2007-02-18 00:09:31 · 50 answers · asked by thatguyp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you're thinking of having a final fling you shouldn't be getting married. If you had truley found the person that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, you wouldn't be thinking of going with some one else.
i'd have a hard think about what you want before you go any further, give your fiance some respect and make your choice.
2007-02-18 00:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not she ever found out about it or not, isn't the issue. You need to stay faithful and maintain the trust you have for her and that trust that she has for you. You shouldn't do it now before you get married or after and you really don't want to start your life off with this woman as a lie. Be honest and faithful with each other. Its not worth ruining your life over a last fling with somone else.
2007-02-18 07:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I'm sure you will do it after your married anyway. It is a hard habit to break and a piece of paper does not usually change that. If you were truly in love and planned to be faithful you would not be considering a "final fling". Good luck.
2007-02-18 03:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you want to have a final fling or if you are even thinking along those lines you shouldn't be getting married. Don't have a fling, only do it if you decide not to get married
2007-02-18 00:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in the same situation as you but if you are about to get married should you really still be thinking about having a fling?! Are you sure you are ready for marriage is the question you should ask yourself.
2007-02-18 00:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt because when you decided to marry you decided that she was the one & that you will dedicate your life to your partner. You will soon take official vows & what makes you want to have a final fling now. If you are considering a fling then maybe you are considering not-marrying. Cheater once a cheater forever.
2007-02-18 00:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first married is a big step, an it going to take you both to make it work, honest if you thinking of a final fling, you not ready for married,,,,,if you was you know you was ready to settle down, an not need another women,,,,think about it, in the years to come, it going to come back to bite you in the ***, for at the moniet you have her trust, an to do this would break it, so no dont do it
2007-02-18 00:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're considering a "final fling", before you get married, I think you need to reconsider marriage in the first place. Obviously, you're NOT ready to get married, and are NOT convinced your fiancee is the woman for you. Break up with her, and have all the "flings " you want! You're NOT ready for marriage!!
2007-02-18 00:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are married to her or not, having a fling right now would still be cheating on her. Go ahead and do it. She's going to find out (we always do). And she won't marry you. If it's worth that to you, then have at it.
2007-02-18 00:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
Are you really SERIOUS about getting married?
Do you KNOW WHAT Marriage means?
If you mean to be committed and faithful, start now.
If you're unfaithful now, will it be any different after?
Won't it always be easy to make an excuse, like 'just this once', or 'just this last time'?
They very fact that you asked the Wally's that use this service (myself included) makes me wonder if you're mature enough to enter this very special lifelong venture!
HAVE A LONG LOOK AT YOUR PRIORITIES!
2007-02-18 00:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by sarahbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋