Other - Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

I was having date with my bf in his apartment and we're just making out. Then there were some knocks in his door so my bf opened it. And then he suddenly became so cheerful so hard so I jump at once to the door. To my surprise, I saw him kissing PASSIONATELY with another woman in her mouth! Of course, I'm kinda shocked here! After they stop kissing, my bf introduced this woman as his cousin and she's all so nice and friendly. My bf told me that his cousin would stay for several days in his apartment, and so I just shook her hand and told my bf that I just wanted to go home.

Now tell me, I'm still a bit enraged here! But I can't say anything at all and I don't know what I should do now... help me, please?

2006-12-16 17:00:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want my friend to be happy and shes not telling me much on her new relationship other than broad details, what do i do if i went more specific details, how do i ask her? shes just coming home from her sophomore year in college, and ive known her from since my freshman year. its been like 4 years since ive known her

2006-12-16 16:53:46 · 11 answers · asked by Mikey P 1

2006-12-16 16:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got this one dude who is sweet and worships the ground me and my baby walk on. However, it's a past boyfriend and we lost our connection when he went to prison for about 4 years. Now he's out and been out a while and wants to be with us. I just can't bring myself to be with him. While he was away I fell in love with another man. Who turned out to be absolutely wrong for me. Now my past lover is still around and will do anything to be apart of our lives. I'm thinking the longer he comes around this will only make me gain the feelings I had before he got locked up. Oh, I didn't mention that we were in a nine month relationship before he got locked up. Does anyone think I will gain the feelings I had for this man before? Or not? Now I've decided to take me and my baby and move away from this forbidden city. And start a new life elsewhere. I think that's why I won't let myself get back into this man. HELP ME!

2006-12-16 16:22:19 · 5 answers · asked by turk25 1

I dont know what to do. He says he hates school tells that to anyone who will listen. The teacher sent home papers so found in his desk on which he wrote he hates school. He never gets in trouble and gets good grades. His teacher said she was surprised because he seem happy there. When my husand and I asked him why he hates school he gave us about 11 reasons then two days later when he heard I was going to address some of the things with his teacher he told me he made some of it up. He is an only child and I am a stay at home mom. He spents lots of time with both me and my his dad and has our undivided attention when we are with him so i ruled out doing it for attention. Any ideas of how to get him to stop makeing things up ? And why does he hate school so much.?

2006-12-16 16:18:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 15:59:34 · 8 answers · asked by solymar 3

Ok...i went out with this guy quite awhile ago, well actually we were engaged. Anyway we lost touch...and i recently found out he is married and has 2 kids (i'm completly happy for him, it is not one of those things)...well here is the wierd part...his kids are named the names that we had picked out together when we were planning our family. Is that a little odd...I was going to try to get in touch with him but now i don't know if it such a good idea. I mean am i reading more in to this...What do you think?

2006-12-16 15:24:17 · 15 answers · asked by sweetokiemomma 1

PLZ HELP ME

2006-12-16 15:21:19 · 25 answers · asked by Courtney M 1

My Fiance lost his mother and young sister to a car crash last Feb. His personality has changed completly. He refuses to talk about anything that reminds him of them. He is in complete denial. I am trying to be understanding but he is taking a lot of his frustrations out on me. I moved my enitre life and daughter across country quit my job and came to live with him while he tries to get custody of his other young sibling that survived the crash. How can I help him? My patience is wearing thin and I can't handle my great guy being moody, angry, and mean to me.

2006-12-16 15:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by stef 2

so my bf left me a meassage and he said he did something and might go to jail but he wont say what im sitting here about to cry because he wont even say why hes leaving and he sent me a message on MYSPACE which makes it worst is that he couldnt call i really will miss kissing him and talking to him heres is what he said:


hey baby i just wanted 2 tell u that i love u and i dont kno when ill talk 2 u again cuz sum stuff happened and i might be headed 2 DJJ. ur still me gurl and ill *** back 4 u. luv u allwayz ur man BLAKE



so now im sitting here about to cry because i just got this like 30 mins ago and he wont even tell me whywhich makes it worst im so worried and scared what should i do? because he lives to far away for me to walk and i cant find a ride to see him if i tell my mom she'll be like no you cant date him ( she knows who he is but she doesnt know w are dating)

e when i asked him he saaid nothin
I did call him & left a message so dont say that

2006-12-16 14:58:45 · 28 answers · asked by lil_court_843 2

2006-12-16 14:47:26 · 10 answers · asked by swtluvingcntrygirl 3

i have been omunicating with this man on the phone for the last 4yrs we previously had a relationship but that was many yrs ago he rings me almost every week but the real strange thing is he wont come see me he only lives about 1/2hour away he is very busy with a very hige profile job but i cant get an answer as to why he wont see me but wants to keep talking every week am i being unreasonable wanting to see him or has he got some unknown reason for not wanting to he flirts on the phone when we talk and he is the one to always call although i do txt him from time to time i just find it very strange why after talking for 4yrs he is so reluctent to visit if thats the case why does he keep calling i dont know what he is looking for in this relationship or if he is looking for anything at all i have told him not to call if he keeps refusing to give me an answer but he just keeps calling i do enjoy talking to him but i want more than just a 10min phone call a week

2006-12-16 14:42:26 · 7 answers · asked by flossypants 4

2006-12-16 14:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm American and she is from Peru, she came here three years ago

She loves me and I love her,, so you would think that we would at least stay together for a whie but here is the problem

her family which are all illegal immigrants are ignorant towards Americans,, not all but some like her sister in law

this is her best friend, but she will tell my girlfriend bad things about me and the problems with stupid gringos, If I ask my girlfriend to come out with me,,she will have to tell the women, and she will always say,,,what with that stupid,,boring gringo

she and a few others are really trying to manipulate her into breaking up with me,,,,,Im tall and good looking,, so maybey it is becuase they are jealous I don't know,,but they have a lot of influence over her,,and it really bothers me

I brought it uo once to my girlfriend and she said that these are her best frinds and she takes what they say seriously

help me

2006-12-16 14:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by t-time d 1

My stepdad has mental abuse me since I was 2 1/2 years old and now that I have a son on the way I think he'll do the same thing to him.

2006-12-16 14:19:50 · 10 answers · asked by Caramel 1

2006-12-16 13:56:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a mean neighbor and he almost ran over my cat, yelled at me 5 times, and he is my teachers husband. what can i do about him. it's to the point where i'm afraid to go outside and see him.

2006-12-16 13:56:02 · 10 answers · asked by trumpthat 2

okay so I only know of about 4 people who is actualy happy for us. Everyone else is trying to break us up. Even my family is trying to send him to jail. I love him, I cant stand being with out him. I know I love him. but everyone is pressuring me to break up with him. Please help.

2006-12-16 13:14:03 · 4 answers · asked by me... 1

can you prove love exist or can you prove that it doesnt exist

2006-12-16 13:12:05 · 14 answers · asked by pissing_in_themainstream 1

2006-12-16 12:50:05 · 5 answers · asked by elizabeth ? 1

2006-12-16 12:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by lee f 5

My husband just went to jail 2 weeks ago, He's not going to be released until June 2007. we have 2 kids, now what do i do?

2006-12-16 12:46:09 · 21 answers · asked by Yvette 1

me and my husband have been married almost 2 years now, and we have a 6 mos old...he is a fair amount older than me, and I just want to know what your opinion is on this last thing that happened...It's probably biased....being the wife and all.....so just read it k??
We had our daughter in June and I was the hormonal type that hated sex while were were expecting, and we didn't have sex for the last 3 months of my pregnancy at least...and then we didn't have it for the 8 wks of healing afterwards,,,and then i just didn't want to and we just went a 2 mos span without having it for no reason at all...and he comes up to me and says he feels rejected, the problem with that is, that he's been in the hospital, for the last month and then i went back to work full time, and put my kid in daycare....and he says he feels rejected how do I talk about that with him, and how do I get past this no sex thing I could care less about having sex again in my life, well that's how it feels...So help pls

2006-12-16 12:44:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Could you also give your age, sex and family status. I'm 37,male, married with one child, and I think about work and money.

2006-12-16 12:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by igollert 3

2006-12-16 12:42:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 12:35:54 · 13 answers · asked by theplasticcanvasgal 2

and i said yes....you look wonderful tonight.


what do you mean that aint funny???

2006-12-16 12:17:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 12:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by bob 2

2006-12-16 12:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by Nigi-magic 3

Okay, so I knew that my boyfriend tried weed a few months ago. It was stupid and he admitted it and I asked him never to do it again. It conflicts with my morals, is illegal, not to mention a waste of time and money!! So he said that he wouldn't and that he hasn't. Well, he wanted me to change some of the stuff on his myspace and I ran across a message he sent someone saying he gets drunk/high everynight!! First off, I know this is not true! But secondly, I was worried that he may be smoking pot and not telling me!!! We have been dating fo about a year and this would be a serious deal breaker to me... I dont know what to do. A part of me thinks he was just trying to seem "big and bad" to the guy he was talking to, but I just can't help but freak at the idea that I could be in love with a POTHEAD!!!

2006-12-16 11:58:42 · 15 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1