OK i went out with this girl for a month 3 months ago and when we split we stayed close friends. But then my other best m8 who at the time had a girlfriend began to get closer to her and she started to havce feelings for him. So he split with his GF a week ago and has just asked her out and she said yes!!! ANd i have never been so angry in my life! i have to see them every day at school and it really really pains me to se my 2 best mates betray me like this....my parents say i should drop this...but how can i? I still have feelings for her, and i feel like my best mates have stabbed me in the back!! I keep having arguements with her about this, saying that its not fair to me and stuff..and for some reason i just CANT let her go, i think about her all the time, wever been over for 4 months...i just dont no what more i can do!!
2007-03-08 03:08:06 · 12 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Listen to your parents. What kind of best friend would do that to you??? Your girlfriend isn't into you anymore. It's ok, it's normal. Find a new girl and a new friend. He'll hook back up with you when they break up. Then you guys can trash talk her when she is out in the cold.
2007-03-08 03:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by smartazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me once. I actually pretended to be ok with it and become their "friend' to brake them up. It didn't work, it just made me look like a dumbass. Anyway, the only thing you can do is find a hobby that involves other people (Not them). It will keep your mind busy and with time you will let it go. The only thing is that it took me a long time to get over it but when I found stuff to do I wouldn't think about it. So, the trick is to occupy yourself and start looking for another girl. Good luck cause I know it sucks!!!! I was so pissed when it happened to me.
2007-03-08 03:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by WWW.MYHIBRID.COM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem only in reverse. I started dating a gal my best friend had dated and he didn't care for it. I had to weigh the benefits of my best friend's relationship with me and my relationship with the woman. In the end he and I sat down and worked it out. It wasn't worth losing a dear friend over a woman I barely knew. Maybe you should sit down with your buddy and have a heart to heart. Could be he'll feel the same way I did. It's not worth trashing a great friendship for something that might not work out in the end.
2007-03-08 03:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that you still have feelings for her or you don't want them together? Did you tell them how you feel? Instead of talking to everybody else about it talk to them.But if they're really feeling each other as a friend you gotta humble yourself and move on.Or would you rather lose 2 best friends? Think about it.
2007-03-08 03:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by ladydream67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have not betrayed you.You are not in a relationship with her anymore.If he is such a good friend you could just tell him that it is bothering you right now.And ask him to not flaunt it in your face.What you dont know wont hurt you kind of thing.But there is nothing more that you can do except to get back in the game yourself.
2007-03-08 03:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on their bad points and disconnect they from ur life. they obviously dont care as much about u as you do about them. there really is no reason 2 be angry she doesnt belong to you and yes u should feel angry towards your friend he did betray you thats if he didnt ask for your permission if it was k with u. however everyone in this day and age is loyal only 2 themselves and everyone lacks morals and decent curtesy thats y u see so many ppl rwriting on here about cheating. so in conclusion disconnect them and move on. simple u'll meet alot of ppl in ur life u dont need to hold onto every single one of them.
2007-03-08 03:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your parents, you need to let it go. Did you know that you had feelings for her, or did it take your friend dating her to spark the feelings again? It appears that she has moved on and your 2 friends may make a perfect couple. You need to either move on or choose to loose your friends.
2007-03-08 03:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not worth all your energy to be worrying about the two of them. Find yourself a nice girl and go out
2007-03-08 03:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is, You go to school and get down on your knees in front of her and you cry and say "oh please dont leave me i love you so much" and then cry and walk around school sad all day
2007-03-08 03:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by GarbageMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going to clean my words///. kick his tail and you will feel better but you make a real rival and your ex will hate you. why dont you go with his ex. do it for the heck of it
2007-03-08 03:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋