Other - Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

I've known her for nine months. We've been very serious for the past month.

For the past three weeks, the plan was for her to get out of her place and move in with me. We ruled against ditching my place and moving into hers, since her place costs a lot more. She also talked about getting a regular job up here and quiting her contract (she's originally from out of town) The idea was save money, pay her debts, and get into a position to buy a place of our own. Over the past couple days, we've been planning on what we keep, and what we sell.

Now, out of the blue, she says that its all about me and what I want. She's talking about how she has to get rid of her place and move in with me, and everything she is sacrificing. She now wants to keep her place, rent out a room, and both of us keep our seperate places. She even spoke of not working here and going back to her old job in her old town.

She says I didn't do or say anything wrong, but where is all of this coming from?

2006-11-28 12:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by angling_cyclist 3

I have 2 daughters that are now 15 and 14 years old and their father has never been apart of their lives and has never paid child support. He is currently incarcerated.

2006-11-28 11:55:50 · 5 answers · asked by crystal_ramirez72 1

some girl i know is all kissing up to me and is all the sudden flirting and there is two of them why?

2006-11-28 11:48:06 · 2 answers · asked by scenekid13542 2

i hooked up (made out) with a guy i like about two weeks ago. now imagine this guy: a cute, innocent, really shyyy guy that has only kissed a couple girls, really private about his personal life.

this past weekend, we got drunk together again and hooked up again (we have mutual friends, so we were at a party together).. since he was tipsy, he was a lot more outgoing, and a lot more forward. but in real life hes SHYYYY. (and hes not the kinda guy who uses girls for hooking up, hes the total opposite of a player)

thats the thing: he rarely talks to me, even though we see each other everyday at the university. this could be bc hes really shy, and would NEVER go up to a girl he likes w/o the confidence of alcohol. im shy too, so we dont talk much.

do you think i am JUST a f*ckbuddy to him, a friend w/ benefits? if he likes me, he would never approach me bc he is too shy. &since it has happened more than once, i have to suspect that he might like me.. but does he want smthng more?

2006-11-28 11:45:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok..heres the situation...we started talkin 2 weeks ago...everything was going amazing..we connected and i fell head over heels for her. I asked her out on Friday and she said yes. Yesterday her Ex that i didnt know about added me to MSN n msgd me sayin that he still loves her but he lost her. They went out for a little over a year and broke up in September after he cheated on her. So now after he found out that i asked her out i guess hes trying now to get her to go bak to him. She tells me that she thinks hes a jackass and wants nothing to do with him. Is it wrong that im feeling reallly insecure about this whole thing? She acts like she really cares about me at skool cuz we cuddle n stuff, but once again, i guess im insecure about this now that i know. I dont want to be no rebound guy and I like her SOOOOOOOOOOO much...

2006-11-28 11:39:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just wondering if I'm the only one out there with my V-card on reserve.

2006-11-28 11:37:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you crazy as this girl, I put gum in the girl's hair last week and today she kicked me in the balls, and then when i was on the ground crying she held me down and took a leak... in my mouth. I was horrified, I never thought one person could be so evil. Did I deserve this, and would any of you out there ever even CONSIDER doing such a evil act.

2006-11-28 11:29:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got over this guy last week and now I'm on to another. He likes me and I like him but I'm not ready to go out with someone yet. Help!

2006-11-28 11:27:42 · 2 answers · asked by madlion 2

she is very fond of The Hobbit, would love to have a nickname associated with Hobbits.

2006-11-28 11:23:49 · 6 answers · asked by omahajimmyt 1

what or who do you miss the most??
ps..dont worry if you dont know who bob is...he is someone special to me!
ps..bob is still alive!..just thought i would clear that up!! ; ) x

2006-11-28 11:23:12 · 33 answers · asked by Lydia K 4

and/or how sould I tell my child????

2006-11-28 11:22:52 · 8 answers · asked by dragon 1

Another user's questions prompted me to ask this: Why are incestious relationships illegal in all 50 states, but homosexual relationships legal? If the government can't legally stop two men or women from having a sexual relationship, then why do they have the right to keep 2nd cousins from having a sexual relationship?

2006-11-28 11:20:13 · 3 answers · asked by cardinalfanusa 3

I have been having a secret relationship with a man who is in a relationship with 3 kids and I believe I am in love with him.

I have never felt this way about anyone before and also agrees that we are soulmates but that the big man upstairs stuffed up because he made him my uncle. He's not a full blood uncle, him and my mum have the same dad but different father.

Is this really wrong? We have talked about what would happen if anyone found out about us and I would be willing to give everything up for him and he agrees and said if he knew that this was what love felt like then he would never have got with the woman he is with now. But he is terrified of losing his kids.

What do I do? I'm in love with him. I can't imagine my life without him. Is there a law against it seeing as we aren't full blood? If I got pregnant would the baby be deformed?

2006-11-28 11:17:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husbands grandpa is dying so im trying to be nice to my in-laws till this all passes.we dont get along to well but im trying to be civil. anyways, we were at the hospital (me,my husband,his mom, his sister,her hubby and their 3 kids.). i was sitting in the waiting room breastfeeding my 3 month old daughter. i was fully covered. my shirt was covering everything but my babys eyes and nose. well my sister and mother in law come barging in and my sister in law starts bitching at me! she said that i need to put a blanket over what i was doing! i said my shirt was covering everything up! she said that it didnt matter i needed to cover more she had children so i needed to do a better job of hideing it! i said whatever and ignored her. this really pissed me off. SO WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS AND BREASTFEEDING?? i told my hubby and he said ok to her no longer being aloud around me and my child or allowing her in our home. :)

2006-11-28 11:10:25 · 4 answers · asked by Dungonecrazy11 2

wat do u think love is? define it as sweetly as possible. you can be poetic if u want to. let's see what different ppl in this world think about love. good luck!

2006-11-28 11:01:29 · 19 answers · asked by lincolngomes301 2

Last year, I took my girlfriend to florida, she got me a sweater and some chocolate. This year, i got her an iPod nano early, and told her it was her xmas present, but i'm going to get something anyway. She said this year she wasn't going to be cheap, but she is still planning to spend little on me. Should I be offended? I spent more on her last year than anyone in her family, but she spent more on each of them. I think it is about to be the same this year. Am I wrong for getting upset? Is there a proper way to explain my reasons for being upset to her?

2006-11-28 10:58:29 · 4 answers · asked by Tyler 2

do they ever grow up? are there really mature men out there? or is it pointless to look for one?

2006-11-28 10:57:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex best friend and i were inseprable. soon a new girl came into our class and my friend started to ignore me. before that she told everyone in the school that i liked this cute boy named jake. i got so mad but i forgived her. ever since that i felt acward in this friendship. i talked to her about being ignored. she nodded and said sorry but she keeps on ignoring me. i really feel uncomfratble in this friendship and i have told her that. is this the right thing to do?

2006-11-28 10:40:53 · 8 answers · asked by Carol 2

ive been dating my girl for about 4 years,we have a daughter togeather and she is a good mom,but ive always been raised to take care of my self,ive had a drug problem in the past,and i drank alot,these last 3 months ive gotten back into the same thing.she has put up with alot from me,i take off for days and she still takes me backi know it hurts her but i cant help it when i drink i dont want to go home because im afraid she will think im dumb,she dont drink she is pretty straite,i like to hang out with my friends and she has no problem with it if i go out on saterdays as long as i come home sunday.she said she is feeling alone i try to spend time with her i dont take her places because im always tied.but i do sit home with her and watch tv she said thats not spending time,i think it is.she said she needs to feel loved i tell her i do love her what more can i do.i know im selfish and i dont show her attention but how can i when alll she does is complain that im selfish???

2006-11-28 10:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1

I go to a catholic school and I only go by 2 names. My full name in a stupid voice, and the holy kid. Nobody else is treated this way in my class and the teachers know about it yet they do nothing. I can't transfer because my school doesn't have that type of program. My parents won't let me leave the school, and my only friend doesn't help. I'm not even holy. I just study for religion hard to get good grades. To top it all off, my parents do nothing. Help!!! What do I do?

2006-11-28 10:33:24 · 12 answers · asked by hi_i'm_Lilly 1

There is this guy i like alot.. And i know he like me 2.. I had always been attracted to him.. but never told me.. I know he is attracted to me as well. I know him for the 2 years now. and its just been the last 6 months i actually went out him. Before this we were both playing the chasing game. Now when ever we meet or talk on the phone.. one mintue we are fighting and the next thing you know we are making up..With all the chemistry between us this is driving me mad... i think we both share the love hate relationship.. What do guys think?

2006-11-28 10:29:53 · 4 answers · asked by julia1975 4

me and my boy friend love each other very much but we always fight wat ever the subjuct is we some how find a way to fight about it .we have been going out for 10 month know .

2006-11-28 10:29:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

they were not there to take care of her when she was sick, but once she passed they would not pay to lay her to rest or sign to lay her to rest. now they think everything should be equal...should i do that to keep the peace???

2006-11-28 10:20:38 · 15 answers · asked by Monica S 1

My friend keeps telling me she is going to commit suicide who do i tell and how can i help her?!!

2006-11-28 10:16:54 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica 3

This question originally came up as a jovial comment but now we're interested in other people's opinions on the subject. What do you think?

2006-11-28 10:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by geoffhillyer 1

there is a girl at my school and she constantly bothers me and my sister. she calls us names and is just plain annoying.
i need help on how to shake her off. i have tried cussing at her and of course telling her just to go away but with no effect. plz help!!!!!

2006-11-28 10:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by roseeee 3

My husband and I just got married last year. Its my first marriage. Its his 2nd. His ex wife left him and 2 kids a few years ago. I helped raising and disiplines them. They're like my own kids. We have a new son now. Until recently, his ex wife shows up, my in laws mom& sisters came with her to my house. I felt so upset and hurt to see them on ex wife s side. I've always been nice to my in laws. They always get in our way such as bothering us to see the grandkids often. They need to understand that we just got married. I need some time to make adjustments on my new family. Help, advice please.

2006-11-28 09:58:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 09:56:14 · 2 answers · asked by icy 3

Have you heard of infidelity among black marriages back in the day when the wife would get out of the bed that she and her husband shares so that his girlfriend could spend time with him?

This was supposed to have been an acceptable type of behavior among the black community during the time when a lot of black men were off at war.

If you have any supporting information regarding your answer, please include it.

Thanks!

2006-11-28 09:55:14 · 3 answers · asked by The Truth 1

in my school there is a hole bunch of bf and gf do you think it is cool because my frinds and i are only one of the few that dont have a bf?

2006-11-28 09:51:23 · 10 answers · asked by ~*baby girl*~ 1