My boyfriend is always on the computer. We come home from somewhere and he pratically runs upstairs to the computer. When he was little, his mom bought him of with computer games, he has these real high tech computers. Now he tells me that he keeps his sanity with the computer. I asked him if there was anything else that he could do or we could that would help him keep his sanity. See he has this 48 year old brother that isn't happy till he ruins everyones lives and my boyfriend has to take his ****, because anytime he says anything to his brother , the mother says can't you two get along, its like his brother can't do anything wrong. Is there anythgn i could do to help him out and he never wants to go out and do things either. Please tell me what i can do:) thanks
2006-12-10 08:51:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why not encourage him and give him the feeling that u r happy about his life when he feel that from u then he will give more attention to u
2006-12-10 09:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down and tell him what needs to happen for this relationship to get better. Tell him you are not happy to come over and see him forever on the computer. Just tell him exactly how you feel. If you don't he will never know the truth. If you have already done this, tell him you are not happy and if he does not grow up you are going to move on and stick to it.
2006-12-10 08:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Renita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant necessary stop him from goping on the computer but u can suggest 2 him u both do something 2geva or ask if u can join in so u dont get left out whilest he plays. i have the same problem n so far me being more envolved kinda helps gd luck hope i helpped.
2006-12-10 08:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and let him know that you want a man that will take you places and do other things then stare at a computer screen. if he cannot understand that or if you two can't find something in common to do then he probably isn't the right guy for you. hopefully he will listen when you talk!good luck
2006-12-10 08:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by xo marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of crap is that? how can a computer help someone keep sane? thats like saying going out and killing random people helps keep someone sane, THATS THE BIGGEST LOAD OF CRAP I EVER HEARD. sounds like you'd be better off finding someone new, and as it relates to the brother issue, he needs to grow up, sounds like both of these boys need to grow up, and mommy needs to cut the cords to both of them instead of babying them both
2006-12-10 08:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, i have tried to get my bf off of it. theres just the hope that he will stop himself.
2006-12-10 08:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yOU WON'T BE ABLE TO STOP HIM...MY BF CAN'T STOP ME EITHER AND IT'S DRIVING HIM CRAZY!!...BUT HE LOVES ME!
2006-12-10 09:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋