My husband and I just got married last year. Its my first marriage. Its his 2nd. His ex wife left him and 2 kids a few years ago. I helped raising and disiplines them. They're like my own kids. We have a new son now. Until recently, his ex wife shows up, my in laws mom& sisters came with her to my house. I felt so upset and hurt to see them on ex wife s side. I've always been nice to my in laws. They always get in our way such as bothering us to see the grandkids often. They need to understand that we just got married. I need some time to make adjustments on my new family. Help, advice please.
2006-11-28 09:58:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your husbands parents have some mental problems. Do not allow these losers in your home. They had no right to upset their grandkids like that. That woman walked out on them, she abandoned them, and now it seems shes back because she wants the unconditional love children have to offer. This makes me sick, your husband should tell his parents to go to hell and he should get a lawyer to keep this she demon away from the children.
2006-11-28 10:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After many years of in law junk I now speak up about how I'm feeling immediately. I would simply call and ask that you can sit and have a conversation with your husband present. Simply let them know how you feel. Don't point fingers or put them on the offensive or demand them to change. Simply share calmly what is bothering you and perhaps ask if they can understand that you could feel that way with what has happened. Admit that you might be sensitive and hope the conversation can help keep the relationship open.
2006-11-28 10:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by joleeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think they were "on her side". Maybe they came as kind of a buffer and to see the kids, too. This is a complicated situation. This was just a thought...trying to be positive.
2006-11-28 10:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋