Other - Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

me and my gf have cool off for because of me
i was wrong to tell her what i feel because she doesnt show much
what she really feels for me
i forgot that im her first BF and surely i known that she must adjust first....... but i told her that why is she being like nothing


hmmmm so how can i fix this problem that i cause
i want to say sorry so much but what is the most sweet thing to do
for her to understand?

2006-10-19 18:51:42 · 5 answers · asked by hugz h 1

She found out he had been texting another woman and it opened up a whole can of worms! Turns out he's never been faithful for the entire 6 years they have been together, he uses class A drugs, knocks her about, claims the child they have is not his, lies about the amount of money he earns, refuses to be home in time to look after the child so she can go to work, he pulls her job down and doesn't like her to work even though he never gives her a penny! He even said he wouldn't mind getting in her sisters pants and she refuses to see all this and accused the person who told her of stirring it. Do I force the issue and make her see sense or should I just leave it till it blows up in her face and just be there to pick up the pieces?
I have sat and talked to her at some length about it previously but it tends to go in one ear and out the other!
Any advice please?

2006-10-19 18:47:11 · 17 answers · asked by wickedwitch_76 3

My older sister and i always fight. She is almost out of high school how do i mend the holes in our friendship b-4 she gradu8s ?

2006-10-19 18:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jelly bean 1

We are thinking of relocating there and was wondering if any one could tell us about life there. Such as their atitudes towards northerners and cost of living. I have 3 school age children and am wondering about school ditricts as well. Any information would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-19 18:17:22 · 2 answers · asked by twysty 5

see the guy i am with we live together, have children and hope to marry soon. the other guy treats me like i am just the world while my guy doesn't even come close to treating me that way. don't get me wrong my guy treats me good but the other guy just meets all of my expectations at 100% plus some. i love my guy and whis he would change because that is who i want to be with but at the same time i got feeling for the other guy too.

2006-10-19 18:12:18 · 4 answers · asked by ltonyasfun 3

im really confused my boyfriend and i broke up last year but he still wants me i know he doe's cause everytime i see him he e follows me home or look at me really hard like he's shock to see me so i decided to e-mail him on his myspace page and i said hey what's up and he didn't write back but he keeps checking his myspace page he never checks his page as much as he's been doing what doe's this all mean. or like last year when we were fighting i broke up with him for lying and cheting and geting a girl preganet he doesn't know that i know this but yea so he asked me out and i said no and i kept acting real mean to him and he just kept saying baby what's wrong what did i do and i wouldn't tell him and it was like that for mouths and finally he started going out with some girl and telling her i was stalking him so one day he seen a tear in my eye and made a face like what the f*** so he told his friends 2 call me a b***h and they stated laughing the next day he said to me u want me

2006-10-19 18:05:58 · 5 answers · asked by Terry l 1

He talks to girls on the phone in my face and then walks out the room like he's hiding something.We are not a couple but we agreed on not seeing anyone else.He says he doesn't want a girlfriend because it's harrasment,but to me i already am i just don't have the title to back it up.I believe in comunication and he believes that when i communicate i nag him(almost all men think that).all i want is a little respect and grattitude.i gave him his children and treats me like an ordinary girl.I think i should be special in his eyes.i love him so much and fear being alone .I'm confused and stressed and i don't know what to do.Any suggestion?

2006-10-19 17:53:50 · 6 answers · asked by LaToya T 2

he does saying he likes me what do you think?????

2006-10-19 17:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by lilly 1

2006-10-19 17:41:32 · 23 answers · asked by sparksangelicx 2

on a real jerk of a soon to be ex that has stomped all over my heart. Nothing illegal but to the point.

2006-10-19 17:38:59 · 13 answers · asked by Octavia 1

doing and he's the one who screwed us up having an affair. What should I do to shut him up and now he has taken money from a joint account that neither of us are suppose to withdraw from except for daily living needs, I mean he took over $20,000 and is laughing about it.

2006-10-19 17:37:03 · 3 answers · asked by Octavia 1

Ok maybe i put that wrong, i'v bin with him 5 months, they had been split for 6 months befor he was with me, but was still haveing sex, i no he isn't cheating as wen he phoned me to tell me, he was almost crying, but he is a good man and will be there for his kid, i wanted to start a family with him, maybe at the end of next year, i am 21, he is 25, we have already spoke of marrage, and haveing childre as we were both as broody as oneanother, it is some thing that we both wanted to do, i no guy's it's a bit early to be speaking of such thing's but we do honestly love each other, i'm not a fool, i'v had a 5 year, and a 2 year relationship, i just no that he is the one, i'm gonna stand by him, but i feel i will have to let my dream go, i feel i will have to wait like 5 year's to have my dream, i feel selfish wen i get upset hearing about it coz i want it so bad, he say's, him haveing this baby won't change things, but it already has hasn't it?

2006-10-19 17:35:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 34 and hate my job...it is low paying and crappy!! Also i have no friends and have not had a date in 2 years!!! I am in such a rut and getting more depressed all the time.To top it off i am overweight and most men pass me over for someone else which makes me feel worse.What should i do??? Only serious replies only please

2006-10-19 17:35:24 · 2 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5

was the best person...so I thought..until she told my dad that he needed to stop helping me out and use the money on her. My father is really the only person who has always been there. I am a single mom of two boys and I pay for everything..Rent..childcare..Everything..I do not rely on welfare or any state assistance. Before they moved in together he made it clear that we are are a close family..and that he helps pay part of my car paymnet. I am waiting for my little son to start school that way daycare is cheaper and i can pay my full car payment. I am working full time and in school. My dad does not mind helping me out for another year. so..pretty much his girlfriend who already knew this is now sayin me or your daughter...Im a little hurt. I do work..I am very responsible..and dont waste my money..Im 24..is this wrong or is it really me??..Do parents still help there kids out..please dont get me wrong I am not spoiled Ijust need help..my dad is considering leaving her..

2006-10-19 17:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Bossy♥ 2

im looking back in class and i look a little over and this girl is waving at me with a smile

then a friend jokingly tells me to sit down

and she comes out of nowhere and jokes about it too.

then same friend drops a book

i jokingly struggle to pick it up and she jokes with me again saying that she appreciates my effort

next day she says nothing to me at all

then today right off the bat she says hi and stuff

shes trying to come up with other nicknames for me

were getting random items

i get mascara

she says that mascara would be perfect on my long eylashes

but she isnt looking at me when she said it

shes looking away looking to her left

im not sure but she was really saying it to me like she was embarressed to say it to my face


but she really doesnt bother me to much else she talks to the people next to her most of the time

her friend is almost the same way with me

so how is she acting

is this good

2006-10-19 17:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by Will 1

the guy i have a crush on has really cute hair and i love it and he loves it that way. but today, our soccer teams scrimmaged each other at the end of practice and their caoch had said that if they won by 5points or less, they were gonna cut his hair. i feel real bad because i took the ball away from him a whole buch and they only won by 3. 3-0. they are the boys "A" team and are real good. they beat the other girl's team 12-2, and i feel real guilty. it feels like it's my fault that he has to cut his REALLY cute hair. he is really nice too. the first time i took the ball from him, he steped on me and almost made me fall down with him on top of me but i kept my balance. he said, "Oh s***t! Are you okay?" Of course i was but i still feel really bad for him and i want to blame myself for this.

2006-10-19 17:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by live_life_nice 2

2006-10-19 17:11:20 · 4 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4

2006-10-19 17:10:02 · 8 answers · asked by robin p 1

How unfair Is this?I'm not ready

2006-10-19 17:07:50 · 24 answers · asked by Amy Lee J 1

can anyone advise me why i suddenly snap at people i love (my parents, siblings, etc. ) i had a protected childhood & only late teens i started feeling depressed, easily irritable, unhappy, lonely... is it hormonal--i just had my period--or is it a growing up process?

why i say it may be hormonal is because only when i have PMS or post-mense that i feel suddenly down--physically,mentally & spiritually. & i've heard it could also be growing up pains...

any of u feel this way any point in ur life? ur replies are greatly appreciated :)

i just want to be happy again...

2006-10-19 17:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by wat_more_can_i_say? 6

2006-10-19 16:57:18 · 36 answers · asked by Aranel 2

he broke up with me a week ago. and i called him today he said mary told me that u miss me he asked me do u like me and i say yes and he said that 2 does that mean wer bsck together agai and if we r i cant tell my friends

2006-10-19 16:56:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 16:56:27 · 9 answers · asked by Raines 1

I enjoy my freedom and liviing alone and going to school. Based on what I've seen with most couples anyway I dont need the added stress to shorten my life. Most ppl make assumptions that us single ppl are unable to have a relationship...but we choose not to, is there anything wrong with that I mean I get enough love from my family. Do ppl that always look for relationships just trying to fill a void in their lives or something...I just never felt like I needed it but what do you all think?

2006-10-19 16:56:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

their is this boy he is rish and i like him but people say that i like him TO HIM + people also say that he likes me?

2006-10-19 16:55:45 · 1 answers · asked by taylor021095 1

2006-10-19 16:52:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Flavor Flaaaaav! Okay, so Mommy caught me watching Flavor of Love. She says this show is the Devil's creation. I disagree. I just love the way those girls "make it clap." And even though Deelishis has those bizarre scar formations all over her body, I think she is hot. I mean, I'm 31 years old. Mommy shouldn't tell me what to watch on TV. Should I move out? I make about $450 biweekly at the warehouse, so I really can't afford it, unless I can find a roommate to take me in. What should I do?

2006-10-19 16:48:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the second time my dog Ralph a 5yr old doberman bit some one but my bratty 3.5 year old Nephew jumped on top of his back and I told him and my brother to never ever do it again so while I was at work I old my brother to keep Ralph Up stars in the dogs room(Ralph has his very own room).And they let Ralph out and the brat Jumped on my dogs back again Now my brother says he will take me to court if he has to ......This is what I get for letting him(my brother) stay with me while he got back on his feet

Note : The Nephew got 20 stitches on the face ...

I told my Brother that the only way I would Euthanize my dog Ralph is OVER MY DEAD BODY

Who is right

2006-10-19 16:41:49 · 18 answers · asked by Buda B 3

How long were you apart before you said enough is enough and flew to your love?

2006-10-19 16:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by Bender 6

2006-10-19 16:39:39 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous