I am going to wait until marriage, is that a good and moral thing to do, because my boyfriend is saying that he is okay with me wanting to wait but I feel he is trying to pull away from me and that he wants to break up. I just would like some reassurance on this, so that if I am right then I can break up with him first.
2007-02-18 01:07:58 · 26 answers · asked by kristina_len_smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's a very good thing , it;s only thing which linked you with god directly.
2007-02-18 01:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin is a good thing!Don't break your morals for anyone, no matter what they say or do[[based on what you saying he is actin against your morals]] your virginity and morals of this can be what helps you determine what guys are bad for you. find a guy who will not pull away from you and will wait for you. anyonewho doesnt is obviously not a good person. you should never even feel you need to question this because in this day and age keeping your virginity is the best and most honorable thing you can do to show you respect yourself.[[this is not to say anyone who isnt a virgin doesnt respect themselves]] hope i helped!
2007-02-18 09:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by His_Fallen_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good for you to have values that are very important to you. In this day and age there are things that you can do for him that doesn't qualify as intercourse. Nobody will know except you and him. Kissing, touching, masterbation etc.. is not full intercourse. I think a lot of guys in the day and age believe that its not such a big deal if you have sex or not and I think this is what is bothering him. Like I said there are other things like the above that you can do and you will still be a virgin. The decision to have sex at all is yours and only you can decide if its that important to you, I hope this helps, be yourself and take care Heather
2007-02-18 09:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to stay a V till your wedding day,and No gentleman has the right to manipulate or make you feel like you're not being love for standing your ground.he can say you're a stuck up person or whatever(if he breaks with you) but the one man you marry next time will be honoured to know that you're not someone that can be pushed around.So what if the boy wants to break with you? He can't be all that great if he can't wait.
Stay a V till your Wedding night, it's the best gift you can give your future hubby.
2007-02-18 09:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by nadienia864 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a VIRGIN? sure if that is HOW YOU feel. Don't let Anyone else sway your
wish just for a moment of pleasure,, If he Really Loves You he would wait till marriage...
If He doesn't want to wait..... then He just wants the S word.....
and talk about it before you break up.
2007-02-18 09:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well congratulations on been a virgin it's hard now a days to find one. But if your bf is acting stupid because you are wanting to wait till marriage and he can't well best thing to do is let him go and don't worry you will find one who will wait for you and even marry you. well if you feel that he is acting strangely because of it just tell him bye and get rid of him.
2007-02-18 09:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel I'm waiting till marring and a lot of people don't understand why we wait because after you have sex with that person then things change with the relationship your doing the right thing and he should respect you for your decision if he did respect you he would know it means a lot to you and he would no if you break that promise you make to your self you will feel bad about it and he don't see it so you need to talk to him about it
2007-02-18 09:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is a great thing, and better to wait till you are married, talk to you man and ask him how he feels and tell him u feel he is trying to pull away from you, you need to no the truth of where you stand as to wether he is the right one 4 u or not , good luck
2007-02-18 09:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin isn't a bad thing, but having sex before marriage is allright, theres nothing wrong with it. It's natural and therefore good. But if he's pulling away then he might be one of those guys who doesn't love you for your self but wants sex. Good luck!
2007-02-18 09:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until marriage
2007-02-18 09:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
waiting until you marry before you have sex? Are you not curious what it is like. Don´t you want to try a car before you buy it?
Why deny the passion? It is the most elementary "feeling" we have. AND, it is pleasant if with somebody you love.
Sex is no sin. Sex i something valuable and beautiful between two people. Why wait?
2007-02-18 09:16:34 · answer #11 · answered by ullis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋