the ones that i get are dumba nd end up cheatin on me or they break up wit me in a week or two
2006-10-19 14:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by missy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well I can understand what you are going through girl. all I am saying is that you need to first of all give yourself a break and know exactly who u are and think about the guy that u want for ur life because sometimes love takes time it may come to u and so move on forget about those guys you are with. obviously u didn't get to know the guy better and just went off with your limits. If u are still a teenager then sometimes it happens so girl just be who u r and enjoy life. I am 18 and doesn't have a boyfriend because many relationships turn out ugly and don't let that happen to you just think about the life ahead of u. If u really want a boyfriend who can respect you well I suggest that u do the same for yourself and just keep searching good luck because u are never alone.
2006-10-19 15:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your about 15 in which case dont worry guys your age do that try not to get too involved as they'll hurt you.
If your older say 16-20 see above butsome of us are actually nice by now.
20+ you've either just been unlucky or you go into everything with the expectation that they will cheat on you, after a while the guy ends up thinking you dont trust them so why bother. Try to give evryone a clean slate and not base things on what have happened in the past.
2006-10-19 15:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men like to do the chasing i have learnt this the hard way.
I also had this problem and was desperate to find a man that would take care of me, eventually found one and we have been together 3 1/2 years.
Think men don't like to be pestered or rush into things.
Do you sleep with them?
If so tell them you want to wait til you know each other better, don't show them that you are desperate, show them that you have a life to live and be independent.
But for now just go out and have fun one day your prince will come when you least expect it.
hope this has helped
2006-10-19 16:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracting the wrong sort of guys you need to look at changing your approach. People are drawn to eachother like mirrors, so if the wrong people are coming to you it suggests you give out vibes to attract cheating guys. I don't mean your looks, but the way you are. Perhaps you come across too desperate, or too strong? Concentrate on getting to know men as friends before thinking about love and sex. Do you respect yourself and enjoy your oen company? If you don't like or respect yourself you will attract guys who will play dirty with you. Decent men are attracted to women who treat themselves with respect and who want to build things up slowly. Maybe you also need to think about where you're meeting people, as bars and clubs aren't good places to meet decent guys. Most people there are only after sex. Perhaps you could take up a new hobby or go down the gym and meet people with similar interests? Concentrate on building up friendships and widening your social circle instead of seeking a date, and then it will happen naturally with the right person.
2006-10-19 22:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to aim a little bit higher. If your aim is toward people that have no morality and no sense of value, then that is what you will get. Expand your world and seek people to date in other settings than your using. Another key is to slow down and really get to know a person before you take it to any intimate level.
People don't show anything really true about themselves for 90 days. To get to know how they react when things get difficult takes about six months. What the rush?
2006-10-19 14:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be a guy's friend before becoming his girlfriend. People rush in far too quickly, in a world that looks first and foremost for instant gratification. Women themselves rate each other on their looks not on their intelligence, so what do you expect. Become intelligent, go to school and work at school, a guy will fall for what lies between your ears for far longer than for what lies between your thighs. A bit crude but most certainly true.
2006-10-19 14:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not a man on the face of this earth that will be faithful to a woman. As far as keeping one, keep him guessing. Guys always want what they think they can't have.
2006-10-19 14:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lot of money because men love money, contrary to popular belief. Be loyal to him, if you prove yourself to be a worthy woman a good man will be loyal to you. If you are a piece of crap don't expect anything but crap, you reap what you sow.
2006-10-19 14:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
three points that you need for any relationship to work: loving/ caring a lot about each other, trust and respect.
The last one seems to be the biggest problem for guys and the second one seems to be the biggest problem for girls, but if you can get a relationship with all three, you`ll be in pretty could shape.
2006-10-19 14:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to act like a guy - A girl who looks like a girl, but can act like a guy is a real prize. No man would let you go
2006-10-19 14:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋