me and my g/f of 3 years split up about a month ago im still stressing over it and cant get her out of my mind
i have tried going out but it doesnt work and i have tried being with other people and i just think about her i want to move on but its so hard cause i love her still and want her back any advice on what i can do to get thru this
2006-11-27 00:30:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, quit going out on dates! You need to give yourself time to grieve and get to know yourself again. You will stress over it for a long time, it was a long relationship. No one will compare to her right now. I would say give it 6 months to a year before thinking about dating again.
2006-11-27 00:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time alone to spend some quality time with you. Maybe you need to make some changes in your life, think about it... Personal reformation is a good thing. A new year is about to start show her that you are better, being hung up on her just makes her feel stiffled, then she won't want to be around you. Keep the lines of communication open though, talk about anything except your relationship. Leeave it alone and it will work out you'd see...
2006-11-27 00:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by babie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shows u love her true.........
My simple advice or suggestion would be ........ try to be calm!!
i know its very difficult but be calm... this is the only solution... trust me it will work out ....
God has plans for everyone.... above all... if she had true same love for you she will definitely come back and she would feel the same way u feel...
If she doesn't then leave ... its better to have nothing than having something which is not true and worthed....
But if ur split up bcos of ego then.... talk to her make her understand where the problem lies........
Understanding each other.. is the basic step of love and life...
2006-11-27 00:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Priya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 3 years WOW. that's is not easy to get over it I been Thur this before. its ganna take u lot of time maby years.But what the problem was to u guys split. IF she loves u. she will be back . I m sure about it. I know u love her that's why u want her back. try to talk to her. they to explain the situation . talk to someone. older then. u believe me if she loves u. she will be with u. if she didn't . get over it. get busy with something. try not to think. but I hoped that u work it out. IF u have any Q pliz fell free to email me
2006-11-27 00:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be just sit together in a quiet place relax and try to talk about the things that made you two seperated and work on how to make deal with it but if she is happy with some one elses then if you really love her then for her sake you would just let her live the way she wants and also it always takes a while to get over with it.
2006-11-27 01:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by chick on fire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to the track by paula deanda and baby bash listen to the words carefully. its never easy to forget someone that u really love its hard and if you still cant get her out of ur mind then i suggest you find out how she feels first i guess u know the best way how.if she still feels she wants to give the 2 of u ana' chance go for it but if she doesnt then i suggest you sit and talk it helps clear your head if you do it face to face.
if you still love her then baibe fight for her and show her that you mean it. but before you do anything listen to this track it will really be of some help esp for this situation
the name of the track is WALK AWAY
2006-11-27 00:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really hard, it just takes time. You probably are not ready to go out with other people, but it will come. Just do things for yourself right now. It is said that it takes half the time you dated someone to truley get over it. I know that sucks!!
2006-11-27 00:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why ye split in the first place.
If you cheated then you just realise how stupid you were. You could try to win her back.
If she cheated tell her you forgive her and want to give it another go.
If you were just afraid of commiting to a longer relationship tell her that since you split you realise just how much you loved her.
2006-11-27 00:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and tell her how you feel and get back together. She might feel the same way.
2006-11-27 00:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by sakura7blossoms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date her bestfriend()
2006-11-27 00:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋