I have been having a lot of problems with my fiance lately. Im getting to the point where I dont know if I can go on. I know I love him....but I dont know that it will work or that we are even compatible. We have been together for 3 years...he asked me to leave last week... I was homeless for a week and came back to get some clothes when he asked me to come back home and said he couldnt live without me. I was at the point where I had nothing and nowhere to go... all my belongings are in the house so I almost felt trapped...like I didnt have a choice. So ofcourse I say yes lets work it out. I have only been back home for 2 weeks and already he has been repeating the same inconsiderate things he was doing...purposely doing things I hate to piss me off. Things that started the fighting in the 1st place. I just dont know what to do...Im lost please HELP! I know I still love him....Im positive Im no longer in love.....what now?
2006-07-23 22:04:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dump him and stay with friends or family or even a womens shelter till you get on your feet.hes going to continue to treat you bad cuz he knows your trapped and at his mercy.his way or the street....F-CK him!!!dont let him take away your dignity.you will find a real man someday who will love you and treat you like a lady and not a sex slave.you deserve better.good luck.
2006-07-23 22:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could always try relationship counciling if you think there is anything left to piece together, but if you're done with him and his crap, which would probably be your best bet...get your things together and see if you can find a friend, family member, someone to help you out for a bit, move in with one of them until you can get yourself back on your feet and don't need to depend on anyone, and then move on with your life. It will take some time, but it would be worth it. Good luck in whatever path you choose.
2006-07-24 05:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by x_athymia_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to sort things out between the two of you. Be open to each other. Discuss the things that you both like and dislike. Try to make your relationship work out by being sweet and romantic to him. That is, if you really love him. Learn to accept his weaknesses and have patience. But if you don't love him, there's no point why you have to go back to him. That's why it is important for you to assess your feelings. If you love him, fight for it.
2006-07-24 05:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by *Jumeirah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋