i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years!!!
but with break ups... i went to ecuador for 6 months came back... and we got back!!!
sense july... he went to live to tampa (2 hours from here), because college with his friend martin!!
well a month ago i found out that he cheated on me having sex with another girl over there!!!
well he cry, and he told he regret!! i basically forgive him (because i love him, and i feel that with out him i cant be)!! but at the same time i cant stop thinking about it!!
sense then he has change he actually does everything for me, he even comes every weekend to be with me, and his family!!!
but i dont know if im taking the right decision!!!
2006-11-15 04:28:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have decided to stay and forgive him then you need to put it in the past and carry on. It sounds like he is trying to regain your trust by doing the right thing. You say you forgave him, so give him a chance to prove himself to you. If you can't get past it, then it will never work. You can't keep bringing up the past forever. You need to decide if you will ever really be able to move forward. If not, then let him go.
2006-11-15 05:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you two have a past but he slept with another girl! If you can forgive him and TRUST he will never do it again, I'm sure you two can work it out. However, if that doubt remains the relationship will never work. Personally, I would never be able to trust my boyfriend if he did that to me. It's not worth the tears for his wrong doing. Don't base your self worth on him. You will survive without him if that's the choice you make. Some people can forgive and move on, you just have to ask yourself if you are that kind of person. Follow your heart but be so smart. Take care of yourself.
2006-11-15 12:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by sarahalyse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now while you can. you are not making the right decision. if I understood it correctly he went to college to be with his friend martin? that's no way to pick a college and it sounds a bit immature if I understand correctly. you may love him....but love is not enough.
2006-11-15 12:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's tough, but it is really fair to your relationship if all you do is think about him cheating? he has obviously lost your trust and it will take alot for him to regain it. you need to ask yourself if you are willing to deal with these jealous feelings, if not then it's time for you to move on
2006-11-15 12:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going to cheat dont take it. someone told me that no guy is worth cring over and the one who is wont make you cry. if this guy is going to ruin your world..LOSE him.Or tell him that he needs to prove he can be faithful
2006-11-15 12:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋