It has been over 8 months since we broke up, and I have not talked to her in several months. I am not sure when I am in the mood to well........ let's just leave it at that, I sometimes think of the sexual things we have done together. She was my real serious girlfriend and it was my first time having a sexual encounter (we didn't have intercourse but very close). Is this normal?? I feel like a idiot when I think of her that way, and no I don't have hardly any feelings for her anymore either.
2007-03-08 03:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by T boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's only natural to think about things in your past. you said she was your first serious gf you are just thinking of the fun you had with her, which doesn't necessarily mean you still have feelings for her. you're normal!
2007-03-08 03:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by firefly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a lot of experience/memories in this area, to draw from.. of course your mind will naturally replay, rewind and replay the moments you had -- after time, you may even begin to 2nd guess yourself, that you should have done this or that (differently) that might have achieved another outcome. Plus, the basic physical impulses of a guy your age -- and the memory that connects them points to her, simply because she was a warm body & close enough. Look, I've had over 80 girlfriends.. and still think about some from long ago (been married 9 years). This is ALL totally natural and happens to everyone. Go out and live. Meet new people. Even brush-aside the sexuality -- and concentrate of what makes a new girl(s) special, individual and spend time with people in different places. This is growth, and someday the girls will be falling over themselves and thinking about what they did wrong -- recalling their times with you.
2007-03-09 02:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal because it was an accusal person and not just your imagination. So when you are in the mood well you naturally think of what you have done because it makes it more real in your mind.
2007-03-08 03:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it weird how things in the past seem a lot better than what it was like when it was the present.
Yes, it is normal.
2007-03-08 03:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy Studying Law 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural but you need to get out there and start dating again.
2007-03-08 03:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to fantasise about past relationships =)
2007-03-08 03:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋