Other - Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

I have been talking t my ex bf's cousin online for a short time. He is married I am now single. We talk about everything. We started talking because my ex asked him to talk with me to see how i felt about things between us. Well now i look forward to talking to him 3-4 times a week and we talk for several hours online. He has been married for 20 yrs but is clearly not happy. We have both told each other things we have not told others we find it very easy to talk. He told me that he really looks forward to talking to me and that he finds me attractive and such and then goes on later to tell me he would never cheat on his wife but says he thinks he will leave her eventually. We talk about sex and everything. I guess my ? is ...what should i think about the things he says to me about finding me attractive then says he will never cheat on his wife..can anyone help me understand what is going on with him? I dont want a relationship with him or anything other than friends what is he thinking

2007-01-18 15:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by ladybug40353 1

well my husband and i are newlyweds its been almost 7months since we've been married. we are very young (going on 20) but i love him and i dont regret our love or marriage, but our religions are one thing that keep us apart. and i hate that but we've talked it out and we've decided to go to our seperate churches. Im a Pentacostal and hes a Jehovah witness and beside that everything is fine but the problem is when we start having children thats when tha problem start. our kids are going to be confused and mixed between mommy and daddy religions. and i dont want to argue about who's going with who on Sundays or what religion our child will become. when tha rite time comes i want children and its stressing me out about how to go about this matter.i feel that we will never come to a conclusion about how we should raise our child, and im scared...

2007-01-18 15:07:31 · 11 answers · asked by iluvu 1

My girlfriend wants me to tell her something that I don't like about her. There is one little thing I don't like, but I don't know if I should tell her and risk hurting her feelings or her getting mad at me. Should I be honest, or should I lie, and say I like everything about her.

2007-01-18 15:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by alex 1

we are both in our late 30s and make about the same amount of money.but 5yrs ago he went thru a nasty divorce which left him in debt.the reason being is he allowed his exwife to make him feel guilty about leaving his family so he gave her everything car,bank accounts,stocks,house plus a large child support payment.i feel this was his chose(except child support) and he should have thought about this before he allowed his ex to get the better of him.if i give him the money(which i could)what stops him from giving her more when she poors on the guilt trip which she does all the time.i know this makes me sound like a b-tch but how would you feel if the ex wife gets to go on cruises(on your bfs child support money) and your bf has just enough money to go to the next state with you? this really happened!am i a bad person because i don't want to fund her next trip?

2007-01-18 14:51:27 · 49 answers · asked by karen7neely 1

i was baby-sitting on new years when the little girl i was baby-sitting told me a story about how she got raped around the age of 5 or 6. she didnt understand it as rape..but i knew, she says shes too embarressed to tell anyone..and then sometimes she would say she already told her mom but her mother didnt believe her. i told her she needs to tell an adult. she says shes too embarressed. she says the boy was a close family friend of the age 17. should i tell her mom myself..or fin out more or what..please help me

2007-01-18 14:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by ♥♥live&laugh 4

My very first question on questions and answers was about why would a mother not let her own son see his loving grandmother.I had many kind replies and a couple of not so kind ones. I am a woman of faith! I have prayed and never given up hope. Tonight my ex-daughter-in-law called me and let me talk to my grandson. I was so happy! I get to see him tomorrow after school! Oh I am so happpy I could just burst. I was a good Mother-in-Law and a good Grandmother and I am so happy! Are you happy for me?

2007-01-18 14:19:30 · 5 answers · asked by Pamela V 7

2007-01-18 14:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by yrsong19 1

I was with my ex for 7 yrs.We share a kid together(2 yr old).During our relationship he was off and on of being a reall as*hole....he cheated, he hit me,he verbally abused me.I loved him so much i gave him millions of chances.Well recently he just walked out of our lives.He dissed his beauutiful baby boy for some fat alcoholic b*tch that has 4 kids by 4 different guys(one of them is his kid).He cheated on me with her like 3 yrs ago and she got pregnant. They both called me yesterday in the middle of the night all drunk talking crap to me...she said "how does it feel to know he picked my kid over yours" he said hes licking her p*ssy!!Basically torturing me.He promised twice this week to see his son...he never showed up...instead h went out and got drunk with his little ho*!!Do you think theyll get what they deserve from god?Or am i just a fool that got *****ed on and thats that?

2007-01-18 14:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom has been dating this guy for six months and he was really really nice. but then he started touching me and he forced me to have sex with him a couple times. im not supposed to tell anybody. i need to tell someone but i cant. i don't want to break my moms heart because she is totally in love with him. so instead i would rather die.

2007-01-18 14:01:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started a massage therapy class and I am uncomfortable with massaging other peoples butts. Is this normal? Also, is it normal to be uncomfotable touching someones buttom that is fat if your not used to it?

Also, I am not doing this as a career ...just for fun!

2007-01-18 13:44:32 · 6 answers · asked by tina*21 2

I need to explain to a girl that it is unhealthy for her to think that her boyfriend is her property. I know that it is unhealthy, but I don't know how to explain it to her.

2007-01-18 13:40:32 · 6 answers · asked by Mitch H 1

Ok I have a wonderful boyfreind. He is everything I ever wanted in a man. He has a great personality and is very good looking he treats me like a princess and always spends time with me when he can. He gets me to laugh and when I am sad he can turn my frown into a smile just like that. He takes my breath away I totally love him. Heres the thing I have a great personality the thing is I don't feel good enough for him on the outside I don't feel I am buetiful enough for him in other words. He tells me I am buitiful but thing is at my school all the guys say I am butt a$$ ugly and i totally hurts me on the inside. Can someone please tell me how I can gain confidence in my self for my honey? He tells me im buetiful the thing is well I don't feel so pretty. Any advise will be appeciated PS i always think he will leave me for another wemon

2007-01-18 13:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a Marine and just want to count how many want me?

2007-01-18 13:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by quazzi_d 2

2007-01-18 13:22:14 · 13 answers · asked by holybass09 1

we workout we work hard to put food on the table, we make sure our kids dont go to wild and at christmas time most of all the presents are bought by us wemake sure our wives are happy we will bend down on on knee for them hell souldint men get some respect to we are not just play things were flesh and blood all men want the same things a house a partner and a job were only flesh and blood what do u think dont we deserve respect

2007-01-18 13:13:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are some good conversation starters
when theres an awkward silence , when
your talking to a guy or just to break the ice ?

2007-01-18 13:13:40 · 7 answers · asked by krista sunshine 2

Please answer don't just make a comment!

2007-01-18 13:05:02 · 18 answers · asked by Concho 1

any idea's

2007-01-18 13:00:18 · 2 answers · asked by xDi0rAngelx 1

Do you feel that you just work, work, work and pretty soon you'll be dead and life will have passed you by?

2007-01-18 12:59:00 · 3 answers · asked by vroom1100 2

say you are 82, you have 2 sisters but your nephews rarely come and visit you, they are very busy with own life, you have a very good young friends (50 years younger than you), who helped you out alots, visited you in hosiptal everyday, drove you around to farms and mountains, brought you food, should you give assets to blood relatives or helpful young friend?

2007-01-18 12:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you resent that child because you feel like you got screwed?

2007-01-18 12:31:16 · 10 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

2007-01-18 12:27:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 12:22:31 · 20 answers · asked by killmylandlord 4

she is a joy and a sorrow as she looks just like her mom. situation very complicated no show father and grandfather from hell custody battle from moment of my daughters death no peace or time to grieve the world has moved on and i am stuck i dont know how to stop waiting for her to come home sitting on the sitting on the front porch waiting for her to drive up , Babies father never comes to see her never shows to court living in limbo waiting for judge to give me permanent custody . sometimes i hurt so bad iam not sure if ican go on

2007-01-18 12:11:32 · 22 answers · asked by broken heart 2

When I became pregnant, my boyfriend started acting weird. I found it difficult to get hold of him at times and it took a day or two for him to even text me back. This caused a lot of arguements. The physical and affectionate side of the relationship was fine until around November time, then he seemed distant and didnt seem to want to be around me. I put it down to being afraid of what was happening. Even after several talks, things didnt improve and we decided to take a break. That was the 10th Dec. I went to hospital with preeclampsia the next day and stayed until I was induced and gave birth 23rd Dec., a month early. He knew I was in hospital and did not visit until I had our daughter. He seemed in a better mood and even started being affectionate again. We had sex recently and ever since he won't even hug me, and hes started to become distant again. He says he doesnt know if he wants us to get back together. What should I do? He says he still loves me, but I need to be shown it.

2007-01-18 12:07:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in need of any real life motivational and inspirational stories or any advice to share with a 12 yr old who lies, sneaks to bully other kids who are scared of him. I need him to realize the consequences that can arise if he does not stop. He is a great kid good grades and listens very well. When he gets to school he tries to be sneaky with what he does and thinks he want get caught. Any advice, related stories along with consequences of his action will be very helpful. Maybe if he hears it from other people or hear it from someone who has been in his same situation and he knows what could happen to him he will finally see what he is doing can cost him a lot. Thanks

2007-01-18 12:03:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 11:49:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried talking to her but she doesnt care,the kids cry everyday when she leaves but again it doesnt seem to faze her, so we are stuck home alone everynight with no veichle, and I am left to cook dinner, as well as do all the clean up and laudry. My kids are in school during the day and my wife does not work.. Can anybody help?????????PLEASE

2007-01-18 11:42:54 · 21 answers · asked by propmanvt 1

Do you preffer a goatee or clean shaven. I sometimes grow it out and sometimes i shave it. what looks better?

2007-01-18 11:38:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even if she hated the father?

2007-01-18 11:31:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous