i dont know what answer i am looking for or am i even looking for an answer but there is the thing Me and my mom came to U.S. from another country in europe because she was going to marry a guy "my step dad" Right now we live with him but he is such a lier "b**ch any bad word would be for him its impossible to live with him. she offered me to go back but i dont want to because Life isnt as good there you have less oportunities less fun things like wii ps3 but here my life isnt that good compared to american people but better then there well i just cant live with him but i dont want to go back my mom doesnt work and doesnt speak english that well so she is going to college and studying again to become a doctor because she was a doctor before she just has to do it again in US any way what would you do in my situation ?
2006-12-10 08:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're old enough to get a job do it. Then save some money & move out as soon as you have enough. Let your mom make her own decision.
2006-12-10 08:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the three of you could sit down together and figure out how to make things better. Calling him names and disrespecting him is only gonna make things worse and make your mom lean more towards this man and look bad on you.
Try to respect your moms wishes.Maybe you and your mom could plan out things to do together. It maybe a good idea to give your step parent a chance to show you that he may not be as bad a person as you think. If you still feel that way sit down and discuss with your mom why you feel the way you do.
Your growing up and will not always be around your stepfather. But atleast respect what your mom wants. You have school and activities and just because your mom is changing things in her life does not mean she does not love you, sounds like she is trying to give you a chance at a better life. Now its upto you what your gonna do with it. good luck.
2006-12-10 16:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might feel this way right now so hold on and see. i have a stupid stepmom and she is soo annoying you're get over it some how good luck
2006-12-10 16:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by sweety84pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough it out, things always get better. nothing lasts forever, not even your trobles. sound like you need to be there for your mother too. help her any way you can.
2006-12-10 16:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋