Alcohol Issues.....?
Hey Im only 14 years old (female) im a freshman.... my friends invited me to this birthday party on December 19th 2006 and its my friends birthday (guy) he said he wants to get
'wasted' (drink for the first time) and i have only drank alcohol once which was last year at my cousins house!
I dont no if i shud go or not? i really wanna go to
this party but i dont think i want to drink but then if i dont im affraid that they'll hate me then start making rumors about me!!
please help me A.S.A.P
2006-11-09 13:09:12 · 8 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don`t do anything you don`t feel that you want to do. No matter what you think people are going to say about you regreting it later is not going to help anything. If they would be low enough to start rumors about you then they aren`t really friends at all. Real friends don`t care about stupid little things like if you are going to drink or not, they would respect your desision no matter what.
2006-11-09 13:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~ Brittany ~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to go then go. Make sure you dont have too much to drink since i had done the same thing last year when i was a freshman. I had drank a little to much and got sick. It is not the greatest feeling in the world but make sure when you mix the drink put more juice than alcohol since alcohol isnt to great for you.
Ps dont make drinking a habit after if you go to the party.
2006-11-09 22:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...first of all do you have permission to go to this party? secondly, you are very smart and conscientious of the alcohol issue. You do not have to drink to have a good time and I'm sure you have heard this before. You know why? Because it works!!
You never have to feel you have to do anything against your will.Not now or ever. I think being yourself is the smartest thing I have read all night. You know I never liked the drink as simple as not liking peanut butter. Sure helped me stay in order.
2006-11-09 21:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by jajajojikatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feel like u have to go just take a bottle of booze and our it out and fill it with pop and drink it.
Never leave your drink though. Someone could drug u and rape u.
The best thing is just not to go though. I work in Sexual Assault and Domestic violence and alot of our victims became victims at partys.
2006-11-09 21:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Little Wifey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea.. i think at that age young adults dont understand the impact of what they r gettin them selves into and I dont think they know how to stop once they get started..just not a good idea. dont let peer pressure get u...be ur own person
2006-11-09 21:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go. you obviously know it is probably a bad idea or you wouldn't be asking the question.
you have MANY, MANY years of parties ahead of you. skip this one and enjoy being 14.
2006-11-09 22:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by SD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your friend that you are not into drinking i know how hard peer pressure is... i have done it all.. if he is your best friend then he should understand that and appreciate your decisions
2006-11-09 21:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by sexylove1_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please avoid the drinkers invitation
2006-11-09 21:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋