Other - Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

When I enter my Junior year of College in fall 2007, I want to move out of the house. How do I get Mom to accept this? I just feel a need to be out on my own and find my life. Mom will have Dad and I am kinda alone right now and I need to start feeling like an adult instead of a child. When I started talking about it, she was encouraging but now she is acting strange with me. First, she was really more affectionate with me like hugging me which is kinda unusual. She keeps telling me how sad its going to be. Now she is really touchy and keeps telling me to think about it and take it slow. What can I do? I still have a way to go until it is time and I want to stay motivated.

2006-11-09 16:35:37 · 7 answers · asked by whattawow 2

I don't know why, but it seems like everyday the most stupidest thing would happend to me.

2006-11-09 16:35:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

It is never too late I did this once and then he died in a car wreck and I never got to say I was sorry and I still regret it to this day

2006-11-09 16:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by katlady927 6

I am 27 and at 25 i said i wanted kids when i was with a guy for a little while but left him because i wasn't ready to be with him. My sister has kids and I love them...but the thought of raising them older than when they are kids haunts me because I know kids can be a handful. am I just looking at the down side? I say I don't want kids at this stage and I don't have a steady partner...It was never my dream to have kids....or do you think that I am being this way just to be different?

2006-11-09 16:20:09 · 13 answers · asked by Leigh J 1

ineed someone to love and make me happy and not eor only sex

2006-11-09 16:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the nicest, sweetest, cutest thing a significant other has ever said to you?

I don't want no "I love you"s or "You're beautiful"s or anything general like that LoL.

Here's mine:
My boyfriend and I kissed. Then he looked at me and said:
"I wanna thank your parents..."

I knew exactly what that meant. But I still asked him why. HEEHEE.

2006-11-09 15:39:48 · 11 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7

I was with someone for almost four years. While we were together, I lost who I was and fell into depression. We broke up, and I spent about a year picking myself up. I got back to where I wanted to be in terms of who I was/am, but I had this nagging anger in the back of my head. I realized that my ex-boyfriend did and said a lot of things during our relationship that he essentially got away with because I was too pathetic while we were together to call him out on it.

I'm in a much happier and healthier relationship now, but I'm still angry about my past and who I became. I'm still directing the anger (partially) at my ex-boyfriend and at myself. I'm having a hard time forgiving him and myself for being too young to know better than to forget who I was.

I really want to let the anger go, but I haven't found the outlet yet. Any advice? I want rid of this feeling. Any serious advice, books, websites, anything are helpful.

2006-11-09 15:36:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my wife are having a divorce. The problem is, she is pregnant with my son. She hates me very much, and is spiteful and will do anything to hurt me. She knows I want a masculine son who I can play football and such with. She is trying to prevent this. She told me, and she is not bluffing (she does not think right), that when my son is born she will name him ***** McGayhomo, in an attempt to make him less manly! I need a legal way to stop her, please help me. She will do this if I can't stop her!

2006-11-09 15:17:45 · 22 answers · asked by Jar Jar Binks Molested Me! Help! 1

2006-11-09 15:14:15 · 23 answers · asked by Chichiri 1

Im baby-sitting two 11 year kids. (my cousin and my brother)
for spring break (a week). there spending the night and everything... i have to feed them and take complete care of them how much do you think i should get paid for 24/7 ???

2006-11-09 15:10:37 · 16 answers · asked by Kara 1

months ago, I dated with my black boy on http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter , we have been togethered for several months. But this day, I just had a joke on him, he became angry, and left me.

The joke is: when the air become dark, I can't see him, except white teeth.

Any way for me to save my boy?

2006-11-09 15:05:21 · 6 answers · asked by Stan W 1

I have a friend who just had surgery and is off work for a few weeks,she has 2 young kids and her ex husband is not currently paying child support. Her employer does not give sick pay. She can't receive unemployment because this is temporary. But she is having a hard time paying bills, I am looking for some resources in southwestern PA to refer her to. I can't help her much because I have 2 kids of my own (1 in college!). Any information is greatly appreciated.

2006-11-09 15:04:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was this girl and her friends begged me to go to homecoming with her so i did. Shortly after she started to talk **** about me for no reason. All ive ever done is be nice and sweet to her. Today i bitched her out real bad and i know it was really horrible, but it sure did let off a whole bunch of steam. I mean, i never really liked her, but i still did the best i could to make sure we both had an awesome time but she blew me off. I kinda think this was a mistake but it made me feel so much better. Shud i have done that? Yeah, i did it very personally criticizing her weight because she is fat and her stupidity cuz she is really dumb.

2006-11-09 15:00:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is it with this sexual compatibility thing? Everyone was a virgin at one time. It took practice and experimentation to get where they are. Now I do understand compatibility when dealing with impotence, infertility, and mix-matched libidos.

I just think it's rather disgusting to go through as many partners a prostitute just to find someone who instantly has all the right moves. If there aren't any physical defects I don't understand why you just can't experiment with your significant other.

Can anyone validate the test drive theory?

2006-11-09 14:51:26 · 4 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6

my sister got a blender for christmas one year from her bf at the time.( her hubby now). she made a big stink about getting this blender from him. i thought it was nice, cause they had just bought a new house and needed new things for it. she told him that guys arent surpose to buy things like that. i would have been happy with it.lol.....a gift is from the heart no matter what it is. was he wrong to buy that, or was she wrong to get mad?

2006-11-09 14:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by twisted 3

I like this guy, and it seems like he likes me too. When we pass each other in the halls we always have eye contact and he gives me a little smile. He's always around or near me at lunch, and in the class we have together his sometimes looking at me. He also seems to flirt with me a lot. So does he like me or not?

2006-11-09 14:40:59 · 6 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1

his brother is only 1/2 a year older and he actually listens 2 me, my x just talked about how hot my friends r. :(

2006-11-09 14:20:35 · 12 answers · asked by Katelin C 1

i asked a question a little while ago about how i love my ex and my family will disown me if i go back to him and there is a guy that realy likes me and i got with him but now i never what to see him again. i now live by myself but the guy who likes me and thinks i am his girlfriend is saying with me and wont leave. i want him to go away and i never want to see him again. he was just a rebound i didnt mean for it to be like that but it happened. i feel desparite to have my ex back and even hide it from my family. i now i am old enough to make my own decition but i think all my ex and i needed was time apart. how do i get him to start talking to me he is realy mad and hurt. and i now he would have sex with heaps of girls already and that hurts so much. all i wanna do is be with him. and the only way the pain goes away is when i cut myself. is that even normal? i havnt told anyone and i enjoy it when i feel upset which is all day. what do i do. how do i get him back & is it worth it?

2006-11-09 14:10:58 · 27 answers · asked by ashleigh h 1

what goes around comes around

2006-11-09 14:08:42 · 11 answers · asked by baby_tiffy 2

2006-11-09 13:46:53 · 6 answers · asked by iwishiwasrich 2

why do you ask people online about your problems? is it because you dont want your friends and family to find out or something? or do people online have better advice? why do you ask questions??

2006-11-09 13:37:42 · 18 answers · asked by sunshine&rainbows 2

And if you're Mexican or Asian, why do you only go for caucasians?

2006-11-09 13:34:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-09 13:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I get on he computer my sister wants to get on the same I do,and if I do not get off when she wants me to she starts snatching my hair out of my head(a lot at one time and Both of us hear it pop when she jerks it out) and I'm really tender headed and it hurts really BAD!!!!!!and it gives a baaaaad headache and a ask her nicley to stop but she won't and I've done it to her to get her to stop but she won't!!!!PLEZ HELP me what can I do to make her stop I don't want to get off the computer cuz if I do I'll never get on it ever again thats why I have to get on it b/4 she does I'm serious as theyt come really how do I get her to stop?!?!?!?! THANX!!!!

2006-11-09 13:30:01 · 7 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4

This occured yesterday my son accused me of steeling $5 from his shorts Itold him I only folded them he said so you stole it because you folded them and its not there I got angry and told him to go to his room hewent to bed and pulled the covers over his head I told him to come out for breakfast he didnt I told him to have a shower he didnt I told him to get ready he was late for school and i work he wouldnt get up so I left him there and he had to make his own way to catch a bus he reluctantly appologied when I got home from work we were going out for dinner he couldnt find his fav shorts so he said he wouldnt go i found them and said lets go he sat down and said he wasnt going because he changed his mind i couldnt get him to come so i went without him ate quick cos i was worried and went home he wasnt there his dad doesnt live with us so he picked him up and my son refuses to come home if there is a problem my son calls him discreatly& gets his dad to get him his dad doesnt care

2006-11-09 13:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by Nicky 3

2006-11-09 13:28:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off, I just wanna remind you guys to be a little more open-minded. This guy I know is 35 years old and lives with his brother. Four years ago, his brother gave him a truck, which he drove without an insurance. One day he wrecked the truck (also DUI) and got his license taken away. He is required to pay $4500 (for demage) before his license will be returned to him. His brother (who owns a restaurant) then offered him a job at his place, hoping for him to save up and pay $4500 back in order to get his driver license back. It's been four years now. The guy still works in a restaurant, live with his brother, but unable to save any money at all. Now he complains to me that he hates working in the restaurant and that he doesn't have any money. I've tried to motivate him and all, but he always seems depressed and not so motivated. His brother seems struggle to help boosting his ambition also. I believe in a second chance, but anyway, what do you guys think? Is he just a pure loser?

2006-11-09 13:15:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

love is a feeling,
love is a game,
something we lose,
something we gain,
that buzz,that beat,
that rush of excitement,
when life just seems so sweet!
we wear tinted glasses,
denying any bad from love,
when nothing is clear,
its just like mud,
we all think and breathe the same,
love..is it a game??
happiness is all we strive,
anything for that feeling of being alive,
too much time can be dedicated to is this the one?
we almost forget a relationship can be fun!
gain your trust and feeling in one another,
you know deep down if your made for one another!!

thanks for taking the time to read it!!

2006-11-09 13:15:10 · 28 answers · asked by Lydia K 4

I personally think that it must be boring to be with a man who's a gynecologist cause he sees loads of women all the time and so when he sees his partner probably he doesn't feel like WOW, because when you're with a man who isn't a gynecologist they are always WOW when they see women naked or when they are with them. That's what I think but what do YOU think???

2006-11-09 13:12:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alcohol Issues.....?
Hey Im only 14 years old (female) im a freshman.... my friends invited me to this birthday party on December 19th 2006 and its my friends birthday (guy) he said he wants to get
'wasted' (drink for the first time) and i have only drank alcohol once which was last year at my cousins house!
I dont no if i shud go or not? i really wanna go to
this party but i dont think i want to drink but then if i dont im affraid that they'll hate me then start making rumors about me!!
please help me A.S.A.P

2006-11-09 13:09:12 · 8 answers · asked by Shorty 1