there is a girl at my school and she constantly bothers me and my sister. she calls us names and is just plain annoying.
i need help on how to shake her off. i have tried cussing at her and of course telling her just to go away but with no effect. plz help!!!!!
2006-11-28 10:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by roseeee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i understand how you feel. there's these girls in my class who sorta hate my cousin and i because we're chinese and they just feel like they can disrespect anyone, anytime, anywhere. one of them even got as far as throwing chalk pieces at us and laughing at us for it. my first instinct was to report them to the authorities, but that may not be the best choice. they will get more fueled up because of that. but instead, i talked to her after classes was over. i don't know what the hell went into me. but i was just plain tired and pyschologically hurt from her treatment. i asked her if she threw chalk at me, and if she would please stop. though she answered back to me as though i was a little baby, the bad treatment did stop. we are not magically friends, but we sorta disregard each other. and that's how i liked it.
so... my advice to you from my experience is, try talking to the person. do not curse them. remember, the more polite and sincere you are, the more likely that person will take you seriously . and will actually stop.
well, good luck. i don't think anyone deserves this kind of disrespect from our peers, and it can really make someone feel paranoid. get it off your back! in the right way.
2006-11-28 10:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ceres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore Her
Act Like It Don't Bother You
2006-11-28 18:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Paradise * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you reported the abuse to a teacher or school administrator? If she won't take a "back off" from you, then you might need to enlist the aide of someone with a little more authority to get her to leave you and your sister alone.
2006-11-28 18:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by FL LMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best defense is a good offense. Tell her that people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, and then throw stones at her glass house.
2006-11-28 18:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..... My best guess is to try to avoid her.When she comes near you and talks 2 you just ignore her and walk off. If that doesn't work I don't know what will.Best of Luck!!!! What grade are you in?
2006-11-28 18:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by probasket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to go to a teacher or principal. Or maybe your mom can help.Or just ignore her and in time she will get tired and stop.Good luck
2006-11-28 18:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black mail her. That worked for me for a boy that was annoying too.
2006-11-28 18:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by mzlin08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her as hard as that sounds and as hard as it will be that's what you need to do. when she See's that she's not getting an arouse
from you she will stop. if not then she likes you
2006-11-28 18:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ***** needs to get her booty whooped, but ask her why she dose these things to you and your sister then if that fails go back to wooping it
2006-11-28 18:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by jaysurfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still in grade school tell a school counselor
2006-11-28 18:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by girlywakeboard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋