Other - Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

Ok, these are the facts
we've been together for three years now
he has two children by different women none of which are mine. (although I'm possibly pregnant)
We've recently moved to another state away from both children and mothers.
He claims to want to spend the rest of his life with me but doesn't want marriage and has no feelings towards either of his children's mom whatsoever .
HOWEVER the letter describes him as having no one in his life and doesnt and expresses love for her but states that he doesn't want anyone in his life right now so they will not be together. Also states that he cant "commit to anyone" because of her.
He is currently on child support for only one of his children and the child who is not on any support is the mother he wrote the letter to.

I would appreciate womens opinions should I confront him beings though he purposely hid the letter.
I would appreciate mens comments on maybe an interpretation of what exactly is going through his mind.

2006-10-19 14:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by guestuser 1

2006-10-19 14:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1

I live a long hard life at the age of 27 Im just about to give up I cant even tell you one percent of my misery. I have a husband that I know talks about me behind my back,im screaming inside and dont know what to do, please dont talk to me for the mean people out there answereing peoples questions, I just want someone to give me some hope, I have four kids and im a meserable mom not to my kids but in my soul, my favrite song is tears of a clown it reperesents my life I laugh all day when I cry inside! I feel as if I dont have anyone to talk to thats why im here.

2006-10-19 14:46:40 · 25 answers · asked by TOKISA NEED HELP PLEASE, THANKS 1

the ones that i get are dumba nd end up cheatin on me or they break up wit me in a week or two

2006-10-19 14:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by missy 2

As a person, I have average skills. My interests indicate that I am most secure when alone. I feel good about my marital success, enjoying over 20 years of mostly quality times with Leah. The personal awareness and desire to grow has helped me learn how to be a good husband. I found that I now get it right once in a while. I have great faith as a spiritual being celebrating a brief exposure as a human being. What I do on this journey is be attentive to the life's lessons that constantly challenge my spiritual growth. Grateful for what I've been given, I work in a clinical setting trying to give it away in hope of helping others. Aware of my own insignificance, I realize I can only offer others small things, I believe I can give those small things with great love.

2006-10-19 14:33:17 · 1 answers · asked by jaron 2

Say the husbands relationship is okay, but not perfect, but he has beautiful kids that he will always be there for (never leave the wife). Can he still have feelings for or a crush on another woman?
If so, would he still think about her all the time like when single people have a crush, even when he is busy with his family or work?

2006-10-19 14:32:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 14:31:26 · 17 answers · asked by larissa c 1

I rarely ever go out because I have too many responsibilities.

2006-10-19 14:31:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so I was on a retreat for my school. the retreat was like trust exericises and all. ok so my class did thie game were half of us were blindfolded and the other half were mute and we had to get from one block to the other by a board. so it was my turn and someone out of nowhere graps my hand and helps me. My friend says it was this guy named JJ but how could he have helped me if he was blindfolded too and the person who took my hand didn't talk so it was probably one of the mute people right. so I believe my friend or ask JJ or what? Help what should I do?

2006-10-19 14:30:40 · 2 answers · asked by fattykitty2001 1

2006-10-19 14:29:38 · 5 answers · asked by larissa c 1

Started a FWB r w/ my neighbor. Hot 4 1 another over a year, finally happened. Communication is sporatic, I am attached 2 some1 else already but seem 2 b the one contacting my neighbor more. I don't understand his silence at times, dont' know if he wants me contacting him. He works lots of hours and other stressors in life right now that occupy his mind.
Is there a thing as playing hard to get in these relationships? I am sure he is fond of me as a person... he is just busy right now and I think I got emotional on him once last week which was a turn off I am sure.
What do u think?

2006-10-19 14:29:30 · 3 answers · asked by T 1

I am thinking of saying he's dead. Just to shut them up. People at work and all over pry way to much and I don't like saying 'IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS'. How would you handle this?

2006-10-19 14:26:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-10-19 14:25:28 · 4 answers · asked by hottie-in-jr-high 1

if I'm not interested in them. without anyone's feelings getting hurt.

2006-10-19 14:23:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 14:23:26 · 2 answers · asked by l1ttlekat 1

2006-10-19 14:21:26 · 15 answers · asked by larissa c 1

What do i do if i like one of my best guy friends im just in m. school so maybe it would be ok if some kids answer.

2006-10-19 14:19:00 · 7 answers · asked by Kelsyyy(: 3

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2006-10-19 14:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by °(¯`v´¯)°MARY°(¯`v´¯)° 2

My brother is will be 18 next month. He is dating 23 year old girl. he wants go drop out of school. I got his report card today and his grades are way below failing. all i want is for him to graduate. but he wants to spend all his spare time with her. now she lives with me. (his girlfriend.) so I told him he has to be gone by 8pm to go home and study. I am the one over his school. I had to transfer him from one school to another b/c he was having so many problems. he is so mad at me and says i never cared about him. now i am only 21 and i dont know any thing about raising a child. but he wants to be treated like an adult but insist on acting like a child. what should I do. I told him when he gets his grades up he could stay longer. i am so afraid he is going drop out and marry this gir. she has 3 kids. none of them live with her right now. but her oldest is calling my brother daddy. he is so attacted to this girl and her children. I love him but he thinks I am just being mean help me!

2006-10-19 14:12:50 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki 2

I need some advice on how to really spice up the ever so heartbreaking long distance relationship. My situation isn't as bad as others perhaps, but Its still got me down in the blues! Maybe someone out there has experience in long distance relationships and could help me pass the time better...I love him dearly and its really hard on the both of us with limited interaction....Love will keeps up together, but it COULD be better...

2006-10-19 14:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

him, but I don't know if he loves me anymore? I appreciate the answers.

2006-10-19 14:09:04 · 2 answers · asked by Alyssa L 1

2006-10-19 14:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by jdhayman 5

2006-10-19 14:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by joejoe 1

2006-10-19 14:06:46 · 2 answers · asked by cheetah_ladyhuntress 1

me and my bf we are young im 20 and hes 18, but we have been together for 2 and a half yrs, for the first 2 yrs it was wonderful, couldn't been better, then he started workin as a cook, riding home with a guy to work and from work , we dont live together but i stay at his house alot , which is him his mom and his little brother, well since he started workin like 4months ago he seems so diff, he dont call anymore dont give me attention anymore, hes nice but when we have a fite, he will say m ean things to me he wont hit me and he never has, and he swears hes not cheatin or likin anyone else, i just wonder if maybe if i stay home for a while and not call him or go to his house, if he will straiten up and start actin the way he used to, wil this work or if u have any other way then please tel lme?

2006-10-19 14:06:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 13:57:59 · 8 answers · asked by Fragrance 420 1

To me, everything is never enough. Life is never enough, that's why we are working so hard for. Haven we all fall into commodity fetish?

2006-10-19 13:57:51 · 12 answers · asked by Princess is here 2

My 14 y/o's best friend has had a really hard year. Her 18 y/o brother passed away suddenly on the last day of his senior year in highschool. He was her entire world! It's only been 5 months since his death, and things at home have deteriorated rapidly. Her mother has become very abusive to her, mostly verbally but she has slapped her across the face several times.
Last weekend, the mother kind of lost it. Told her daughter that she hated her, that we hated her, and then packed all their belongings and said she's moving them several states away. With everything that this poor child has gone through recently, she has become extremely depressed. She has cut herself a few times, and is threatening to commit suicide if they move.
I don't know who to talk to about this! I'm afraid that if I go to her mom it will only make it worse as her mothers not in her right mind. I would appreciate any advice on this. Do I go to CPS, the school, who? I just found all this out tonight.

2006-10-19 13:57:10 · 17 answers · asked by Injustice sucks 2

2006-10-19 13:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous