please just answer my question. i don't need lessons in ethics. will he know that i am not a virgin or he wouldn't notice because i haven't done it for more than 4 years and it's tight in there? i was 15.
2007-03-08 02:09:19 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you've done it 2 times and that was 4-5 years ago, you are a virgin again. So there's nothing to worry about. After 2-3 years and if there was not to much done before things get back to their first nature. So even if you had sex in the past, you're still a virgin and so you didn't lie to him.
2007-03-08 02:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by helena_m_p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me , there are very few men that can tell, One in ten million and that would be upon close inspection almost clinical not sexual.
I could tell, but not by having sex. Even with this knowledge the looks of the hymen varies greatly in women. There are even virgins with broken hymens.
If you groan like it hurt, (no man ) will be the wiser
Better yet if it is at the end of your period , there would be a little blood evidence
Men are clueless
Don't worry.
The fact that it wasn't for a long time or it was yesterday doesn't make a difference. There is no difference in feeling. The tightest women I ever knew was a mother of two and one of the loosest
Was a true 27 year old virgin.
Men know much less than you think.
Even a doctor a pediatrician that examines virgins on a daily basis would not know unless he examined you. and of course you would not allow this. What woman would. Having sex with him, he would be just as clueless.
Good luck ( you are a virgin)
2007-03-08 02:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's a physician(and from the question you asked, I'm going to go out on a limb here), I seriously doubt it. He may even think you're a virgin just by the way you show your inexperience towards sex in general. Even if he does know, he'll probably be so happy just to get some from you, you'll need a ladder to be peel him off the ceiling afterwards...
2007-03-08 02:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to give an ethics lesson ....
Will he know? No ... he won't. But why lie? Your past is your past ... you own it ... and you can't change it. If he loves you, he'll love you whether you're a virgin or not. Everyone's made mistakes and done things they aren't proud of ... it doesn't make you any less wonderful or worthy of his love.
Will he know? No ... but in the end, does it matter?
2007-03-08 02:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bonny K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offcourse, if he's not daft and blind he will know. Beside why do you want to play a virgin since you are not? The best way to start and keep any relationship is to be yourself and to be honest. Well take my advice, you can as well squirm, but the only people that can survive anything in this world including relationships and life troubles are those that are bold, honest and strong. Goodluck to you.
2007-03-08 02:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes cos your hymen starts to grow back within about a year of not having sex. He might feel it on his way in, but don't worry cos most likey he will like it! Most guys like breaking hymens, it makes them feel like they rule the world and own you!
Not to mention the fact that tight you-know-whats give more pleasure to willys than lose, flobbery ones do!
2007-03-08 02:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Marzipan_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the girls don't bleed after first sexual intercourse, so bleeding should not be an issue to prove your virginity... some girls tear their hymens without even knowing it during masturbation, gymnastics or cycling but it is still best to tell your bf the truth.
2007-03-08 03:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by annika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer is no. But chastity is not related to virginity as a matter of fact. And most educated mammals know this. If you knew this, you wouldn't be asking this question in the first place.
2007-03-08 02:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It probably will be tight but being a virgin unless you bleed again I don't think he will notice? Maybe you two should talk. Good luck friend!
2007-03-08 02:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't know unless you tell him. With the exception of bleeding, no one ever knows for sure, unless the obvious,,,,,someone has a child. Why should it even be a concern, after all how many virgins has he had?? I mean really!
2007-03-08 02:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by Shawn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋