Ive been with my boyfriend for about a month now.. All be did was talk, we were hardly ever not, I mean we spent all day on the phone if not online (this is where we met) Well I always knew he lived here before he know I did.. He supposely moved back here.. He started comparing me to his sisters g/f to how much better she is then I. We havent done anything but argue but twice, hes supposely here in town and been for 2 weeks now.. But when I ask when we are meeting, he beats around or has to go. Right now he says he was just diagnosed with a thing called MS (Multiple Sclrosis) So its been a week since I last spoke to which he broke a few promises.. But when we speak again, he will just tell me he was sick in bed, but when I try to talk about it.. we end up in a argument, I am so lost as what to do, I havent been this in love with any guy, yes its soon but I thought we understood each other so well, and I dont wanna make a wrong decision.. But I dont know what the right one is to decide.
2006-07-26 21:55:40 · 14 answers · asked by Stephanie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Believe me it's not u. One thing that I have learned is that when it comes to relationships if you have strong feelings that he or she may be lieing 2 u, trust yr feelings girl. MS is nothing to play with, if he was really dx with it, I work in a Neurologist Practice with 13 MD's and every day we have 2 tell people"U have MS" Everyone reacts in a diffrent way. Some shut out anyone they care about.But no one in this world deserves the right 2 make someone else fell the way u r now, I don't care what yr Dx with.U may want to think about getting out now before u r in so deep there is ni getting out. I wish u ALL the luck in the world!!!!! Remember u r a special person who deserves no less then perfect.
2006-07-26 22:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Day Lover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to dump this LOSER, all he's doing is holding you in check for when he nedds you. The guy sounds like a real butthead, a liar and again a real LOSER. What could you possibly see in a guy who treats a nice girl like you like that. Get rid of the bum and find you a nice guy who will at least treat you the way you should be treated. You couldn't possibly be that hard up to hang onto a real winner like this guy sounds. Wake up and smell the trouble this guy is costing you, there's way too many better guys out there than this BUM for you. Keep your head up and maybe the right guy is standing right in front of you. Good Luck Honey and throw this one back into the stagnate pond from which he crawled out of
2006-07-26 22:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by bill e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me wrong but you cave to open your eyes!! He's playing with you! You gave your hart to someone who didn't gave his instead. I past to a similar situation a year ago and i tell you this with every support: break out with him! He doesn't deserves you!He's to selfish and mean for playing with your feelings this way!
You have to find someone else, someone how can treat you the same you treat him!!! Go fish!!! The see is field with guys!!! PS:A friendly advice? The sooner you find a new guy, the smaller the pain will be! Good luck!
2006-07-26 22:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Diana C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sista, men are curious and if he's in town and has been and hasn't hooked up with you, there's a reason! As stupid as this sounds, he might have talked someone into taking him to "check you out" when you weren't expecting it. I've had a man do it to me before just to see if I was worth the trouble he'd get into with the girl he was already hooked up with! You can do better! But it does suck to be lonely! Good luck!
2006-07-26 22:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool it girl. He is feeling trapped. Make new friends, go out window shopping etc. Do not contact him. If he is still interested he will call u. Just behave like a casual friend. Let him make the move whether he wants 2 c u or not.
2006-07-26 22:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out what multiple sclerosis is about. MS is a debilitating disease that saps the person of many things. Know the signs and symptoms and you might understand further.
2006-07-26 22:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, dear, when you wake up next morning, take time to run in the morning fresh air with headphones and a bottle of water. Then get back home and take shower. Have breakfast. And decide what you want to do.
2006-07-26 22:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by MARINKA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MS comes from Sugar
If he drinks a lot of soda drinks tell him to stop and ms will become less. On the bad side he is ditching you for someone else. Do one on him get someone and tell him where to go as his action is bad for the relationship
2006-07-26 21:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by Roche G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the same time as human beings lie, they frequently get "trapped" of their information superhighway of lies, as apparently your "chum" has done. One lie ends up in yet another misinform conceal up the first lie - to that end, an information superhighway of lies. Why does he experience he has to misinform you? Is it to impact you? Is it because he's making an attempt to be someone that he's not? Is he ashamed of who he somewhat is and the position he got here from? merely he can answer those questions, yet he look like he's already stuck up in his lies and deceit. He ought to likely be to some extent to the position he does no longer somewhat do not forget that he's mendacity. For me, I frequently distance myself from a recurring liar because i do compared to deception and dishonesty, quite in a friendship or relationship. i choose to carry close that i will count upon and trust that individual merely as they could in me. so a techniques as i'm worried, a recurring liar merely worsen. so a techniques as your chum, call him out once you seize him in his lies. at the same time as this has befell better than you could stand, you need to ask your self if it really is what you choose in a friendship. besides, are not 2 of the major traits in a friendship HONESTY and LOYALTY? Do you imagine that without those traits you've an useful and "authentic" (no pun meant) relationship/friendship?
2016-11-26 02:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely you have to break it off. He is hiding something. I know what it is like to fall in love with someone you haven't even met. But it is not really him. The real one is out there yet.
Please, I can see this very clearly. Bad news.
2006-07-26 21:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by ruletheworld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋