So My father abandoned my mother, my siblings and myself 19 years ago. That is how old I am...19... and I want to meet him even if he never came, called or sent any type of cash to help my mom out. I want to simply to face him and say, "wth"......Have I waited long enough?
2006-07-23 21:37:43 · 11 answers · asked by Ms.Halfway 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah, you've waited long enough. Get it over with so you can move on with your life. Good luck.
2006-07-23 21:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's going to give a million excuses to justify what he did. Just let him grow old and die without any love from anyone and that would be rewarding enough. My dad abandoned us when I was 10 and was out of the picture for years with minimal support. Now he calls every sunday and sometimes on the weekend just to let people know he is still alive. It's kind of sad really.. But hey if you want to tell him off make sure he is not a wacko or a snapper.
2006-07-23 21:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt matter anymore. you've lived well away from him this long. what's another 19 years? wait and see till then. in the meantime, be a good daughter to ur mom and a good sister to your siblings. telling him a piece of your mind at this point in time is moot and serves no purpose.
2006-07-23 21:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3 months, my boyfriend and that i went to third base. We waited 6 months to have sex, which isn't that lengthy both, yet a month surely isn't lengthy sufficient. You both may finally end up regretting the alternative and resenting one yet another. make certain you men attempt to make an emotional connection so your courting would not change into fullyyt about sex. solid success.
2016-10-15 03:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have waited long enough go ahead meet him but don't rush into a relationship and risk getting hurt twice just take it one day and a time if he Loves you you will know it if he doesn't He will show it!!! best wishes!!
2006-07-24 02:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have waited long enough.but i basicaly think there is no point he did wat he did 19 years ago mayb he chickened out or sumthin and it has already happened so u going to meet him would not make much of a difference to your present situation.Dont cry over spilt milk move on in life
2006-07-23 21:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by JJON-DA-DON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. i think that u should do it!! i mean it may make u understand somestuff .... and maybe he will be there more for u now .. or maybe u will just find he has moved on and doesnt want anything to do with u .. but it will teach u something!
2006-07-23 21:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, now that you are 18 he can explain to you what happened. maybe he had a reason , maybe not. the past is dead. forgive and forget
2006-07-23 21:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did...
but don't jump into conclusions yet...
you still need to know your father...
you need also to listen to what he will say to you...
try to understand the situation...
try to balance the situation...
don't look at one side...
you need to look both sides...
then after hearing everything...
you decide what to do...
you have the rights anyways...
2006-07-23 21:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw go ahead
2006-07-23 21:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by mikel_rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋