Other - Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

My boyfriend is always on the computer. We come home from somewhere and he pratically runs upstairs to the computer. When he was little, his mom bought him of with computer games, he has these real high tech computers. Now he tells me that he keeps his sanity with the computer. I asked him if there was anything else that he could do or we could that would help him keep his sanity. See he has this 48 year old brother that isn't happy till he ruins everyones lives and my boyfriend has to take his ****, because anytime he says anything to his brother , the mother says can't you two get along, its like his brother can't do anything wrong. Is there anythgn i could do to help him out and he never wants to go out and do things either. Please tell me what i can do:) thanks

2006-12-10 08:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy has befriended my mom and has well and truly settled in. He has no job and sponges off of her. She thinks he's great and praises him endlessly for evrything he does ie odd jobs around the home and shopping. But, when she is not there he is arrogant and very very unfriendly toward myself ad my brother, then when my mom apppears agin he changes into this friendly suck upp again. Every time she complains about someone he agrees and riles her up, and then sucks up by offering to ie go to the supermarket seen as so and so didnt etc etc...
I really dont know what to do, he has poisened her friends againt her and i barely ever visit cos he's always there (he has no job and never has) and she always defends him if i say anything, telling me that i have no right to be like that about her friends and he is nicer to him than anyone. Can anyone offer me a solution on how to get him to go away, without my mom hating me forever???please help

2006-12-10 08:47:51 · 10 answers · asked by christine 2

i dont know what answer i am looking for or am i even looking for an answer but there is the thing Me and my mom came to U.S. from another country in europe because she was going to marry a guy "my step dad" Right now we live with him but he is such a lier "b**ch any bad word would be for him its impossible to live with him. she offered me to go back but i dont want to because Life isnt as good there you have less oportunities less fun things like wii ps3 but here my life isnt that good compared to american people but better then there well i just cant live with him but i dont want to go back my mom doesnt work and doesnt speak english that well so she is going to college and studying again to become a doctor because she was a doctor before she just has to do it again in US any way what would you do in my situation ?

2006-12-10 08:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

law!!! she won't listen

2006-12-10 08:41:46 · 6 answers · asked by KRISTEN J O 1

I havent cheated or anything, just out of nowhere...

2006-12-10 08:39:38 · 30 answers · asked by begging4love123 1

I think my sisters husband is stealing my panties, what should i do? where should i hide them? yes he is hot but what does this mean? I don't understand why would he do this? what does he want from me?

2006-12-10 08:38:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just readin g the one about women being hypocrits for seeing strippers and wondered this. I'm not going off on a rant but I read what Chris Tarrant said the other day- boys will be boys, I love my wife to pieces, but we all need a bit of lust in our lives. It made me go ewww because the guy is 60 years old and I think his wife is very attractive. v Do all men think like this. Do some men think that sex is just an everyday thing, no big deal or...do women think this way too?

2006-12-10 08:33:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

WELL IM 22 YRS OLD AND MY FIANCE HAS 2 CHICLDREN FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE AND ITS BEENGOOD TO SEE THEMEVERY OTHER WEEKEND UNTILE THER EMOTHER TOLD MY FIANCE THAT HE COULDNT SEE THEM ANYMORE SO I HAD TO GET USE TO NOT SEEIN GTHEM AROUND AND THEN I SEE THEM AGAIN AND THEN I HAD TO GET USE TO THEM BEING AROUND AND NOW SINCE THERE MOTHER HASNT LET US SEE THE 2 KIDS IN OVRE A YEAR I HAD TO GET USE TO THEM NOT BEING AROUND AND I FEEL COMFORTABLE NOW AND HE WENT TO HIS LAWYER TO SEE BOUT WHAT HE CAN DO TO SEE HIS KIDS AND I FEEL BAD FOR SAYING THIS BUT I LIKE THEM NOT BEING AROUND AND I HAD TO CHANGE MY LIFE SO MANY TIMES AND I DONT WANNA CHANGE WHAT I H AVE NOW... WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT THIS??? IS IT BECAUSE IM SO YOUNG BECAUSE I DONT HAVE KIDS OF MY OWN??? GIVEME SOME HELPFUL ADVICE ON HIS KIDS COMING BACK INTO OUR LIVES AND HOW IS IT GONNA CHANGE WHAT I HAVE WITH MY FIANCE?.. THANKS

2006-12-10 08:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet N Loveable 1

Heyy peoples. I'm 15 and I guess I have a different outlook on what age girls should be getting pregnant, because aroung my school I'm seeing sooo many pregnant children and we have a program for ladies who have already had their children and there's soo many of them!! I mean I have 3 pregnant ladies ridin my bus and about 2 in 2 diff classes and they talk about it like everyone should do it. I mean its like theyre braggin and it makes me sick
to see them doin something so stupid b/c half of them dont even know who there baby daddy is. I mean if your gonna do that why not use a condom? Well here's my question what do think about teenage pregnancy, and have you had an experience like that?

2006-12-10 08:29:34 · 11 answers · asked by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3

Asked me if I would start to take her kid to school each day. She has got a new job and cant go herself. I go there ayway with my kids, However she did say she would pay me, I took him all last week and shes not offered me a penny, I called at hers earlier to drop some hints but she didnt take me on, and shes expecting me to take him again tomorrow. I feel she is using me. What should I do?

2006-12-10 08:26:59 · 24 answers · asked by The Way 4

Some people think that they have nothing in their own lives but love.
Do u think that there is something else in the life that is as important as or even more important that love?

2006-12-10 08:24:27 · 15 answers · asked by Mr Rahdari 1

I have had a harsh time growing up. My whole childhood i got virbal and phisical abuse. I have to wait a couple more years before i can move out. All of my memories are of everyone getting beaten, things getting stolen, and etc. My mom became a drug addict and has stolen every dime she always leaves us without food,money,and a car. These events have made me so miserable leading to me becoming emo. I feel like i am worthless. My life is a bad one i might add. It makes my grades slip and everything. Both of my parents have told me they hated me and didnt want me. I want to improve this and come out of my dark depressed shell. HELP this has gone on far to long.

2006-12-10 08:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by britt_hearts_green_day 1

2006-12-10 08:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by judy m 3

Can you give me some really funny, things to put on an ornament. I have blank ormnaments that I am going to write on and i need stuff to write on them. They can even be a little inappropriate! I dont have the imagination to comer up with them on my own!! Thank you!!! Will give best answer!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-10 08:08:27 · 5 answers · asked by Confuzzled! 2

heres the deal my boyfriend and I hve been together for about 3 months and his baby's mother was pregnant at the time she broke up with him we got together everything was so good despite the drama that she caused all the time, he didnt have anything to do with her becuse all the lies she made up about him and myself he was just going to go over to her house once the baby is born well...the baby has been born and its been here for about a week, and i feel soo left out of the picture i understand he has a responsiblity to take care of but its weird when u go from being number 1 on his priorty to 2nd and he stays at his ex girlfriends house all the time now..he didnt even call me in the morning after he woke up he went straight to her house i feel so bad and i'm about ready to give him up but i dont want to because i love him. i feel like he might forget about me complety and they may get back together because all the time he spends over there....please give me some advicee!!

2006-12-10 08:07:46 · 10 answers · asked by t0xic_n_addictiv3 2

2006-12-10 07:48:06 · 12 answers · asked by curiousmom_69 1

I am considering to stop using this word. Even under playful circumstances. I have had to reeavaluate myself over the last 4 years and this is one of the changes that I am considering.

My girlfriend doesn't mind me using the word, or so she says. But I am beginning to think it falls under the same line as calling straight people, gay when they are not. Like being gay is an insult.

I would like to get a women's point of view on this. Sorry men.

2006-12-10 07:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend acts like he doesn't want me to have a life besides him.I used to go out with friends all the time now when I try to make plans he makes up something we have to do together or he puts down my friends calling them white trash,losers,etc.I love him and don't want to break up but how do I make him see I need a life besides him.(I think he's paranoid because his ex cheated on him)

2006-12-10 07:45:37 · 15 answers · asked by J♥R♥R 6

But then later when confronted, say it was a joke?!?!?

2006-12-10 07:45:01 · 3 answers · asked by flierchic 2

I mean anything from talking to the opposite sex to staying out all night!

2006-12-10 07:41:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son's bestfriend up here in my state just killed himself today.

Of course my son is very upset, ( he's in another state) and won't talk to any family right yet.............
how I talk to him about this?
How do you get one to open up and talk? I'm affraid for what is going through his head to tell you the truth. Too many drugs involved.

2006-12-10 07:40:36 · 3 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6

Women say 'I'm too tired' or think about the week ahead etc but men can rapidly switch on and think Yippee and forget how late it is etc.

2006-12-10 07:32:36 · 30 answers · asked by Isabelle 3

when im in town i always get really turned on by women in short skirts and legs, and I sometimes think about looking up there skirt, im worried one day i will and get into trouble.

2006-12-10 07:07:36 · 17 answers · asked by 29man 1

on the internet because i wasn't playing practical jokes or turning the telly over all the time .

How long have you lasted online??

2006-12-10 06:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my cat and lover shadow wants me to buy him a surprise from the Ann Summers shop, i think he wants to spice up our sex life!
Mother, brother and Llama told me you can buy cat sex toys im not sure if i should believe them so im going to go and ask the shop assistant when I get in there. Has anyone else bought any sex toys for their cat from Ann Summers? sent

2006-12-10 06:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by fletch 2

i am hurt....... :(

2006-12-10 06:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

the champayne and put some romantic music on.

Do you think it's too early to drink???

IT'S 730 pm

2006-12-10 06:33:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do? Lets say that you are at the happiest in your life you have acheived all that you've ever dreamed for ( family, success, whatever it is that you think will guarantee your happiness) but one night you see a rape occuring ( be it wherever) do you stop it at the risk of your own life? or do you walk away and pretend to see nothing (see no evil, hear no evil)? Why?

2006-12-10 06:19:58 · 11 answers · asked by Lexy 6

2006-12-10 06:16:44 · 12 answers · asked by deevoonay 3

My best friend is married has kids and was having affair with his girl friend in office who is also married and has kids... Now the girl wants to leave him and become faithful to her husband , but my friend has truely loved her and cannot leave her nor forget her .. He has done everything for her and spend all his money, belongings and slogged for her day and night . and now the girl wants to back out , but she just says that she loves him ... he asked my guidance... what is the best solution .

2006-12-10 06:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by akhtar99 1