Other - Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

I suspected that my wife had been fooling around, and when I confronted her with the evidence, she denied everything and said it would never happen again. I still don't believe her. What should I do now?

2006-11-15 05:14:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-11-15 05:13:53 · 27 answers · asked by Fan_Crazy_WWE 2

2006-11-15 05:13:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love with my boyfriend from the first date. He met my parents after a couple months, they were a little wary about the age difference (I am 23, he is 41). Things are moving fast, after a couple months we moved in together. Everything was going fine until I found out he has issues far greater than I ever thought. When he gets really drunk he turns really mean for no reason. My family completely hates him and despised the fact that I am still with him. I completely love this guy and we are making changes to take control of this situation. Now I have to deal with my family, I cant stress enough how much my parents hate him (my mother has called the police just to come 'check things out', and she lives two hours away). But anyway, I have made the commitment to stand by his side and help him get the help he needs. Its not like I dont get anything out of the relationship...he does a lot for me also. Is this going to cause me to loose my family? How can I have both??

2006-11-15 05:04:09 · 18 answers · asked by starbrite 2

2006-11-15 05:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by sueann_quintana 1

You`ve had a bad day, coping with stressful situations, moody people, and generally feel like you just want to be alone, have a glass or two of wine, and chill out, but feel like you have to do your duty, cooking for the family, washing up afterwards etc. Is it selfish, now and again, to say, sod it, i`m not doing it, i need some ME time, to regain my sanity, or do you just muddle on through, feeling tired and depressed. This mood hits me from time to time, like right now, do you get this, should we not look after number one, just now and again, without feeling guilty?

2006-11-15 04:54:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my bf is on prorale and i try to help but he dose not want it what should i do

2006-11-15 04:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by sexy one 2

My opinion is that if i had a child and he or she misbehaved i.e. Lied, stole, talked back, threw a fit or whatever I'd beat their little ***.

2006-11-15 04:41:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a best friend relationship (who knew more about me than anyone else in the world) with someone who never wants to speak to me again - seems like the decision is final. But they won't tell you all the reasons why, so there really isn't any healthy closure. It feels worst then death because when your friends or family dies you find ways to have closure.

Don't you think they should have the respect for the friendship (even though dead now) to at least explain all so that there is full closure for you to move on?

It is so hard to heal when you don't fully know why it is completely over.

2006-11-15 04:40:30 · 9 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

My sister is in love with a man she could never trust. He cheats on her so much she's not even sure if the baby she's carrying is his. What should I tell her to do?

2006-11-15 04:36:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

They say that the greatest acts of sacrifice are those that only you know about. In other words, it means sacrficing something for someone without them knowing, benefiting them at the cost of your own needs.

An example: There's one last piece of the most delicious pie you have ever tasted left. You say your full and can't eat anymore so that your wife can have it without feeling guily about, even though you wanted it REALLY bad. Because she think's you full she can enjoy it more than if she knew you wanted it.

2006-11-15 04:31:56 · 17 answers · asked by Joshua4F1 2

i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years!!!
but with break ups... i went to ecuador for 6 months came back... and we got back!!!
sense july... he went to live to tampa (2 hours from here), because college with his friend martin!!
well a month ago i found out that he cheated on me having sex with another girl over there!!!
well he cry, and he told he regret!! i basically forgive him (because i love him, and i feel that with out him i cant be)!! but at the same time i cant stop thinking about it!!
sense then he has change he actually does everything for me, he even comes every weekend to be with me, and his family!!!
but i dont know if im taking the right decision!!!

2006-11-15 04:28:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years!!!
but with break ups... i went to ecuador for 6 months came back... and we got back!!!
sense july... he went to live to tampa (2 hours from here), because college with his friend martin!!
well a month ago i found out that he cheated on me having sex with another girl over there!!!
well he cry, and he told he regret!! i basically forgive him (because i love him, and i feel that with out him i cant be)!! but at the same time i cant stop thinking about it!!
sense then he has change he actually does everything for me, he even comes every weekend to be with me, and his family!!!
but i dont know if im taking the right decision!!!

2006-11-15 04:27:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is for any overweight woman............How do you cope when you are constantly being discriminated against,whether it is a job you know you didn't get because of your weight,or men don't talk to you,or ask you out.I have struggled with my weight for a while now,I'm not happy about it at all,but have failed trying to lose it.I have seen women staring or making snide remarks and it really hurts.Why can't people understand that heavier people have life hard enough without the constant critisizm????I would love to find a boyfriend but men constanly treat me like crap,how to you try to remain positive when so many things are bringing you down?Only serious replies please,Thanks

2006-11-15 04:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5

i am very controlling and jealous, i need help but i have no money and no job.

2006-11-15 04:03:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I 've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. I can't seem to understand what is going on inside his head! One day he acts like the he's happy to see me and then other days I feels so awkard being around him. I keep on telling him that he's free to go if that's what he wants but he always refuses. Do you guys think it's because he doesn't want to be alone?

One more thing he still keeps in contact with his ex-gf, and honestly that doesn't bother me, but usually after talking with her he seems very upset! Please help me give some advice as to how to approach him, without him getting the wrong idea!

Thanks

2006-11-15 04:03:47 · 3 answers · asked by m915 1

2006-11-15 04:00:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is for my Psych class....some people in the class say the child will grow into an angry, distrustful adult, others say they will be in an emotionally abusive marriage, a few even said they try to please everyone to win them over and get emotional support from others that they did not get from their parents. They may lash out at someone who not in a postion to answer back, such as a waitress in a restaurant. They may also become sexually promiscous(males and females), or any combintion of these things over their lifetime. I am not referring to physical abuse at all.

2006-11-15 04:00:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have contacted all the appropriate authorties. But its the emotional abuse that came with this beatening that is hurting the worse. My son is small, he has a diability, and is very sensitive. The employee caught him from behind, and has a master in "black belt." There was nothing warranting this attack. My son was told to talk to him about gossip that he 'might' be spreading. Now my son's lively hood is in danger. Not to speak of more emtional scars. We have seeked help for emotional repair, but my son will not be honest, so it want work. If I could of taken the beaten for him, I would. It would of been less painful, then watch him in this much pain, physical and emotionally. Help me to help him?

2006-11-15 03:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by smplyme132 5

Two weeks ago my sister ask me to take her shopping for food becuase she didn't have any transportation n was all out of food. Now, she a recovering drug addict, bipolar, and she stay 15 mins from me and the rest of my family stay 45 min from us. Anyway I told her I would. So the next day came and I was so twisted up n so much crap that I forgot. She called me that falling evening and told me how hurt she was for not being there for her n I shoulda called her to let her know I wasn't going to make it. I felt so bad that I haven't talk to her since. I love my sister n I wanna let her know that I never ment to hurt her n wanna show her that she can count on me again. What do u think I can do heal this pain of ours?

2006-11-15 03:50:10 · 13 answers · asked by jayfrezzy 2

i mean i don't believe in astronomy i just want to see if the answer is what my girlfriend is

2006-11-15 03:42:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like your honest opinion on it or if you have had the experience of using the service to please share your thoughts.

I am considering using it for me and my boyfriend but want to get some background information before doing anything.

Has anyone used e-therapy? Anything helps! Thanks.

2006-11-15 03:35:08 · 18 answers · asked by Minouners 3

2006-11-15 03:32:54 · 22 answers · asked by swetha 1

i have a boyfriend and we are supposed to move to phoenix but he doesnt really want to go and i know he has a homegirl named tomasina and he keeps on telling me that he does not know if he wants to go and i asked him if it is because of his so called "homegirl" and he smiled and said no my question is. what is he trying to tell me and what should i do about it????

2006-11-15 03:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by Balla Baby 1

Well, can a long distance relationship really mean anything just by talking to that person on the phone for about 7 years? Would you be able to know a person better who you know for almost 3 years both inside and outside and by being with them or someone that you would talk to on the phone only for 7 years? Which one would have more of a chance to end in a long term relationship and why?

2006-11-15 03:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2

there are people who need to know that there are other people out there who HAVE overcome addictions/struggles. it helps them to feel strong and stay on the wagon so to speak.

let it all hang out

2006-11-15 03:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does long Distances relationships work?

2006-11-15 03:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for a while now and I was just wandering if its a bad thing that we want to have kids

2006-11-15 03:11:55 · 29 answers · asked by glitt002001 1

I love my mom so much. She has struggled with her weight since I was a kid. She is now in her 50s and is 50lbs overweight. She does not exercise. She does not work, so hardly ever goes out of the house. I love her so much and want her to be healthy. She is married and I don't know what my dad thinks of her weight. He does take her out and appears to love her despite her weight. What should I do/say to encourage her to loose weight? We live over 300 milse apart, so I can't go over to her house.

2006-11-15 03:09:28 · 16 answers · asked by Cheyne 1

Yesterday I was speaking my gf on the phone. She said she suddenly got some chest pain on her right chest. Now, it is probably just pain from overworking because she was working very hard. However, I mentioned about seeing a doctor just to be safe.

This is what she says: " No, I don't have it and even if I do, I don't wanna have my breast chopped off otherwise, you wouldn't be able to squeeze them or play with them! It would be a waste because I want you to have them
To be honest, I was so turned on by that comment but I should ask her to see a doctor about the pain anyway.
Man, I love her more and more!! What do you think?

2006-11-15 03:05:47 · 11 answers · asked by Webballs 6