on a real jerk of a soon to be ex that has stomped all over my heart. Nothing illegal but to the point.
2006-10-19 17:38:59 · 13 answers · asked by Octavia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'd say to just dump his a** and never look back. don't even talk to him on the phone and as much as possible, try to avoid him.
2006-10-19 17:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation a little while ago and I thought about getting revenge. I stepped outside of the relationship just like he did, but the thing was when my other relationship got down to the nitty gritty I couldn't go through with it. I realized getting revenge was not what I really wanted. I broke up with the cheater and stayed with the other guy, I am really happy. I also feel good everytime my ex calls me crying because he wants me back. Sometimes just to be a little bit mean I call him over get him all worked up then I tell him he has to leave because I'm fixing to put it on my man. That really ticks him off.
2006-10-19 17:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some say that revenge is better served cold. But to me revenge just makes you into a cold person. Really it will seem great at that moment, but it will only make you as bad as him. Just forget about this inconsiderate person, and move on. To many people who take revenge, just end up making things worse for everyone.
Any way God says " Vengeance is his, not ours."
2006-10-19 18:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Justice and revenge in this case are the same.. I have learned from personal experience that neither will get you any where except into trouble. I believe in the old saying "What comes around, goes around" And him/her will get theirs in the end. By the way, try killing them with kindness, don't let them see they got the better of you, the less you show them that you don't care, the better person you are for it, plus itwill eat at them
2006-10-19 17:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by cockednlocked38 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Genuine kindness towards the person who wronged you is the sweetest yet soul-consuming form of revenge that will definitely devour him within! Never go down to his level! A positive response can never be wrong and it reveals superiority! =)
2006-10-19 17:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Corin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs do not make a right. You'd only be lowering yourself to his standards hun. I'm a firm believer in "what goes around, comes around" ... it may take a day, a month ... a year, but, eventually ... he'll get what he deserves. Leave him wallow in his own dirt ... be a lady and walk away with dignity. Wishin' you the best ........
2006-10-19 17:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....you could hurt him back..tell him u were cheating the whole time and u cant go on without him knowing..and that you like the other guy better..and u want to break up with him..say he was some guy from a party
2006-10-19 17:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not sink to his level just move on and be happy. That is the best revenge.
2006-10-19 17:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are in love with yourself because you were a better lover to yourself than he was!
2006-10-19 17:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the bigger of the two and move on.
2006-10-19 17:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋