Other - Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

2006-11-27 02:54:39 · 34 answers · asked by Zee 3

FIRST OF ALL ME AND MY BOYFRIEND OF 3 YRS ARE HAVING MAJOR PROBLEMS HE MIGHT BE LEAVING AFTER THE HOLIDAYS( THE REASON HES STAYING IS BECAUSE WE HAVE A BABY) HES SAID THAT MY JEALOUSY GOT IN THE WAY OF THE RELATIONSHIP, WE HAD FUTURE PLAN W/ EACHOTHER HE SAYS HE CANT SEE MY AS A WIFE ANYMORE, I FOUND THIS AS A WAKE UP CALL(YEA I KNOW BARELY) SO IM TRYING TO CHANGE HE SAYS IT DOESNT MATTER ANYMORE....NOW TO MY POINT LAST NIGHT I TRIED TO TALK TO HIM IN BED AND HE CALLED ME ANOTHER NAME WHICH IS ALSO HIS SISTERS NAME BUT ALSO 2 OTHER GIRLS THAT IVE DOUBTED BEFORE....MY HEART IS ALREADY BROKEN...IM STILL YOUNG I KNOW THAT LIFE WILL GO ON BUT I DO LOVE HIM SO CAN SOME ONE PLZ GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.. (NO MEAN COMMENTS PLZ)

2006-11-27 02:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my adult daughter wants to go away to visit her extended family for christmas and take her baby and its breaking my heart. I have never spent christmas without her and i cant believe she would rather spend the holiday with the people who have not ever done anything for her. She tells me i need to learn to share her and her daughter, and im being selfish. i dont know how to respond to her, maybe i am being selfish, but they are all i have. i have made plans for months for christmas, and cant believe she just decided to go away for a visit. i am so hurt and angry. i know that christmas is really just another day, or so i keep telling my self. pleas give me some advice, am i being selfish? i just cant imagine christmas without her and my baby grandaughter. she hasent seen her family for a year, and i know she misses them, but why choose them over me?

2006-11-27 02:43:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do u folks say abt this saying??? Do u agree/disagree and Y???

2006-11-27 02:19:18 · 21 answers · asked by garfield 2

I recently asked a question "should I drop out of college", people say no dont. But if I stayed in as of right now with my life, I would most indefinatley get a D average in all of my classes.

I am going to take a semester off, move back in with my parents and gather my life back together.

BUT in the long run, is having a D average degree in say associates better than just dropping out overall??

2006-11-27 02:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alot of people have asked this question but none of them related to me. I struggled in Highschool and I am now a Sophmore attending a Community College. My grandparents paid for mine and my brothers and cousins college. Everyone has dropped out and wasted their educations.

I moved in with a boy and last semester it really helped me do better. My GPA is very low but I managed to raise it last semester from a 2.1 to a 2.5, which seemed like a good start. I lost my job and my relationship is going down the tubes. I have dropped alot of classes but from what people tell me dropping alot of classes is the same thing as failing them (just with out the grade impact), because people will see the number of classes I dropped.

I have lost all motivation to do anything, im out of steam. If I got a job it would REALLY boost my determination but I live in Michigan and well, it's virtually impossible to work anywhere.

I made a bad choice, moving out on my own. Im stuck...

2006-11-27 02:03:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive recently split up with my g/f after a 4 year relationship and a child that is now 8 months old.

I was horrible to her, meaning I was selfish, unloving, moody all of the time and very off hand. One minute im ok and in a good mood the next im horrible and in a terrible mood.

I never changed before and didnt realise what i had until it all disappeared.

I personaly think my problems could be due to the way i was brought up, as i seen lots of violence and abuse in my younger years and i always had to think of myself and look after myself as most of the time there was no one else to do things for me. I left home at the age of 15, maybe this is why i am so selfish and find it hard to show love, as ive never been shown any different.

I recently asked to be reffered to a Phsychaiatrist so i can get some professional help wich i am now waiting on for an appointment. Im really putting in the effort and ive admited ive got a problem, How do i get her to love me again or will i ever

2006-11-27 01:44:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What I mean is it's not fair for one to have a pleasure in sex and not the other cause then whats the use in having sex if you can't enjoy it..? And how do you show a guy what spots to pleasure without making him feel bad..?

2006-11-27 01:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by jjones_3279 2

...he has become a bum so i am tempted to put him into a maids outfit to teach him a lesson and then to start pulling his weight more. What things have other people done to get their men to help out more?

2006-11-27 01:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by flossy 1

2006-11-27 01:34:11 · 13 answers · asked by mikeydzr 1

What could some reasons be for that?

2006-11-27 01:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by Pooper 1

My childrens' father who I have had a relationship on and off with for almost 7 years has a cocaine problem. I know he loves us and I know he doesnt want to ruin his life this way but he is weak obviously about it and continues to use it. We have has numerous deep conversations about this and what he needs to do to stop it. He has went into a drug detox program, and changed his phone number (in order to loose the people that he does it with). He keeps promising me he is not going to do it again and I have told him I will leave him if it continues. I dont want my kids to grow up and realize what he does and I also dont want to live my life wondering if he is okay when he doesnt come home for days at a time. I went through the drug thing with my own mother and know how it can ruin a person and thier family. I dont want to go through all of that over again because I am doing good in life and I want to keep it that way for my children.

2006-11-27 01:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

then why do we [females] still feel like its noy enough and want more and still find it hard to beleive....and always assume the worst and bascially are paranoid....

2006-11-27 01:27:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner sits playing his xbox live for hours even through the night leaving me to sit on my own fed up and ****** off. Drives me nuts and he never seems to think he's doing anything wrong. Before any smart **** guy asks yes he gets pleny of pleasure from me so dont suggest that. Just want him to read responses and see that he is in the wrong. All I want is him to spend some time with me.

2006-11-27 01:24:34 · 40 answers · asked by logan 1

That has everything????

2006-11-27 01:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by Kelsdee 1

i have been dating my boyfriend for about a year. christmas is coming and i have no idea what to get him. He plays football, likes soccer, and tennis. but he has everything. ANy good ideas?

2006-11-27 01:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he acts shy around me but i have a feeling that he might want to have a sex with me. i really like him and i think he likes me too but if he's shy around me does that mean he wants to have a sex with me?

2006-11-27 00:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by chick on fire 1

what I mean by share, is share EVERYTHING they have, share in doing household chores, out door chores, ect.
I am sick and tired of having men who refuse to help around the house, insist that I HAVE to do everything inside and out, and also wont share their income with me, nor anything in their personal lives too.
THIS to me is NOT love
BTW I am "40-something" and "been there and done that" too many times. I am waiting to have an actual REAL relationship with REAL love!

2006-11-27 00:45:16 · 10 answers · asked by flyingdove 4

My ex cheated on me and now we're trying to be friends. But she keeps slipping up and giving me more stuff about the relationship she had with this guy. Do you think that asking for the truth from her will help me to move on or should I just try to ignore it?

2006-11-27 00:36:57 · 12 answers · asked by Shar 2

me and my g/f of 3 years split up about a month ago im still stressing over it and cant get her out of my mind
i have tried going out but it doesnt work and i have tried being with other people and i just think about her i want to move on but its so hard cause i love her still and want her back any advice on what i can do to get thru this

2006-11-27 00:30:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i still am searching for matthew daniel duckett my first love. i still think he is here in cleveland tn. if i could find him it will mean so much to me, it will mean more than anyone will ever know, to me. i wish i could find his address and phone number. i really need this information so i can see him and talk to him. i also wish i could find this information by this afternoon before 6:00 p.m. i 'm desperately in search for him. i miss him verry much and i need to know how he is doing because we haven't talked in so long. please will you help me to search for him and find him again? his brother travis duckett works at peyton's manufacturing here in cleveland. i think he works first shift there. another reason i have to find matthew is because there turning the computer off tommorow sometime but i don't know if it will be tommorrow morning or afternoon. they are turning the computer off because me my momma and my step dad are moving. will you help me find him ????

2006-11-27 00:09:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 00:06:18 · 14 answers · asked by egyrays 1