Other - Family & Relationships - 26 July 2006

Thing your parents or a parent said to you....
**When my mom died and I was crying my dad said to me..."get over it, she didn't love you, she loved the drugs"
((This is a serious question...please no stupid answers))

2006-07-26 21:58:17 · 5 answers · asked by pshh =] 5

Ive been with my boyfriend for about a month now.. All be did was talk, we were hardly ever not, I mean we spent all day on the phone if not online (this is where we met) Well I always knew he lived here before he know I did.. He supposely moved back here.. He started comparing me to his sisters g/f to how much better she is then I. We havent done anything but argue but twice, hes supposely here in town and been for 2 weeks now.. But when I ask when we are meeting, he beats around or has to go. Right now he says he was just diagnosed with a thing called MS (Multiple Sclrosis) So its been a week since I last spoke to which he broke a few promises.. But when we speak again, he will just tell me he was sick in bed, but when I try to talk about it.. we end up in a argument, I am so lost as what to do, I havent been this in love with any guy, yes its soon but I thought we understood each other so well, and I dont wanna make a wrong decision.. But I dont know what the right one is to decide.

2006-07-26 21:55:40 · 14 answers · asked by Stephanie 3

she thinks you took her daughter from her and she cant let go. do you just act it out and be fake forever?

2006-07-26 21:49:53 · 29 answers · asked by ben b 1

you both have a bond but your relationships with your parents on a real close love level was never there. so niether of you really know what the hell your doing but you know you care alot about them. ? is it called something different when two screw ups get together always convincing the other one that you love them but they cant really believe it.. is it possible to learn to really love somone when you dont know what its like?

2006-07-26 21:47:47 · 3 answers · asked by ben b 1

Addiction is endemic in American families. A USA TODAY/HBO nationwide poll of adults April 27-May 31 found that one in five said they had an immediate relative who at some point had been addicted to alcohol or drugs. That translates into roughly 40 million American adults with a spouse, parent, sibling or child battling addiction. And that doesn't count the millions of children living with an addicted parent.


Many Americans might find these numbers shocking. But H. Westley Clark, who directs the Center for Substance Abuse Treatment at the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, or SAMHSA, says he's not surprised that 20% of poll respondents said they have an immediate relative who has been addicted to alcohol or drugs.

Is it this bad and do the results/figures honestly underscore the problem of addiction ?

Were you/are you affected in some way by a spouse or close relative, by alcohol/drug addiction ?

2006-07-26 21:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by marnefirstinfantry 5

basically i love this guy soo much n soo does he...his really down to earth and "My" type of guy!his not goodlooking,his not wealthy(maybe some day he wil),his build n m helping him to loss weight....his his kinda guy who jst dress up wearin tshirt n jeans..he alwaz makes me happy n each n every moment whenever we talk..we just tease eachother n crack jokes...probably i am thinking to marry him but i have a doubt..cause when i see cute guys i get attracted to them and wonder why am i wasting my time with one guy while they many Good ones on this earth..and most of the girls goes after Goodlooking guys....i wanna know what do girls thinks ..do they go after cute guys or prefer a guy like mine! And does looks better

2006-07-26 21:43:36 · 8 answers · asked by Yasmin 3

i love this guy and both of us have a common problem with parents, both sides parents need us and both parents hate eachother and they can't stay together in one place .. we r like stuck up due to this problem...

2006-07-26 21:41:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

3 years ago my friend was invited to a party. when the party was over some guy wanted to give her a ride home.and in car he had a bottle of Pepsi, he offered her some pepsi, when she drank it she fell asleep. he took her to his place and raped her.
she discovered that next day when she felt pain in the morning and it was her 1st time to have sex, she figured it out.
unfortunately, my friend didn't tell her family about it, and she lost all conacts with that guy who lives in another country but was there for the summer time.
how do u think my friend should have act?
and what kind of ppl is that guy?

2006-07-26 21:37:26 · 12 answers · asked by Musty 4

Ok, I love the work that I Do and the place that I work at.. It's close to home and the people here are a joy..
But I don't think I'm getting paid what I am worth.. I'm barely scraping by each week, and now petrol is on the rise and rent and food, but my wage has been the same for ages.. I asked my boss for a raise and he said he would give me one.. then he didn't?? I asked him what that was about and he said he will give me one in maybe 3 mnths when the budget shifts?? I really feel as if I am worth it a try my best at work and rarely make mistakes..What should I do... I just want enough to get by and feel like I'm being valued..(even though the boss tells me this I want to see it) I dont need to make a ridiculous amount of money or anything like that I think what I'm asking for is reasonable.. P.S. Ive been at this company for 4 years..

2006-07-26 21:36:47 · 4 answers · asked by channille 3

2006-07-26 21:28:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes at school could u help me because i have been seeing somebody else hes 21 we have snnoged and slept together help me what shall i do

2006-07-26 21:24:11 · 26 answers · asked by Daz 1

i got a neighbor who's 26. he's a nice person.and i used to like him.
recently i don't know what happend to him,he wants to go out with me and each time he asks for that i refuse but i dont give him a real reason.
he tries to call me after midnight and i dont answer.
he used to respect my boyfriend's exsistance in my life!but it seems no more.
i dont know how to stop him,and i dont know what he wants!

2006-07-26 21:22:27 · 29 answers · asked by Musty 4

2006-07-26 21:22:27 · 6 answers · asked by aih 2

what are some of your fears and why? list several the answer with the most honest answer will get the 10 points!

2006-07-26 21:21:51 · 9 answers · asked by icanansweryourquestions 3

2006-07-26 21:20:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 21:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by gabuawad 1

I asked my bf how many girls he's been with and he said 25 (he thinks) and I was shocked. He's 30 and it seems like a lot, to me anyways. And the whole "I think" kinda bothers me too, isn't that something you should know? Alot were one night stands and that kinda creeps me out too, I don't know how people can do that. After he told me I look at him differently and I'm finding it hard to have sex cuz I'm thinking about all the places his thing has been. Is 25 for someone who's 30 really that bad?

2006-07-26 21:07:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend blocked me this one day (and I have been blocked all summer on AIM), and he had an away message that said "Sean, you're a hot b****." And he also told him he's good looking, especially his hair, eyes, smile, suit, tie, etc. A guy friend of mine told me my boyfriend is cheating on me with Sean. I told my boyfriend about this, and he said "No, that's a lie. He is always trying to make he look bad as always. Don't believe what he tells you." But the thing is...that guy lives in West Virginia which is far away from here. I was thinking if they are together, it would be an online relationship. Also, he has that guy Sean as number 1 on his top 8 on myspace, and I'm number 2. So I guess he likes that guy better than his own girlfriend or something, because he doesn't have that guy blocked on his AIM, but he sure has me blocked. He would also put he's gay, then changed it to bi on his site, but now he has no answer showing. But he told me he's straight. Should we work this out?

2006-07-26 21:05:15 · 5 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3

What should I do? She's not after my money cos I'm skint, I ain't a spy, but she is trying everything to get me into bed. Go for it or hold her at arms length.

2006-07-26 21:03:17 · 31 answers · asked by TractorBoy 2

different name and was living near Houston in 1985 but cant find her someone help ! im or email me please!

2006-07-26 21:00:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

that i love you...lol (sry im just so bored)
atleast you get 2 points!!!! =)

2006-07-26 20:58:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

over stuff thats nun of his dam business

2006-07-26 20:56:56 · 5 answers · asked by .? 1

when me & my bf are quarreling, he always use vulgar against me & when he knows i m trying my best not to get pissed off, he will try his best to make me lose my temper so that he'll win the fight.

2006-07-26 20:34:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 20:31:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 20:21:13 · 2 answers · asked by abrahamnarela 2

this might be a personal Question to you but to me it's just a stupid one.and if you want to know mine is top. :)

2006-07-26 20:19:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 20:17:20 · 14 answers · asked by syahzack 1

i really need help. i've been with my b/f for 7 months and at the begining the love was stronger than ever. but lately(past 4 months) we have been throught alot, like him cheating, splitting up(3x), him doin drugs, and now BABY MOMMA DRAMA!!! but through it all i remained with him(hes seeing a theropist). and now that this girl keeps bothering us he seems more stressed out and so am i. i dont really feel the love like i use to. i know in my heart i love him, but with all this goin on....i wonder...do i still love him? my friend says that we are just coming down from our "honeymoon" stage and that hes really stressed, but i dont know. plz help!!!!!

2006-07-26 20:05:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 19:57:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-26 19:56:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous