Other - Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

ok, so i have this friend, and she is atheist... she believes that all of these things are good...

abortion
having sex beforre marrige
living w/ your bf
birth control
being gay

ect,....

im only 13, but i know that all of these things are bad... how can i help her?

2007-02-18 03:57:32 · 16 answers · asked by Molly B 1

2007-02-18 03:56:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my bf for 2 and a half years . I meet him while he was here in London studying his PHD which is finished in 2 months time. He is going to move away for work and says that he wants me and my daughter to go with him but i have a feeling that he wants to go alone. Am i just paranoid?

2007-02-18 03:52:26 · 16 answers · asked by stacey f 2

2007-02-18 03:42:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been battling my feelings for this woman for a few months now. I first met her 7 or 8 years ago, she was my older sister's best friend. I guess having spent so much time with her, somewhere along the way, I fell in love with her. But she's become a beautiful woman, whereas I'm not very attractive. She's dates a lot of guys, and since she drinks, well... does something else fairly regular.

It absolutely pisses me off the way all these "pretty boys" treat her, and I'm even pretty upset how I'm overlooked because I'm not "handsome" or "confident" or whatever. But I still love her. It was about a month ago I moved away (until April 3rd). The temporary move is unrelated, though my reasoning was being heartbroken. I try to keep myself occupied, but my mind always goes back to her. Just the little things, like the way she laughed, stay stuck in my head.

Sometimes it just feels like I can't take it anymore. Sometimes, I honestly wonder to myself, am I crazy?

2007-02-18 03:42:04 · 13 answers · asked by Jared C 2

2007-02-18 03:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok ya'll, last night I baby sat with my best friend at her cousins house. We had a really good time and got a lil tipsy after the baby went to sleep and had a typical slow night. Well, after her cousin and boyfriend got home we all went to sleep. The next thing I know her cousins mom calls (which is who adopted my bestfriend so she lives with her cousins mom and husband) and tells her that she just caught her husband having sex with her best friend! WTF?! She went and got her mom and brought her back to the house. My friend, I , and her aunt started drinking at like four in the morning. The problem though, was that I could not think for the life of me what to tell her. Do ya'll think she should stay with him or leave? She has been with him for 17 years now, and this is the first time anything like this has ever happened.

2007-02-18 03:39:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a way?
Is there a way?
Is there a way to tell, if a woman has had many sexual partners by looking at his vagiana or her inner labia or ? I've been told that, if u feel lose inside the woman means she had alot of partners ?? is that true

2007-02-18 03:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by persianoooo 1

If children have no respect for their parents how can they be expected to have respect for other people. I believe that if they were more disciplined at home we would not have all the problems with anti-social behaviour that the taxpayers have to cough up for. I also understand that not all these youngsters have families and probably need more help from the authorities. By disciplining I certainly do not mean abusing the children ( yet another issue).

2007-02-18 03:30:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i am not stupid i am not in love with this guy.maybe sumday i could be, but 4 now itz just fun, and we do that we have SO much fun together! we act like little kids when we get together sometimes, the main problem is if we wanna go out on dates or have any real fun, we have 2 leave our small town and go to a one of the bigger cities near us because of the gossip (this being my idea, he said to screw them but gossip getz back 2 my momma real easy!), only a few people know we are together (2 keep momma from finding out).the reason she can't find out and most ppl look down on our realationship is cuz he is so much older than me i am 16 and he is 32, when we first me i thought he was around 25 or 26, and he thought i was about 18 or 19 (i do look older than i am) but by the time we had even bothered to ask each other ages we had been talkin on the phone (mainly via textin) and had gotten really intrested in each other. is there really any thing wrong with us, and should i ever tell mom?

2007-02-18 03:21:09 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous 1

I bring my man Darren to my house alot after school since we go to the same High School. But the thing is, my momma doesnt have a 9 to 5 so she is usually there. We cant do much because she's downstairs and if we had sex she'd hear sounds or the bed moving. Penetration or oral is a no when mom is home, so the only physical contact me and Darren have had when she was there was some hugs, some kisses and a hand job. Thats why we do all the wild stuff at his house. But she doesnt even know Im gay, she thinks Darren is one of my friends. I believe that she will eventually pick up on us and kinda feel like I should just come out and tell her Im gay. What should I do?

2007-02-18 03:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by longhair_derrick 1

My gf is for the City and I'm a country boy. Almost everything she love to do I don't. Her music is different from mine. So is her movies. She wants to travel the world while I like to stay put. But, we can't get enough of eachother. I guess I'm trying to ask if your partner in your relationship carries the same interests or are they different?

2007-02-18 03:13:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a close lesbian friend who loves me. She knows I'm straight. The thing I've been wondering recently is if actually deep down I might have the same feelings that I don't relize yet. It doesn't make sense. I find some woman attractive, but NEVER anything like, "Mmm, baby give me some of that!". In fact, I feel weird seeing a woman I don't knows crouch. The reason I ask is I drempt the other night, the same night I was hanging with her and another friend, that we had sex. Not making love, but we said what the hell and had sex. I woke up quite surprised. It's been a while since I had a sex dream, though I've been single for 7 months. I just wonder if deep down I feel the same or am starting to. Maybe it was because I've been fattisizing about making out with Brendon Urie from P!ATD. What do you think?

2007-02-18 03:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3

I want think I have Gender Identity Disorder(GID). Im a guy that wants to be woman and im 17. Please help me with how I can tell my parents this, I need there support and love. Please Help Im Really Really Depressed, thoughts of suicide. No rude responses please. Thanks for the help.

2007-02-18 02:39:58 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Jesse♥ 2

did life take advantage of you, are you old and ugly and mean dont worry i still love you

2007-02-18 02:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know someone close to me and he has been to rehab atleast three times over a 22 year period. he went last summer and says he clean.
its hard to tell cause believe it or not he is very functional on drugs. and ive never seen him clean before.
he has been trying to get in a safe at my house full of nercotics cause its my moms meds for her.
i dont think hes been succesful but he also can them on the street. which i cant moniter.
and he always takes a different route to the kitchen stopping at the safe first.
Its not like anything will happen if he is because my parents would literally die without eachother both financially for my mom and litertally for my dad.plus they are startin a business together which they cant pause at the moment for the next two years. so dont tell me to tell anyone.
i want to know so that i no im not in denial: is he still using drugs. and is it okay for me not to care if he dies cause im angry and he can kiss my ***?

2007-02-18 02:31:44 · 2 answers · asked by Miss Casey 4

See, I'm absoloutely fed up with my life at home and so I've decided to run away. I wrote some sort of a riddle to locate me. I live in Cairo, Egypt, and my riddle was this. "In a city A pope built, you shall find me. In the second article, a mystersy will be revealed. You want another clue, do you? You have to search quite well, but you must know, I'm not "in hell". And to add to the compication of the riddle, I wrote it the way that only when displayed on a mirror, the words could be read. By the riddle I above, I mean Alexandria, Egypt. We have a house there that my mom calls to be "hell" which is why I included that "I'm not in hell" part. What do you think? Confusing enough or should I add a little to the mystery? If I should add, tell me what should I? Oh, and by "A pope", I mean Alexander. I know that it wasn't Alexander pope who built it that's why I simply want them to look at the "second article" in the text for the "mystery" to be "revealed"

2007-02-18 02:11:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

of chicken on her plate because she couldn't finish it. I was using a ranch flavored dipping sauce, and she was using a honey mustard sauce. My question is what sauce do you like the best? Ranch or Honey mustard?

2007-02-18 01:38:06 · 6 answers · asked by hank 1

i & my husband get married 6 years a go we have a butyfull daughter.we live in a very nice house,we have a car & we both have job.peaople gosssip that he had anaffair.but i coouldn´t belive b/c i love him.i ask him .he swear that he never had one.i even tried to control his feeling and i always worried what makes him to stop making love with his wife.that is not our only problem ,he miss treated me,i must did what ever he ask me to do.i always accept.but this couldn´t help.he did not respect my family.he always saied "you know no thing,you don´t understand......& he think i´m stupied.some times i think of separretion but i kept quiet for the sack of my little girl.she is my firist child but he have a boy & two dauters from his x-wife.he always shoutt at me.every thing he saied is write but mine is wrong.this is all my detailes.please help me to solve this problem.thank you.

2007-02-18 01:35:06 · 5 answers · asked by halal 1

my TOM-CAT, woke me up !!!!

2007-02-18 01:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He loves me too.he does not live with his wife.they been living seperate from last 3 years.i'm been dating him for last 2 years.he does not want to divorce because he promised his wife that he will go back to her after he finish his army time.i don't know what to do.i love him dearly. the point is i need good suggestion.

2007-02-18 01:09:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to wait until marriage, is that a good and moral thing to do, because my boyfriend is saying that he is okay with me wanting to wait but I feel he is trying to pull away from me and that he wants to break up. I just would like some reassurance on this, so that if I am right then I can break up with him first.

2007-02-18 01:07:58 · 26 answers · asked by kristina_len_smith 1

I stay in mumbai,working as a legal consultant,my mom dad not have,i m alone want a partner who love me & support in good & bad situation

2007-02-18 00:58:54 · 12 answers · asked by doel_ranjit 1

I have been dating a guy for a year and a half and all is going well, except for his 14 year old daughter! She is an instigative little brat who always causes problems (not just with me and him, but with everyone she knows) and quite frankly, I don't know how much longer I can deal with it! She was best friends with my daughter, but started calling her father (my ex husband) and leaving nasty (sex) text messages on his cell phone, so my daughter ditched her as a friend and now things are even worse! Anyone got any ideas on how to deal with her????

2007-02-18 00:51:12 · 6 answers · asked by kelstar 2

I drank too much last night. So much that I ended up in bed with my sisters boyfriend. It didn't feel right. I remember saying no, but also wanting to impress him and feeling like I was with a brother instead of someone that I truly wanted. I did some stuff to him, that made me cry, and then I allowed him to have sex with me. I cried all the way home, cuz I know that I went too far. That I betrayed my sisters fault, and that I went against my own goals. (which I told him). I never worry about hell, but now I do. I am a wreck. I can't tell my sister or my family cuz our relationship will never be the same again. and he won't either. I hate my life right now and f-ing alcohol.

2007-02-18 00:50:52 · 4 answers · asked by ck55 2

2007-02-18 00:27:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is what one of my friends jokingly said to me, i did not want to ask them what they meant, so what do you think they meant?

2007-02-18 00:25:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to hurt my family. But the truth I've been hidding from them for 10 years is becoming great burden for me. Now the only person who hurts is me, but when I tell them there will be much more pain. Should I tell them or should I continous with actting?

2007-02-18 00:20:00 · 16 answers · asked by athe_ena 1

2007-02-18 00:09:31 · 50 answers · asked by thatguyp 2

2007-02-18 00:07:48 · 10 answers · asked by 123 3 1