Okay, so here is the deal. I am 22. My Girlfriend, 19, is starting college and I have started to notice some things bother me. For instance, her uncle is offering to pay her way, but will only do it if she goes to a university he wants and not a comunity college she wants. She is afraid to stand up to her uncle on that situation. And tonight, I took an earlier shift because so we could spend time together and she has this orientation that for some reason this year they are "making" the students stay from 5pm till 11am the next day, staying overnight in the dorms. She doesn't want to but is going to anyway to avoid confrontation, even though she knows they cannot really "make" them stay. These, along with other similar instances have been irritating me, and it has been a big turn off. I look at her not standing up for herself on these little things as being a weakness. Is this a problem or am I just being difficult? And yes, we have talked about this on occasion and no change
2006-07-23
21:59:39
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