Other - Family & Relationships - 26 July 2006

Ok...heres the story. My boyfriend is the manger at a convience store. This morning when he was on his way to work I told him that I really needed his help tognight. (we just moved and I need help carrying some heavy stuff) Ive put it off for long enough so tht is why I told him today "hey, I really need your help tonight"
Anyways, another manager from another store in the same chain called him up and needed help at his store. My boyfriend has worked 16 hour days at his store there is no reason why anybody else cant do it too. Well, he agreed to help....them...not me. He works a lot of extra hours for this company why cant he just say no for once to help his girlfriend out? Im pretty upset....should I be?

2006-07-26 12:13:55 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-07-26 12:07:40 · 13 answers · asked by rosepassions 3

My boyfriend want me to meet his parents. I DONT WANT TO!!!!!!How do i get out

2006-07-26 12:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by mary c 2

I love my boyfriend very much. We have been friends for 8 years and have been dating on and off for about 2. He always says things like those pants make u look like a S*u* and like get ur f* a** over here and just really hurtful things. He always says hes just kidding. Am i just taking things to personally?

2006-07-26 12:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by kelly09620 4

ive been with my man for 9 months i love him lots but about 3 months ago i got a new computer and he set up poker on it so he could play it.i only see him twice a week and every time he comes over he sits and plays it for up to 4 hours a time whilst he plays it i dare try and chat to him as he'll get distracted,if he loses his money he gets really moody and angry and it can cause rows between us.i just sometimes cant believe he'd rather sit on poker for hours than spend time with me.he even tells me he knows he shouldnt play on it and lose all his money.he knows its wrong to so why does he do it.its just a silly game of poker but it causes rows what should i do?

2006-07-26 11:57:20 · 5 answers · asked by nikki 3

my bf argues with me for every simple reason....he loses his temper all the time!Are these the qualities of an Arian guy? when he is nice, he is sooo loving and affectionate. The minute he is angry, it feels its better to be in hell rather than to talk to him. God only knows what he thinks at times....he starts abusing like crazy, acts so reckless and he is sooo rude when he is angry....at that particular moment, i feel i should just dump him and move on with a peaceful life... Are all Arian guys like this? Any Aries around?

2006-07-26 11:52:29 · 3 answers · asked by carrie 1

i like whore sluts skanks help me im not like that im a country boy

2006-07-26 11:49:27 · 1 answers · asked by jhonny rebel 2

I have been at my job for almost three years.There is one person I work with who is Bi-Polar and I feel uses this as an excuse just so she can be a complete ***** to everyone! Would it be acceptable to call her out on this behavior? I feel she singles me out often. I am tried of her being lazy, and not pulling her weight! To boot our boss just passed away unexpectedly and now my co-worker is acting out to even bigger extremes since we don't have a "real" boss in the office!! Any advice would be much apperciated thanks!

2006-07-26 11:47:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is German and 'funny' about certain things.... especially about telling people that I have kids from a previous relationship... my girls are 8 and 10 years old... they are very sweet, and often wonder why they can't go with me and him places... I know he is afraid to tell his parents that he is serious with a girl who has kids, is divorced, etc... now he has ME scared to tell them too.... (just met them last night, and they are VERY friendly... !!) But I know German's are more uptight then Americans, esp about the 'proper' or 'right' way to do things.... so I am just wondering... obviously at some point the truth must be told... that I am divorced, with kids, etc.... I do want to be married (to him!) and have more children.... he is 34, and I am also.... we have been together over a year now... so my question is, is it NORMAL to not tell the parents that the person has kids? And at what point DO you tell... and isn't it more uncomfortable to 'come clean' later?

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Keep in mind that it may just be the fact that I have been married before (this is a man who has never even lived with a girl, and who takes committment seriously- ) it may be that the fact that I have been married before is scary to mention to his parents who have been married for years.... maybe he thinks they will be disappointed or concerned that he is with a woman who is divorced and who might (in their minds) potentially divorce HIM... maybe that is the concern... to tell the truth, I suppose I have thought the same thing... the questions 'why did you get divorced?' where is the father, etc etc.. I'm not anxious to be asked those questions, when what I really want is for them to adore me!! Still, they only come here from Germany once a year (their english is good)... they seem like very sweet, normal, old-fashioned people... I can't blame him for not wanting to bring it up.... can you? SOME families, esp American, maybe it would be no big deal...

2006-07-26 11:46:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, i made a move. 1st u know like i gave him my number after some weeks. because we had very long eye contact every day and we talked and he wud cheer for my lil brother at his games and we wud smile at each other and stuff like that. and he wud also listen in on my converations on my cell phone.so,i gave him my number and we talked but not for long. because he said im not old enough and whatever. and he was like i will still talk to u when i see ya tho. and that just hurt for a little while....then i got over it. and the next day....i was talking on my cell phone to my friend and i was laughing and having a good time. so, i walked passed him and we looked at each other and i just rolled my eyes and just went back having a good time on the phone with my friend. But im still wondering why wud he do all those things? oh and the guy is 18 and im 15.
Thank u for helping me out with this!!!

2006-07-26 11:45:18 · 2 answers · asked by Lh 1

My divorce will be final soon and I have been meeting other people since. For some reason I always find something wrong with them and decide they're not for me. I could be missing out on something and my brain is not functioning. Is this normal?

2006-07-26 11:43:58 · 32 answers · asked by awhisper 3

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2006-07-26 11:36:27 · 2 answers · asked by madamtortuga 2

My husband wants me to let him treat me like a queen, and wait on me hand and foot and GIVE HIM ORDERS. I guess because of my childhood or whatever I have a real difficult time accepting anyone doing things for me because I've pretty much done for myself all my life. I know this is going to sound crazy to most women, and they think it would be simple to do, but for me it really is EASIER SAID then DOING.

2006-07-26 11:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by mary73701 1

im in streator illinois cant a job and just got evicted with my 6year old and my 7month old and cant find help on the internet

2006-07-26 11:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-07-26 11:25:47 · 13 answers · asked by todd 1

he has tried so many times to give up and i have always stood by him. I would feel i failed him if i walk out so i can be happy. what should i do ?

2006-07-26 11:24:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this a bad thing??? we went to a hotel and had sex. afterward she asked my if it was possible to love two people at the same time. should i run away???

2006-07-26 11:17:36 · 31 answers · asked by mrbubbachowpuss 2

I'm constantly masturbating and I don't want one of my brothers or sisters to walk in while I'm "doing it"....but my parents wn't let me get a lock on my door cause they like to know what I am doing. HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLP!!

2006-07-26 11:15:44 · 31 answers · asked by Ashley s 1

your mom and dad get back together 5 weeks lator they break back up she goes back to her ex-husband gets remarried to him then she call 3 weeks lator ask my dad to take her back he says no and she still in love with the other guy (ex husband) try to take me with her asll the way to texas when I live in Georgia i say no she dont call me in 5 weeks then she sends me my b-day present which consest of a whistle a sticer and lolly pops what do I do whit her

2006-07-26 11:09:03 · 3 answers · asked by jhonny rebel 2

My wife has done everything for me and i would like to please her in every way. I want her to take control and make me do anything she wishes for one year. BUT she wont how can i change her mind it means the world to me..........HELP

2006-07-26 11:05:55 · 24 answers · asked by Daniel M 1

2006-07-26 11:04:30 · 20 answers · asked by mike_answ 1

I tracked down an old friend/boyfriend (he was my boyfriend when we were 12 and we were friends for a number of years after) with some help. He has informed me that shortly after I moved away that he came looking for me in my state. Actually lived here and searched for me for 6 months. Has been back once or twice since. Had been looking for me the weekend before I contacted him. What's your angle on this? Oh........since then we have both married and had children. I want everyone's insight on this one.

2006-07-26 10:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband and I have joint custody with me as the primary caregiver. He can see them for one month out of the summer and some holidays. I live in North Carolina, while the other parent lives in Alabama. I want full custody. What rights do I have and how do I handle this?

2006-07-26 10:53:50 · 4 answers · asked by david s 1

HELLO, I HAVE BEEN IN A REALTIONSHIP FOR ABOUT 5 YEARS, AND WHEN I STARTED THIS RELATIONSHIP I HAD A CHILD ALREADY. HE TOOK THE ROLE OF HER FATHER AND LOVED HER LKE HIS OWN. BUT WHEN WE HAD OUR OWN KIDS TOGETHER HE STARTED TREATING THE OLDEST LIKE SHE DIDN'T MATTER OR BELONG. HE ACTS LIKE HIS KIDS ARE BETTER THAN MY CHILD. I THOUGHT THAT I COULD CHANGE HIM AND MAKE HIM SEE THAT SHE LOVES HIM AS HER DAD. BUT NOTHING HAS CHANGED. WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-07-26 10:52:54 · 28 answers · asked by sunshine girl 2

i lied to my hubby but he gave me a secong chance to prove to him that im a change women, but his friends are telling him that im not a good women for him and also that i might have another man and thats why im acting mean to him before and lying but my hubby says that he's not beliving anything that there telling him untill he sees it with his own eyes meaning as in he knows that im a faithfull wife and i would never cheat on him what do you guys think?

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