i need help to deal with my mom?

Question

your mom and dad get back together 5 weeks lator they break back up she goes back to her ex-husband gets remarried to him then she call 3 weeks lator ask my dad to take her back he says no and she still in love with the other guy (ex husband) try to take me with her asll the way to texas when I live in Georgia i say no she dont call me in 5 weeks then she sends me my b-day present which consest of a whistle a sticer and lolly pops what do I do whit her

Answer 1

Your Mom sound very confused. It does not sound like she is going to provide a very stable environment for you. I'm sorry to say but it seems like you need to let her work out her problems and make her own mistakes until she can make up her mind what she wants to do with her life.
I'm sure she wants you to be with her but is she really thinking straight to be dragging you all over the place and uprooting you?
I know you must hurt from all this and I am so sorry for you.
If your living situation where you are now is good and safe and you are ok there then I would stay put.

Answer 2

There are several things you can do with your mom.

1. Disown her.
2. Forgive her.
3. Tell her to call you when she gets her act together.
4. Tell her you need to talk then tell her how you feel.
5. Tell her you don't need her attitude in your life right now.
6. Tell her to call you in about 10 years.
7. Tell her that you need time to think.
8. Tell her that if she keeps up the attitude you'll turn gay.
9. Tell her that the time has come for her to grow up.
10. All of the above.

I don't envy you dude, just don't let her mess up your life. You need to understand your mom is mixed up and she's grasping for straws. Whatever you decide, good luck and God Bless.

TX Guy

Answer 3

Stay where your at, pray for her, and know that she has the problem it's not your fault. Talk to a counselor or preacher for ways to cope until Mom figures out what she wants.