Heres the thing, i have met someone and i don't want to have an interacial relationship just to have a baby, the idea was brought up between him and i about having a baby, and its not that my mom don't like him cause she don't know him, it is that i don't think she likes the fact of interacial relationships! So quit all the rude comments and put yourself in my shoes, People in this world need to grow up and look at the big picture like i am trying to do, Do i be with him and work on our relationship and think about baby later down the road or do i not be with him because of what other people think???????
2006-11-09 02:13:18 · 10 answers · asked by amw121899 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if your worried about what other people are going to think then break up with him. but just remember other people aren't going to be the ones to keep you warm at night. if you decide to be together, then use PROTECTION!!!(condoms, in combination with the pill or some other types of birth control) or abstain till both of you want to bring a child into this world.
2006-11-09 02:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. 210 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Never avoid being with someone because of what other people think. It is not anyone elses relationship but yours. I would be concerned with what my mother thought, but parents are not always going to like your choices in partners, it doesn't mean you have to break up with them. Eventually, they learn to accept it, because they understand it is not something they are going to control. If someone wants to be with a person, they find a way to do this despite what anyone thinks. As far as having a baby, why don't you wait til you marry? You don't want to bring a child into a situation, where you are not sure of the relationship. I would give it some time, there is no need to rush into anything. A baby deserves a loving and stable home. Good luck to you, and whatever choices you make.
2006-11-09 02:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have any feelings for him then I would work on the relationship and think about a baby later. If you are having difficulties in a relationship adding a baby will only make things worse! I wouldn't worry about what other people think, it is your life and you are the only one who can be happy about what you choose, if you are worried about what other people think, think of this somebody will always not agree with something that you do, you can't please everyone!
2006-11-09 02:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, do you truly love this man? Be with him because it's what YOU want. I am assuming that you are young and that being the case you have all the time in the world to think about babies.
There is so much hate and misery in this world, do what makes you happy.
2006-11-09 02:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by noonee333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you plan to marry this person do so, then have the baby. Don't let other people live your life for you. Also don't miss the chance of finding the best person for you because he (or she) is of a different race.
2006-11-09 02:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I just read some of your questions....in one, you couldn't get over your boyfriend and "can't live without him", in another one, your kids are out of control and won't listen to you, and in yet another one you're asking how to open up an erotic phone line. GREAT PARENT MATERIAL. Grow the hell up and stay within your race!! All you want at this point is to say "hey look at me! I had sex with a black man!" (or whatever the hell color he is). Look, just trust me on this one. You don't want to do that.
2006-11-09 02:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this guy, then be with him. IF he treats you well & makes you happy. Don't worry about what others think - I mean does it really matter? No, it doesn't. This is your life & you have the right to be happy.
I don't get why race has to matter so much anyway. Why can't everyone be color blind when it comes to PEOPLE, we're all human, aren't we?
Best of luck to you!
2006-11-09 02:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure where you come from i live in south texas. I am in an interracial relationship and have two precious lil girls... of course there are always the few ignorant people whith thier two cents who we pay no mind to .. espeically since around here just about allt he kids are mixed somehow my kids are black,native,mexican and indian... her friends next door are black and japanese, tho other black and hispanic, another black and white, mexican and white .. i think its a beautiful thing more to teach them about their background.. screw what people think its they dont have to love them you do.. they arent the ones there iwth you everyday .. he is... you know? so work things out.
2006-11-09 02:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by stxlatina78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been down that road i don't have a kid though but my mom was all for my interracial relationship but my dad was not and is still dilling with it but they do treat my boyfriend good and like he is white so maybe your mom will grow like my dad did go for it if you love him it is like my cousin told me one time did we choose who are parents married and dated
2006-11-09 02:20:20 · answer #9 · answered by carebearblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-11-09 02:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋