(

I'm 20, so maybe this is just a phase. I never get into the situation with high expeetations, just a good time...then feelings become stronger as time goes on.

2007-03-08 16:42:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just answered a question on here that got me wondering if that ever really happens. My friend said she went to a party once where the guy just got naked and hung out all night. I am just wondering really if that really happens

2007-03-08 16:38:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think i still love him?or was it love?
i liked him eversince i was 11, i always had that special feeling for him , i used to fight with him about simple matters in school just to get his attention, he once told me he loved me, but as a kid, i dont think that was ever true.
eventhough in high school we were no longer school mates, i still think of him, dream about him everyday, wishing that somehow he could still be close to me, he is constantly in my thoughts and i wrote about 10 poems or more for him,
in college ive resolved to write about my feelings for him, though i know its too late, i just wanted him to know, he never replied anyway,i dont know what made me think that we both feel the same, when all this years i was a forgotten past, i dont know why i was so hooked with him, i know he is not worth my love, not worthy of my attention,i was rejected, but it doesnt seem to matter, i still wish the best for him, i still cry whenever i meet him at the school in college, i dont want to talk to him,am i still in love

2007-03-08 16:26:43 · 2 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

Do you think i still love him?or was it love?
i liked him eversince i was 11, i always had that special feeling for him , i used to fight with him about simple matters in school just to get his attention, he once told me he loved me, but as a kid, i dont think that was ever true.
eventhough in high school we were no longer school mates, i still think of him, dream about him everyday, wishing that somehow he could still be close to me, he is constantly in my thoughts and i wrote about 10 poems or more for him,
in college ive resolved to write about my feelings for him, though i know its too late, i just wanted him to know, he never replied anyway,i dont know what made me think that we both feel the same, when all this years i was a forgotten past, i dont know why i was so hooked with him, i know he is not worth my love, not worthy of my attention,i was rejected, but it doesnt seem to matter, i still wish the best for him, i still cry whenever i meet him at the school in college, i dont want to talk to him,am i still in love

2007-03-08 16:25:57 · 2 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

2007-03-08 16:24:49 · 22 answers · asked by megh49 1

My boy friend does not care if he ends up losing me. I have been with him for 5 years now and there is an issue with his mother. That being she has to live with us after marriage and she hates me. She doesnt even talk to me. Having said that, if I confront my bf about this, he gets angry and says that it is upto me to make things better (after marriage though). He says that his mother is very reasonable woman and she will eventually come around if I treat her well. But beyond this situation, if I ask him to choose between us, he gets angry. If I threaten him with breaking up, he does not care and says that if I choose to leave him, it is my loss.
I love him dearly but I am not so sure now, if the 5 years I spent with him was really worth it. What should I do?

2007-03-08 16:15:12 · 12 answers · asked by Lucky 2

the wife knows me and doesnt have the slightest idea of what her husband and i did before. but i have stopped doing it but still feels guilty about it at times.

2007-03-08 16:12:47 · 12 answers · asked by meh 1

I go to this store and always saw this one girl that was a pusher to help people to their car. And everytime I went I would see her and she would kind of give me a smile and I would kind of smile back, but we never really talked. Then one day there was a couple that were short 10 dollars and I gave it to them. The next day she came to my restaurant and ate and we made eye contact and I told the cashier to not charge her for their drinks and walked away. Anyways, I didn't see the girl for maybe 2 weeks since that time and then the next time I saw her she stated to me that what I did for the couple was really nice, I said thanks. (I was thinking that was 2 weeks ago) She also said you work there (restaurant) I said I own it. Yesturday I went there and said I have a cool accent and wanted to know what I was. Also a cart boy that kept picking on her so I said to her you know what it means when a guy picks on you. And she replied I don't like him (immediately) I guess she doesn't have a bf.

2007-03-08 16:04:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

seriously. im so bored with life right now just at the point where everyone says it should be the best days of my life. nothing is really going in any light direction. it is more stagnant, unchanging. daily pattern after daily pattern. GOOD LORD> ...oh and if you have any advice on how to stilt the patterns please, let me know.

2007-03-08 15:41:32 · 13 answers · asked by Questionnn 2

2007-03-08 15:39:29 · 36 answers · asked by Lisa 4

I was in a four year relationship with my ex and about eight months ago he broke up with me for his ex-girlfriend. I having problems getting over him and was wondering if anyone has any ideas or tips on this. Keep in mind that we have a two year old together and I have to see him and sometimes her everytime he picks up our daughter and drops her off, so I have constant contact with him.

P.S. Please only serious answers, this is a very sensitive subject. Thank you.

2007-03-08 15:34:24 · 4 answers · asked by aques 2

Is it wrong to keep a secret from my boyfriend? I was born a guy and went through a sex change operation. I seriously felt that I am in the wrong body. Now that I am a girl, I have a really great boyfriend that I love. He loves me too. We are both 28 years old. We've been together for at least 5 years already. Is it wrong to keep that secret from him?

2007-03-08 15:33:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My younger sister is 13 and said that this 14 year old boy came in the girls restroom while she waz the only one in there, she says that he locked the door and fought her to the floor. She says that he took her shirt and bra of and then the rest of her clothes then she said she just let herself be saying she knew she couldn't do anything,then she said he touched her and kissed her all over, and then he put a condom on and i dont know if u would call it rape..but he did that to her then she said he kept touching her after that then whispered disgusting stuff in her ear,and said that he would kill her if he metioned this to anyone. she said she never told anyone but me and said that not to tell our parents cause they might think she did it on purpose, but i dont know what to do....please help!!!!!!!!

2007-03-08 15:30:24 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Chanel♥ 3

What is your favorite month of the year? For me, it's may, because I love spring, but which is your favorite?

2007-03-08 15:29:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 15:26:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 14:58:18 · 4 answers · asked by Amy Daniel 1

drink alot...i drink on the weekdays when i get off work and i drink on the weekends.

I love to drink cuz im not so shy and i feel alot better once i got a couple of glasses of champagne down. My boyfriend says im an alcoholic but i think he just says it to piss me off.

i can drink a whole bottle and still crave it. i even get cranky when i dont have enough.

i go to work waitin to get off so i can drink. i am not 21 so i cannot buy it myself...when i am drunk however i do things i would normally not do sober, and i regret them when i am sober so i want to drink again to not feel regretful. i can drink champagne everyday without hangovers AND I LOVE THE TASTE..

i am drunk right now but sobering up...just got done arguing with my boyfriend bout drinking and sex. SUCKs

2007-03-08 14:53:24 · 2 answers · asked by dee m 1

i just had big fight with my mom last nite... its too way long story... also my fiancee and my mom dont talk eachother anymore.... but my mom wanna say sorry to him again and he dont wanna come over my house cause of my mom..and my mom is mad at him i dont understand i told her im 20yrs old and i love my fiancee.. she upset and think i pick over my fiancee than my mom. i told her im happy with my fiancee. and i dont wanna fight and i wanna be with him.and she kept telling me that dont like my fiancee's parents cause my mom think his father is werido... but my mom and my fiancee's parents dont get along.. me and my fiancee are really love eachother.. i love him alots... my mom is upset cause i wont leaving him... and she told me that if i see my fiancee again she will not talk to me no more...but i told her im 20years old i wanna be with him and im happy be with him... and i dont know what can i do with my mom..pls help me.... i know my mom is sometime crazy...help me pls!!!!!!!!!!!! ty

2007-03-08 14:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by XxItalianxX 1

I have a brother and sister that loses everything in mty home. They never learn to put things way. Like today i need sizzors and tape for an art project but I can't do it because they never put things back. What do I do???

2007-03-08 14:46:16 · 5 answers · asked by richardselby42 2

they will not go cause they dont want to hurt you what do i do?

2007-03-08 14:33:21 · 22 answers · asked by barb 1

2007-03-08 14:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by Dre"z BABYMoMMa 1

2007-03-08 14:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by shepherdsvoice2004 1