It is a difficult decision for more women or girls to make. Ignorant people tend to think that its just a decision that irresponsible women make on a whim, but it takes a lot of guts to make such a personal decision and to go through with something like that. Many women and girls in our culture do not have enough knowledge of contraceptive use, and they end up pregnant- in situations where they are completely unable to care for a child. Maybe they were raped, or maybe it was just an accident. Either way, making a choice whether to have the baby or not can depend on a LOT of factors. What is their home life like? Where are they at in their lives? Do they have money, food, clothing, shelter, a loving a supportive family? Or are they poor, hungry, broke, homeless, or abandoned? Many of the world's most unhappy abused neglected children come from a mother who was not ready to have a child but got pregnant and had no choice. There needs to be choice.
2006-10-19 17:51:03
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answered by beesandhoney 2
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Most women that go through an abortion are deciding to put the needs of their own life and their own future above the consequences of circumstance. Kids aren't educated enough about contraception.
2006-10-20 00:49:37
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answered by E-Rock 3
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Normally these are the common reason:
a) The couples is not ready to have children yet because of financial situation
b) The couples is unwilling to accept responsibility for their sexual actions
c) The pregnant lady have danger if carrying on having the baby
2006-10-20 07:45:19
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answered by Forgettable 5
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Some people use it as a form of birth control. Others think it is better to have an abortion than have a baby out of wedlock. )They don't want to look bad to their friends and family)
2006-10-20 00:47:24
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answered by lily 6
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Perhaps they are the type of people who wish to complain later on in life. They say things like, "you wouldnt understand, I had to go through an abortion!" Well hello there sweetheart, there were more people out here telling you not to go through with it than there were telling you too, so stop complaining. YOU DECIDED TO TAKE YOUR CHILDS LIFE FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR OWN! How ignorant, selfish, and unworthy to ever bring another child into this world. Women have the responsibility of bringing children into this world, and if youre not able to handle this responsibility, even if youre 40, DONT PARTAKE IN ACTS THAT WILL GET YOU PREGNANT!!! ITS YOUR OWN FAULT, NOT THE CHILDS, SO DONT PUNISH HIM FOR YOUR IRRESPONSIBILITY!!!
2006-10-20 00:48:12
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answered by Anonymous
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They go through an abortion because they are selfish,ashamed,and stupid! I just dont understand why they just cant give up the baby for adoption. It doesnt matter if it was because of rape,incest or lack of money, its not the babies fault.
2006-10-20 01:13:17
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answered by Love Child 4
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I think they are between a rock and a hard place,and don't know which way to go.. And they make the choice that they feel is best for them, with out giving alot of thought to the after affects on their lives.I think most, later regret their decision.
2006-10-20 00:57:20
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answered by avery 6
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1) If they were raped
2) if they were under 15 yrs when they got pregnant
3)not ready to have children yet because of financial situation
4) Not ready for children because they are unwilling to accept responsibility for their sexual actions
5) Complications that arise during the pregnancy that may be harmful to the mother
6) Got pregnant for someone else other than their husband
2006-10-20 00:46:18
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answered by K. Y. N 2
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because they have no other choice but to go through the abortion because of their circumstances...
2006-10-20 05:54:42
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answered by Anonymous
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i wished i knew. i really hate to hear of girls getting abortions just because they dont want to get fat. i can tolerate the idea of abortions if women were getting them because of something life or death or because they were raped. but thats a question i dont ever think we'll get a straight answer to!
2006-10-20 00:46:04
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answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3
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