2006-12-16 15:59:34 · 8 answers · asked by solymar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
time is exactly what it takes, love is one of the things that we as people take advantage of.
when someone says that they love you.
ask yourself, before u even answer it back. 9X's out of 10. people respond back with
i love you too. not even knowing what it means.
call me crazy if you will, but if i said i love you to someone, i would want them to be honest, and just tell me rite out, the truth no matter how bad it hurts. i just want honesty.
cuz I'm not waiting around for a sour, bitter person,. if they can't committee, off with them, and on with the new.
but what is love? to me love is something that is the hardest thing to walk away from. but it has to have two people not just one. and two people two work at it. if one is not going to work at it. well then they aren't worth the time of day, all they will do is to continue to tare you down, and run around. walk away. really IT"S NOT A BIG DEAL!!!
that person isn't worth losing sleep over. i know this sounds easier said then done, but trust me.
just keep busy in your life and the person will see that it didn't really bother you. it will make them wounder, if you really cared. smile, be happy it's OK.
worst things could have happened.these are called life's experiences, and not all of them are so good to go threw.
that person lost out, not you.
there the loser.
hold your head high and don't let it get you down lifes to short, and shorter then we all think, . time will make it easier, but don't sit around and feel bad or sad.
this means their are better things in store for you.
2006-12-16 16:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never forget but as time goes by it can get easier. The time that takes depends on you. Some people can move on quickly and some people take a lot of time. Taking your mind off it by doing things or being with other people can help.
2006-12-16 16:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not forget the man but you can forget your feelings for him. It is up to you on how you deal with it. I know some women when it comes to love they are very weak, all they think is the feelings they have for the man, in this case it will be hard for you to get over it. You have to think of yourself too! Give yourself a respect so men will respect you too! Have a little pride, if man rejected you, somehow practice telling yourself ''if you don't like me, SO WHAT! you're not the only man in this world''
2006-12-16 16:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you lost this person! Meaning death of bad relationship that has gone wrong. i guess you never forget and you eventually move on with time. These things make us stronger and the better person we are. Try to move on and keep your head up.
2006-12-16 17:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by goodgrlelectric2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget? Never. That's not what love is. But it took me about six months to stop obsessing over this one person.
2006-12-16 16:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you've fully acknowledged the fact that you need to move on and that your open to new feelings again.
it sometimes takes a long long time...but everyday is a new step.
just keep believing that someone will come your way.
and dont hate him/her or plan a massive revenge on him/her okei???
just forgive and be friends...so whatever of your past will always be special in both your hearts
2006-12-16 16:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how long u were with that person and how u want to define really loved them the man im married to now would take me the rest of my life bc he makes my life and my childrens life complete
2006-12-16 16:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never have alot of time
2006-12-16 16:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋