Ok i have an ex bf who i still "see" and he has a new gf so ive been trying not to talk to him but stay friends ( i do realise that this was wrong)
however his best mate who i really like has asked me out we have hung out befor as just a group of friends even after my ex and i split but his mate says he doesnt care who i used to date and wants to try things out between us to see if it would work..
should i say yes because i do like him?
or should i stay away from my ex's mate?
2006-07-23 23:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are risks that things may turn out really bad. Your previous relationship can come between you; but it is up to the two of you whether you would allow the bygones to ruin your present.
Judge yourself. See if you can really go with it. And try to make a clear idea about his intentions. It is not what others think you should be worried of. How you two actually see this is the important thing. Try a few date. Avoid sex. Try to see if you two really get along. Then move your relationship further.
Best of luck! :)
2006-07-24 00:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mirage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating your ex's friend can get ugly. Are you sure the friend is really interested in you, and isn't acting on something told to him BY your ex?? about your prior sex life, perhaps?
2006-07-24 06:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always avoid your ex's friends as a lover...too many hard feelings and people judge you for it.
2006-07-24 06:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Go for it. Who cares what anybody else thinks?
2006-07-24 06:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmythekid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say yes!
2006-07-24 06:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, just avoid ur ex.
2006-07-24 06:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Xanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT GIRL
2006-07-24 06:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋