I dont know what to do. He says he hates school tells that to anyone who will listen. The teacher sent home papers so found in his desk on which he wrote he hates school. He never gets in trouble and gets good grades. His teacher said she was surprised because he seem happy there. When my husand and I asked him why he hates school he gave us about 11 reasons then two days later when he heard I was going to address some of the things with his teacher he told me he made some of it up. He is an only child and I am a stay at home mom. He spents lots of time with both me and my his dad and has our undivided attention when we are with him so i ruled out doing it for attention. Any ideas of how to get him to stop makeing things up ? And why does he hate school so much.?
2006-12-16 16:18:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your child may be smarter the then level of teaching going on in his class. Some children are fast learners and find first years of school tedious and boring.
Get your child's learning skills tested and see what level of learning he would find challenging. After all, challenges create interest. If a child is not challenged by doing tables of math then a child may find Algebra more of a challenge.
As a child, once we understand the little bumps in the road of education, the big ones don't seem so daunting and we excel.
2006-12-16 16:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by d4d9er 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he may not be challenged enough. Perhaps the workload given to him is too easy. You need to have a sit-down chat with him and/or the teacher and go over this stuff.
I'm not an expert; my guess is nothing more but just a guess.
2006-12-17 00:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the child may be having some inferiority complex.it may be with regard to his personality or performance or he may not be liking the atmosphere.First ask him whether he is comfortable with the school.if not change the atmosphere. if he is suffering from
inferiority complex counsel him that education is must now a days and he has to put some pains to achieve the best
2006-12-17 01:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by babuji 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe someone is picking on him. i hated going to school too, but i just didn't want my mom to leave me. I always wanted to be with her. it jus may be a phase.
2006-12-17 00:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shelbalina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋