can men be faithful for life?

Question

I was just readin g the one about women being hypocrits for seeing strippers and wondered this. I'm not going off on a rant but I read what Chris Tarrant said the other day- boys will be boys, I love my wife to pieces, but we all need a bit of lust in our lives. It made me go ewww because the guy is 60 years old and I think his wife is very attractive. v Do all men think like this. Do some men think that sex is just an everyday thing, no big deal or...do women think this way too?

I asked that question too, are women faithful.. perhaps I didn't put it down very well = ) my bf did sleep with somebody when i was pregnant, I know it's really vile, but his dad had just died and he was only in his early 20's. I believed him when he said he would never do it again or am I naive? He told me the day after and he was in such a mess about it all. He hasn't done it again and I think he would tell me if he did. Having a child has made him grow up alot.

I mean my boyfriend was in his early 20's not his dad

Answer 1

No, not all men think like this.
Chris Tarrant gets away with saying stuff like that because he is very, very rich. It is a powerful aphrodisiac.
If you have lived enough life, and I don't mean in years, and you have learned enough about life, then, yes. I believe that if you are at that stage in life, you can remain loyal and faithful to one partner.
I truly believe that.
I'm 41.

Answer 2

Men have the hormone testosterone. It is the very reason they have a higher sex drive than women. Having said this, if you have avowed to be faithful to your wife, stay away from other chicks and get to whacking! You should of remained single, or if you cannot resist some strange, respect your wife... and yourself and separate for divorce.

Men and women both, can look at sex in many ways, throughout life. I guess it just depends where they are at, in that moment of time you meet.

Answer 3

Biologically speaking men have to mate with as many females as possible in order to ensure that some of their progeny will adapt and survive and hence ensure the survival of the species.

yes, we are told to stay faithfull to the same woman, but please tell me how is that possible when the woman is as independent and able to made decent money on her own. Maybe marriage is an outdated institution, which made sense when the woman stayed home and took care of children and the men were too busy to make a living.

I do not know of a single couple in my generation that has had a happy marriage. They are all fighing or divorced. Compare this to my parent' generation when most people did stay till death.

With longer lives, you wind up spending more years with your significant others. Reminds me of a joke: an old man and woman were sitting outside enjoying the afternoon. They man whispers "I llove you", the woman responded "I'm sick of you too!"

Finally, yes, it is so much more difficult not to stray since there are so many strip clubs and hot women strutting their stuff and throwing themselves at any many who is reasonably well off and educated. Even Television and movies and music videos are just full on implicit and explicit sexual inneundos. Remember, the male organ reacts without any input from the cortex, it is a deep rooted reflex action more controlled by hormones than by nerve input.

Answer 4

0f course some men can be faithful for life.
I have managed 37+ years so far, and have no desire to look elsewhere
None of us NEED lust. Some may WANT it and insist on it, but it is not a need. That is just a self-centred excuse for the inability to p[ractice self-control. If someone said I can't help it about anything else you would view them as a real wimp.

Answer 5

LIL: I'm a male and I don't go out a whoring after flesh ! I'm married and I decided BEFORE getting married, that if I'm going to behave as if I'm single, why am I getting married for ? A lot of guys have gotten married because they have done so, for SEX not love. Therefore, they spend their married life chasing porno, women, and other methods for "getting a bit of lust in their lives". The result ? - their women, for the most part, feel like hookers not like wives. This isn't a marriage but a business arrangement ! This is why, many women feel like 10 lbs of crap in a 5 lb bag in her relationship with her "husband" ! Girls - women - watch out for who you marry !

Answer 6

It varies...some people (men and women) are loyal and faithful throughout their lives...some never are...and some fall somewhere in between...

Same with sex...some view it as to be shared with only their spouse...some feel they'd at least need to care about the other person on some level...and others see it as a free for all and anyone who is willing, is fair game (no matter if they are single or not).

It's an individual issue...not a male or female issue.

Answer 7

NO,MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS MAMMALS.THEY NEED MORE THAN ONE FEMALE TO HAVE SEX,(NOT LOVE)MEN ALWAYS LOVE ONE BUT SEX MORE THAN HER.

Humans were mainly polygamous before Christianity enforced monogamy. The fact that men are generally 5 to 12% taller than women would suggest that humans are naturally polygamous. Monogamous gibbons are less dimorphic than we are, but we are less dimorphic than the polygamous gorilla. There is little dimorphic difference between human polygamous and monogamous societies.

Where males compete, sexual bimaturism is generally found. This means females mature before males. It is thought that this is to protect young males from losing against larger mature males. Common sense would suggest that it should be the other way around with boys maturing before girls, as early pregnancy places a physical strain on young females.

Answer 8

Yes... They may look but if they really love you they won't touch! Some men might but if they say they really like you and don't want to loose you they most likely will be faithful! It all depends on who your with... just make sure you aren't too suspicious because that my lead them to cheat!

Answer 9

i am a male 41 years old, i dont think men can be faithful for life, we have on the scale of things not advanced from cave men, not in the way we think

Answer 10

yes there are some men who see marriage as sacred and sex as more than just an action,
but they are very rare.
basically, you have to know if they guy is really ready to settle down. Not just someone who wants to get married, but does he really want to settle down and invest his time in someone? Thats it.