Other - Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

why is it that most of us woman fall for mens bull****

2006-11-09 02:22:53 · 23 answers · asked by robertboozychic 4

Heres the thing, i have met someone and i don't want to have an interacial relationship just to have a baby, the idea was brought up between him and i about having a baby, and its not that my mom don't like him cause she don't know him, it is that i don't think she likes the fact of interacial relationships! So quit all the rude comments and put yourself in my shoes, People in this world need to grow up and look at the big picture like i am trying to do, Do i be with him and work on our relationship and think about baby later down the road or do i not be with him because of what other people think???????

2006-11-09 02:13:18 · 10 answers · asked by amw121899 1

I'm going through an unsettling period of not really living anywhere permanently and looking for a job, I've just finished uni and not sure what to do with my life. I've lost confidence in myself and unhappy with my looks...yet I have the man of my dreams who is so lovely and loves me just the way I am, why isn't this enough?! Should being in love mean I don't care about these things?!

2006-11-09 02:05:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my bd for 6 years on and off. Right now I am in the states and he is in germany for military, we were there but i had to come back for my sons surgery. being the snoop i am I found emails to other woman from months ago that were def not platonic. I am devestated but he never slept with these women. I have cheated on him 3 times and he knows this because I told him while we were seperated for some time. He gave me a second chance, would I be stupid to give him one? We also have an issue about him still being married. But the divorce WAS started but his wife won't sign, she told me this herself. He's been lying about the divorce but said he did it to not lose me. I changed myself. I do know he loves me. I am confused of what to do. I spoke to him and now he tells me he he doesn't know what he wants. I feel if he wants me he should fight, but I brought his wife into the situation and now he fears losing his son. What should I do, fight for him or let him go?

2006-11-09 02:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by me 1

2006-11-09 01:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by shudBmee 1

my daughter some times obeying me, but many other times getting angry with me for silly reasons and not talking to me. she knows that i love her, but she is not understanding my love and inturn she is blackmailing my love to her wants and fancies. i dnt know how to handle her. give me some guidelines to keep her in my track, since her father is living away from home due to job needs.
she is using that as her tocken for getting pity from me. but most of the time she is arrogant.

2006-11-09 01:42:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I also need to find the right man to have it with, it can't be with just anyone, and i want a malotto baby! What should i do??

2006-11-09 01:36:02 · 5 answers · asked by amw121899 1

My fiance and I have been together for 10 months and engaged for 6 and I cheated on him about a month and a half into our relationship! I didnt have any strong feelings for him then so I didnt tell until two days ago!!! He has always told me that if i ever cheat on him, he will leave but when i told him he just cried and said that he love me too much to leave and that he forgave and begged me to never make the same mistake again and ofcourse so being that I do love him very much now I agreed but my question is if he forgave and I gave him my word for this to never happen again, will this still affect our relationship in any way?

2006-11-09 01:22:04 · 30 answers · asked by kawasakigurl1400 1

One of my friends was dating this guy who is 20, and she was 15. They've been dating for a year, and since in my church, sex before marriage is forbidden, I didn't say anythin because I thought she was smarter than that. I found out later when she ran away w/ him that they had been have been sex since September and that our minister knew and didn't tell her parents. Her parents didn't even know she was dating the guy! I thought they knew so I didn't tell them anything. Why state the obvious, but the fact that he was messing with her like that was the last straw. What can be done? Is the minister liable? Can he be arrested? I know the 20 year old can, but I don't know whether the minister can. It had happened before with a 16 year old, but until now we found out that he had known about that too and now I don't know what to think. Aren't ministers supposed to help instead of hurt? I know he was wrong in covering for her but this is too much!

2006-11-09 01:20:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my partner have been together now for nearly 8 year's met him when i was 18 and he was 33. we now have two children together but i feel like i cant do any thing I'm not aloud 2 go out clubbing I'm now 25 but he goes out with his mates hes now 39 i don't have any friends now because they feel unwelcome where the come round what could i do i understand he works all work and wants to unwind but what about me i have the 2 kida 24/7 which i dont mind but i would also like a night of from cleaning doing house work and looking after kids.do you think im being selfish?

2006-11-09 01:15:27 · 42 answers · asked by pauline_rk 1

After a couple of months of silence my boyfriend calls and asks how i'm doing and why i'm not calling or texting anymore. I know he can afford to do the same at least once a while cause he lives abroad but he hasn't done it himself. What would you do, i really love the guy.

2006-11-09 01:08:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing him for over 2years, does he love me?

We get on great, have a laugh, great sex but he won't commit... I am very persistant and don't want to let him go... I think any other girl and guy would of walked away from each other a long time ago as we've had our bad times, done our faults but still we always find a way back into each others arms... This is nearly 3 years of knowing each other.... He tells me he loves me, and yesterday for the first time he said he's in love with me, he spends 90% of his time with me, we just chill out and laugh till our stomach hurts, it never used to be this good but now its so much better... But he said a few weeks ago that he never thought we could be together because of the past, but now he's thinking maybe we can... but his ex is having his baby... this doesnt have to get in the way does it? I know it may be hard but I am willing to support him every step of the way.... If you really love someone anything is possible right?

2006-11-09 01:02:47 · 22 answers · asked by the_questioner 1

I was talking with her earlier and I made a joke mentioning the word Rape. She got a bit funny and when I asked what was up she said "I don't want you using that word in a conversation near me again" I asked her about it and said "I know it's none of my business but are you Ok?" and she was like "It IS none of your business" normally I'd just leave it but if something has happened how do I proceed because lately we've been getting quite "intimate" and I don't want to make things worse if there's something underlying. Am I being stupid or am I right to be concerned?!?!?!? Please Help =/

2006-11-09 00:49:40 · 41 answers · asked by Kalishnikov 2

i went to see my inlaws recently, and they have really upset me. everytime i try to speak to them they totally ignored me. didnt even look at me let alone talk. they got along with my husband great (suppose they will as he is family). when they asked question about me, whether i can cook , they wouldnt say it to me directly, they would ask my husband instead, even though am sitting right next to them. i was being so polite, putting a smile on face thru out the visit. i didnt get any support from my husband while i was with them. he could have said "well,, why dont you ask her the question" etc.when i told my husband everything, he kept sticking up for his family. he doesnt care the fact i was hurt. and always says, you either ignore what happened to take it personally. its easier said than done. especially when i never ever got treated like that.he know i dont like his family. he see's them every weekend for good few hours whic i dont mind. we always have argumets cuz of them.

2006-11-09 00:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by Rosy 4

At the moment I am under immense pressure - I would really like to relax and chill out. I believe my partner is adding to my pressure but unintentionally - and I am snapping at him so bad at the moment. I want to stop - but everytime I try - I snap again! Does anyone have any suggestions to cope with quick firing anger?

2006-11-09 00:11:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my partner 3 years, last month he wanted a break, so i moved out for a month, In that break he met another girl and i find out he slept with her as i caught an STD. He denyed he remebered anything. Now i have found out by reading his text messages that she said that they had sex in our bed, once again he denied that and said she thought it was you texting her so she was trying to wind it up. I can not get her and him out my head. We were so happy when we got back together untill this happened. I cant help thinking about them together and it makes me sick i can not be same with him ie kisses and cuddles i also cant have sex. Is this something that will go as i do still love him and want to be with him, it just hurts knowing that he had sex with her either in my bed or elsewhere. I am just fed up with the lies. Please help i am going mad

2006-11-09 00:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by dizzy 1