First off, I just wanna remind you guys to be a little more open-minded. This guy I know is 35 years old and lives with his brother. Four years ago, his brother gave him a truck, which he drove without an insurance. One day he wrecked the truck (also DUI) and got his license taken away. He is required to pay $4500 (for demage) before his license will be returned to him. His brother (who owns a restaurant) then offered him a job at his place, hoping for him to save up and pay $4500 back in order to get his driver license back. It's been four years now. The guy still works in a restaurant, live with his brother, but unable to save any money at all. Now he complains to me that he hates working in the restaurant and that he doesn't have any money. I've tried to motivate him and all, but he always seems depressed and not so motivated. His brother seems struggle to help boosting his ambition also. I believe in a second chance, but anyway, what do you guys think? Is he just a pure loser?
2006-11-09 13:15:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Now he said he likes me and wants me to go out with him. I like him too, but I believe in self motivation and all. I am 29 years old and really, I am not looking for pulling my life down. I do believe in a second chance, but if the guy is so depressed and has no ambition, I'm not so sure. I like to continue to be his friend, but it seems that he can't balance this two out. What am I supposed to tell him and doesn't come out as a pathetic bxxch?
2006-11-09 13:16:34 · update #1
He's already had a second chance...he's just going for a third now...don't get involved...he'll end up trying to make you choose sides...and believe me you DON'T want to get in the middle of all of this...
If he can't even pay his bills, you shouldn't even waste your time..
just be his friend and help motivate him, but don't get serious with the guy...
2006-11-09 13:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by That's so Vintage! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the loser part, he certainly is not motivated, and has absolutely no goals in life. Do not get involved with him in a relationship, it would never work. You are too very different people
2006-11-09 21:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by mssgtmidnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worth it...he will drag you down.
When you run with dogs, you get fleas.
2006-11-09 21:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋